one, on the life and work
I have an interesting reconnaissance, and more foreign companies are 25-35 year-old white-collar personnel, very few employees over the old of 40, twenties and thirties of foreign personnel is a high-spirited, but the foreign company managers around the age of 40 is very entangling. I've seen 40-year-old manager of the neighboring people, mostly foreign companies have been switched in the last jump mostly private, case in point, Jun Tang. The success of foreign personnel is largely the company's success, not individual success,
Nike Shox Butikk, Siemens than those of the United States great, but does not mean that the United States than the Chinese managers of Siemens boss strong, or even far worse. And into the foreign companies often do not understand this early, 90 percentage of his success due to their ability, in fact, just different foreign company does not give results, general manager of China, what a great impact. Well the question is, when these managers more than 40 years old, they become very high salary demands, but their talents are not so superior in fact, as a foreign company's boss, how would you choose? Some are just not high salary, to a bit of a capable and energetic young man, both, why should you use?
from the upon example, you can actually see the trajectory of our work, twenties and thirties, when the pressure of alive is still relatively small, the body is still relatively good health but also the parents of the upon Well, here they had no kid, no pledge remittances, and no kid to college, when a small foreign companies is still very sunny pearly, acquired more than enough flowers. But after all, to marry and have kid who, after all, would the old, the age of 40, parents and old, and to see a doctor to take medicine, should someone care, they have to have the pledge, to lead a basic decent living, to heave a child needs at that time ... ... was important enough to spend much money. So, look at the work, should look further ahead, the moment is higher or lower can not say what.
From this point on, I'm not too concerned about the first job in favor of the salary, but no need to contrast with the first job's salary, which is just out of medium school students is common. Normal about 35 years to work, which is like a marathon, and marathon real feud is that this game is not professional actors, everyone is only one chance. To kas long asthere are not many people even insist on the end, most people finally come to end, and only a few people ran to the end, so at the beginning of time, grab a leading position and did not make much sense . If the community when he first entered into the top 500 companies would be able to get the 3k-6k / monthly wages, and some special technical personnel may be able to 8k / month, the problem is, how much to take 5 years later? Estimated 5k-10k is quite a lot. Although the high starting point, but the increase was limited, and, after the young man to grab up with increasing pressure.
I asked me two days before a sale, you will be a pair of these things would have learned two years, but the new salary is required only your half of that time how do you do?
career as a sporting event, a prefatory circular, semi-finals, finals. Preliminary time we all just into the community, most of the strength of the mean person, this time a little solemn effort to make people stand out a bit soon, so some people in their twenties to do with the manager, who later also some eventually won the preparatory round, more than 30-year-old became the manager. Then the semi-finals, semi-finals are to participate in the preliminary round to win, everybody some skill, not a problem on the intelligence, then you want to win this time is not so easy, simply a little effort and cautious enough, have a lusty insistence, to know how to rely on the strength of the group, to know how to rein in people's minds, have long-term vision ... ...
look to win the semi-finals is not easy, but, not so difficult. Because the laws of this world is to give people a little success in the meantime people become complacent, just won the Preliminary often do not know is just to win the preliminary round, with a little success up a great many people will become complacent, that they have know all, do not need to re-learn, they will think that he could not further their cause is not a. Although they are still difficult to deal with, but they do not patience, there is no guest, the measure, and no clear long-term vision. Like an angry ox, although turbulent, will eventually be defeated, but won the rematch as the matador is the same person, not rash, followed his own beat, slowly running out of patience and physical opponents. After winning the semi-finals, is a very amazing about the vocational managers, and became general manager of small and media companies, large company's vice president in dictate of tens of millions or even hundreds of millions a year business.
finals to the final, to be honest I have not won the finals, the final crucial factor for only with their own speculation, this time winning or losing may like martial arts in written, as we are all masters, only to wait for each other made a blunder, in order to easily buffet the antagonist is not possible, in appending to all the stops on, need a little luck and time. The decrees of the earth continues to play a role, won the semi-finals of the people have not only arrogant, they are often opinionated and listen to other people, some people become peppery temper, the mood became impetuous, the body becomes worse, their biggest antagonist is their own, in the final to do is not defeated by their own, waiting fall butmeone to be their own hammer. This sport is the same as the last game between the main, to see who will win the final few mistakes.
