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Old 08-31-2011, 01:07 AM   #1
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一个人独处的时候,常常想着别人对自己的好处,你就会善待对你好的每一个人。

那么你就愿意为他付出,你就愿意与他进一步接好,你就会使这种友谊不断巩固和

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一个人独处的时候,常常想着自己对别人的好处,你就会让自己的自我优越感不断

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我人格的完善,也不利于你的人际关系的和谐处理。


所以,当你遇到快乐的时候,你要记得克制,因为得意忘形,忘形伤本,忘本失
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一念善,皆是善。一念恶,皆为恶!所以要养成群处守口,独处守心的良好习惯!
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