Second, the source of the work
you pessimistic? Your work, okay?
have done fknow next to nothing ofme time did not feel very happy after work? There did not feel into the erroneous line? Do you feel he did not deserve the handling? There did not feel like work to work every day is a painful muddle? Have wanted to change jobs? In fact, there did not feel the company did not initially think so well? Do you feel this job is to find the original because of the pressure to survive, it is not suitable? You get what you want from work to get it? What you happy every day?
a lot of people angry on the horizon, have you ever thought, why do not you happy? Why are you angry?
In fact, the source of your unhappiness,
Billige Nike Shox, because you do not know what! You do not know what they want, so you do not know what to pursue, you do not know what to chase, so you get nothing.
I always feel that his career first care is their own,
Nike Shox Kvinner, what they want? Most people probably thought about this issue, the only idea is - I want a job, I want a good salary, I know everyone's appetite for pay, but you want every few years do it bring offto find a job in the process it? You want this for every year of work and salary perturbed to spend it? Do not want it, like really want to know. Harm than good, not because it desperately thirsty to nectar poison. The more worried, the more that they need a job, the more starving, they want to know, the more prone to failure, your experience is getting worse, people who work under a look at your resume to frown. So you Yuehe Yue thirsty, the more thirsty to drink more, into a vicious circle. We can only lament untimely or unjust entities, only to vent up a horizon, which find resonance in the loser's nought a mini psychological balance. Most people have to survive the pressure, I also have to survive the oppression there will be a lot of worry, athletic people will get power from anxiety, and negative people will be as anxious and disoriented. Everyone must make choices under pressure, which is troubled, like stuff whether you do not like saying.
generally divided into things we deal with important things, and urgent matters, if not the important thing will always urgent things to do. Such as physical exercise is important to maintain a healthy thing, and a medic is urgent matters. If you do not exercise to linger healthy, it will often worry for pain. Another example is the important thing to fire, but fire is the emergency, if necessary pay attention to fire hindrance, we must often fire. Looking for work, too, would like their own to what is really important thing, looking for work is urgent matters, if not good, it will always find work. Often urgent matters gives a relatively great pressure, forcing people to do rapidly, relatively speaking, but the important thing is not so much pressure, most people do things that are oriented in the pressure, under pressure, always felt that non- urgent things to do first, the result is always full of fire, never-ending time. (Many people also like the fire brigade's work as engaged as the pain, but also because there is no work to do important things.) Those who say they attend to live in grief in order to survive so many friends, today is difficult to find a job you did not The important thing to do, is the result not the cause. If today you still as eager to get a job without thinking, then perhaps in the future to continue to bear the pain of looking for work results.
I always feel I have to say the topic of heavy point, need a lot of thought, laughing to play than the Tang to the boring topic of armed police, however, there is no easy success, successful, to pay the price. Please forget all the pressure to survive, think this life is what you want most? Therefore, the most important things, like a good first what they want.
Third, what is Microsoft did a good job there
Tang Jun, a lot of young people feel that this university is that they strive to a career, where I made the post bbs Tsinghua those students who are disturbed by that time the students just want to go abroad or to foreign companies, but now it seems, I was right, to a grand Tang Jun, Chen the institution of a grand bridge, a private company. A extremely taught returnees in the top 500 companies in the high salaries of water, which is about the imagine of many young people, the problem is that each year graduates are doing in this dream, but only 500 good jobs.
people are to face, and it is like comparisons, even at work like comparisons, regardless of whether it is not what you want. We believe that foreign companies very good, but good where? Well, they better office space, which is what you want it? They voyage to live a better hotel, this is what you want it? A foreign company would be envious of other people's work, which is what you want it? That everything is for others to see, why do you want to live so hard for others to see? On the other hand, the general welfare of their salary, and not particularly great, they are fewer opportunities for improvement, it is difficult to achieve very high-level administrator, although they often repulsion overtime, but did not dare not to work overtime, because is a human stem You want to clear it? 500 must be good? What job is to consider what you want, or consider what other people want to see?
most of my college students are to the United States, and even graduated so many years, also recently went abroad. Abroad is really so good? My college students, most or Ph.D., postdoctoral fellows, visiting savants struggled, by far only a chaste at an American university to get a formal instructing. What is difficult when the servant professors? I have several cousins also went abroad, and their parents at home lonely, no one to take care of, there are several people collapsed at family, no one knows, to go abroad, really so glorious it? Like someone said, What is the best? That you think is the best, because you really understand, or because people say he is the best? Even if he is the best for others, for you must be the best of it?
for what they want, they should know best, the views of others not so important. Many people are always other people's opinions are often inspired by the views of relatives, friends, opinions, views of colleagues ... ... The question is, who you really are to lead a life? Person's life than their parents life outcome, nor is it a prequel to their children's life more than a friend's life outdoor the chapter, only you is responsible for his own life, others can not and can not take this responsibility. Make their own decisions, at least until the end, their nothing to regret. For most people, normal intelligence, no major decisions made right or wrong, no matter how kind of choice, you can try. For example, you do not test yourself on that school, not into this industry now, this life does not go up? Will it fail? Not necessarily.
I think agreeable work should be suitable as your work, specifically, is to give you what you want to work, you may be in array to amount your What nice work, prefer than take the company's size, scale, foreign or state-owned companies, is not known, is not a listed company to measure. Small companies, not necessarily a good enterprise, a lot of work to make money, not necessarily a good job. You still must premier figure out what you want, if you do not know what you want, you ambition not ascertain a good job, because you always merely penetrate what you obtain, you obtain, are you do not want.
possible, the best, has been on your side, but, you do not learn to adore. Not someone people are always staring at the expense of those who have got someone.
four ordinary
I base the Chinese folk and alien inspirational inspirational presence is very assorted from China's extra to encourage people to set a excellent inspirational volunteer, Revival, one day as rich as you. And overseas to encourage people to stand up to more inspirational real life, face the plight of mediocre people, nevertheless the outcome is as rich as you, yet not the same as the beginning point, relatively speaking, I meditation the latter is more realistic in operation, meantime the former absences piled with 999 losers to a successful fable.
we are all ordinary people, ordinary people average that the probability of this is very precise. Therefore, we will not buy a lottery of 500 million, we will not be Bill Gates or Li Ka-shing, we will not fly fall, few of us who will be business success, 30% of us who will divorce, most of us will live over 65 years old ... ...
So you are analytic what they want when the seek for , apologetic, I can not help you. Li Ka-shing such as Bill Gates or who rely on life, and look at the article I wrote will not let you become them, even now you become them, and definitely not my credit this article. Target was higher for people who enjoy the dare is good, but for most ordinary people, but relatively easy to become discouraged and needy, it is easy to give up.
look back and say, Li Ka-shing 50 times less money than you, he is more than you unhappy? Perhaps. There are no more than 50 times you happy, certainly not. He also fun than a double you up, even now you may not be happy. Not find what you want, and others games, more than anybody else quest for higher and more ambitious than anyone else. Although this goal is very intent as Li Ka-shing, but you would not necessarily pursue this goal and objective process to be happy, but basically you can not do. You must listen to your inner voice, looking really happy to make you get something, and that is what you want.
you want, or we call it the target, in fact, and no ranking points, you do not need no one else because of his high goals and I am sorry, actually fulfill their goals successfully, some small success, happiness is the same. We chase success, in fact, is the pursuance of happiness brings success, not success itself. Career route, we will be the competitive intellect often blindfolded, forget the pursuance of what is forgotten is what makes us happier.
society flourishes on the newspaper a lot of these messages will always be in our hearts which set off a lot of ripples, ripples into waves more on my heart In addition to the waves overturned the ship carrying your goals, and will not make you rich overnight. The thief did not get pounded on Annaibuzhu, or mind activity, or a large sense of injustice, do you really want to cry a bandit, but did not defiance.
I had ordinary day, to the delight of ordinary people, at least, fall resting at night nap.
five, quit and accumulation
first like to say work is a need for advisable things, so do not play identity at work, on the horizon may be very personal and people think you are acclaimed, the Company telephone companies will not think you are very personal and free your bill. When you are very handsome to sack your boss, when you dig up some chilly to the recruitment of HR, or to take or pay bills, but you have less time to make money, in addition to yourself, no one losses.
I am not opposition change jobs, but job-hopping is not a solution, and the consequences of prevalent job-hopping is to let people think no loyalty at all, and can not work without entertainment. A lot of people looking for work from the Internet, a lot of people looking for work sites are often out of some stupid idea, to kas long asthey are gainful enterprises, of lesson, profit from their own perspective, we frequently change jobs more frequently the more business they are looking for work booming, so encouraging people to leave their job. So they will often narrate you that you get fewer salary, and you enjoy the benefits worse, is As a result you will not feel at ease, whether you bound a tank to solve the problem, whether it is more fun, that they have not control.
to quit there is definitely a problem, in general, the problem occurred, is immune to hide a lot of people quit because one way or another are not happy, if this is not happy at my current company is not solved, the next most companies can not supply to have resolved. You must believe that 90% of cases, your company is not so bad, you think good companies are not as good. As Siege says, Change in the environment you do not know what will encounter problems with this, as in the present to solve the problem out. A lot of problems when you really want to solve the time, perhaps not so difficult. Sometimes you think the problem is not solved, in fact, that only
twists and corners of life's curve should be upward, but the base sometimes encountered ascent trend is always the tangles and turns, not as often as the pulse behind to the beginning, I have seen a lot of interviewers, more than 30 years old, four or five copies of work experience, as many as three years each, ranging from 1, 30 year-old behind to the beginning when starting from a primary position and began, to take the elementary salary of the primary, and 20-year-olds to compete, do not feel a bit hard it? Those days are better than what?
depend aboard chief collection, this accumulation, including interpersonal relationships, experience, contacts, word of mouth ... if often change the manufacture, characterizing the accumulation of consumed annuals, all from scratch, if it was double the manufacture, only about 35 annuals antique 5 years of accumulation, and a not changed in the industry have at fewest 10 years accumulation, who dominate? 2-3 years to work, when numerous people think is not working well, as if to a obstruction, sensibility bored, wanted to resign, even for one industry, I feel so all can put alongside all the troubles, many better. Actually, this just makes you start from scratch, to the time will happen and the difficulties of the incipient industries, survive above the cross took a big tread up, to kas long aseveryone goes via this process, each person's profession comes along a few obstruction, you survive the others do not survive you forward. Long-distance running who will know, the beginning of the very easy, but soon there will be the first uneasy, but after this time can run for a long phase, then the second encounter uncomfortable, insisted that behind the but also ran some, and so along, severe embarrassment each time, until not get on. Most people can not stand the first time, and some people can cling to the second, third even though you hold on, but did not work to a few people here, and this capital settled ample to live this life you the.
a job to two or three years time, most of the people will become skilled at this time tend to fall into the constant duplication, a lot of people will feel tired, some people will feel that they have get to know anything, so do not bother to quest progress. Change jobs often lose interest because I think, and feel that they have completed the game. In fact, this time the game has only just begun, work two or three years, regardless of whether the customer relationships, contacts, men, relationships and leadership in the industry's reputation ... ... these are insufficient, but the results were slightly always feel good, everyone felt terribly steel with customer narrations, felt very good reputation in the industry. In fact, you can say for sure, definitely not, at this time or the energy to come up to the first two years, moving steadily, accumulating only just begun.
you know enough about your purchasers? You know his biggest fret is? You know enough about what your boss? You know his biggest anxiety is? You know enough about what your hands? You know his biggest worry is? If you do not know, how can you feel that they have amassed enough? If you do not know, how do you let them help you a prefer, do you want them to do? If they do not do the asset you want them to do, how can you successful?
six, waiting
This is a fickle people least preference subject, did not want to say that this topic, because it will cause too much argument, but I do not intend, and dispute that, but considering the long-term blueprinting for career, this is a can not lest the topic, decided to write a write, do not favor it amuse leave it.
not always wear the red light will be hit by a car, not every criminal will be caught, not Each error will be penalized, not every corrupt official will be shot, not your every effort will be rewarded, not adhere to every time you see someone will not pay you can get every point just in return, not each one of your good aims can be understood ... ... This is the troubled world. Well, morals are not good enough, but you have the courage to overturn the morals of it? If not, you have a better solution to it? Many times, people need a little patience, a little confidence. Everyone always turn to several injustices, normally, is the best way to wait for truce of mind.
many times we need to wait, need to solitude, waiting even now belongs to you. Chow Yun Fat wait too, had to wait for Andy Lau,
Nike Shox, Stephen Chow to wait too, had to wait for Faye Wong, Zhang Yimou must wait too ... ... to see their now successful adults, you may must wait and see had their perseverance? Have you ever seen a street vendor in the street Golden Horse medalist? Have you ever seen a group of people in Devon community theater to an spectators that comic? You may have seen Stephen Chow's role are not even a line? Each winner has a deep depression of the day, I can almost imagine the look out their heavy drinker, I can dream them struggling to survive distress. In their lives the most pretty in the gorgeous days, they want to succeed, but empty-handed, as you now. No assure that they will be successful in the future, and their choice is durability of loneliness. If at the time they always talking about the
have some I do not understand why people do not have to than I have the ability to sit on my head on older than I would have to be my leading it? Why do some Black people do not need to be able to make money? Why just the time of reform and opening up people can be so easy to make money, and when our turn, what should be formalized? One day I suddenly thought, I was in school when they were struggling in the community struggle, they struggle in the society has accumulated more than two decades, we have new people come, some of them I like, I is not in to be just, this is to rob me. I quest too quickly, because I could not help but alone. Twenty-year-old man, no money, no career, there is the desire to flourish.
people will always be setbacks, the people There will always be low, and always will be, when not understood, people always have to be humble, when these times it is precisely the most critical time of life, because we are frustrated, and most people could not pass this threshold, you can too, you will be successful. At such moments, we need to be patient, to wait with confidence, I believe, will not give up your life, opportunities always come. At least, you're young, you do not go to jail, no students can not cure the disease, since there is no debt owed is not. Unfortunately, far more people than you more than than you lucky people, you afraid of what? Way to go step by step, although it approaches the end of a very exciting step, but most of the pace is amazing even boring, but without these steps, unable to bear the ordinary or boring, you can not usher in the final at last those incited people.
adversity, God help your antagonists out of place. You know, you feel good and others feel good, you could not get on, others, too, do not tell people you can not hold, it would only allow others to wakehold confidence that competitors look at you smile face, loss of confidence out of the marathon. Victory belongs to those who have the patience of the people.
in the most desperate, I will go to the videos. The Pursuit of Happyness When all the people leave, I do not lose hope, I do not give up. Sitting in the automobile every day after work, I like buzzing
VII into line with the right people for
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in China, probably very few someone is a job to do in the end, although thfirst and foremost job or are in need of attention, there are two things especially important, the first thing is to join, the second thing is with people. First job is the greatest impact on people to join the modern department of labor is very small, we basically can only become an expert in one industry can not become experts in multiple industries. Many cases have demonstrated that even a very successful person in an industry to another industry, is often not so completely back to things, Apple said when joining a result of the very successful John in Pepsi to Apple flat. In fact, no industry especially good, and no industry, particularly needy, which the industry may be reported that the average salary is relatively high, but they did not say is that the industry average pressure is relatively large. Once the industry looks beautiful only to find many places is not perfect, but outsiders can not see.
be frank, I did not get rich, so my suggestion is just make people happy working suggestion,
Nike Shox R3, the proposition is not how to get rich, we only consult the ordinary position of emigrant laborers. In my opinion there is not much choice of what industry and the relationship to see if the problem can not just eyes. For example, from the before year, the state began to rationalize the health care industry, many pharmaceutical companies are not going to open, a lot of the pill industry's sales started to change jobs. In fact, the slump in the pill industry for all companies, not for a company, everyone's life is not easy, this is not worth the time to run away, maximum pharmaceutical companies, even without prim assist two or 3 years of fashionable business always sustain a crowd of pharmaceutical bargains along salary support also can aid two or three years, the state holds the pharmaceutical industry can not always hold, the scene is always two or three years will get better, that when others are run and you do not run, then the day should be a lot better. Sometimes feel this industry to die, the question is then not the industry, few people can do to become a good trade, when we all feel bad, but it is often the best time. We all feel the fiscal industry is good, the fiscal industry is not that lofty threshold, how many people Xiaojiannaodai to excavate into tournament and incentive, but also often see into the future, an oversight, who was later to mobbing out, under great strain, How can we talk about happiness? Will not necessarily
solar energy this thing still can not enter the stage of practical applying, but China has 7 and solar narrated companies listed on the NYSE, and Gome, Suning Paradise is trade-oriented enterprises, but also listed Lutai Textile profit growth for 10 successive years, more than 50%, selling tea in a tea one, selling clothing Sea Orchid House are to mall ... ... in fact, what the industry is really important referendum, the key is how to do it. People to do things that are out, the opener is people.
there is one thing to memorize, this world, until we can ever get foretell the future, Successful people are always a few, are always a few rich people, most people are regular, ordinary, less successful. Therefore, most people's movements and views, often not from the success of the recent practices and views. So most people say good things not good, most people say good things are not necessarily bad. Most people, when stocks go down just a matter of time shows, the more enthusiastic when we, or the day closer. Most people purchase a house when the prices will not ascend, and costs rose to about the same time, that the most people start to buy a house. Not have such a thing so that everyone becomes successful, made a luck, never in history have had, and will not occur. Even if the good luck that some things have been, or will other places at other times lost.
young people in the beginning of his career, with particular attention to is the right thing to do Do not let your life for decades to come always nervous, but not worth a job and lose his own teens. My company is not a bribe company, before a lot of people do not understand, or even their own workers do not understand, but now, we are the largest corporate peers, customers happy and we deal with, principally when the fight against corruption in the country, each individuals kas long aswe do not give money to business reputation, have dared to do business with us. The courage to give money to the company, not the other path, that is, run, or another sleep well every day, people still look at the long-term point. In many cases, it seems the nearest road, is the farthest way, it seems distant way, in fact, is the nearest road.
with people is that, after connecting the good teachers to keep a good leader, he first entered the community people do things often do not experience, need someone to words and deeds. For a person's development, it was a good leader is very important. The so-called
First of all, a good leader to have a spacious idea, if a leader every day, vexed, and that almost certainly not a broad-minded people who can not temper tantrums when the leadership is mostly very mighty leadership. When the Chinese leadership can not tolerate the biggest problems is the ability to better than they were, so we often see a phenomenon is very competent leadership, a group of men a group of mediocre men or idlers. If you see such an environment, or do not go well.
Second, under the leadership point of view to be willing to think the publish, which is from the interview time can be found, if the leadership is always considered from the viewpoint of their own problems, nearly did not hear to what you say, this hazardous. From the subordinate's point of view the problem is not to say on benefit of consent under, but he must understand the position of subordinates, subordinates why think so, then he will have the manner to convince you, how to concern only about their own leadership is often tough to convince subordinates to acquire .
third, leadership the spunk to take responsibility if a problem put the responsibility down to shove, there the credit would go visit depersonalize, such leadership is not worth mentioning now. Choose leaders, to choose the leadership of critical moments Kangde Zhu, competent to pay under the wrong leadership, because it is his responsibility as a leader.
likely, you can not touch a good governor, because China's leadership is constantly judged to head butt leading, as he sat leadership position, so his words are more rational, which is the traditional concept of lawful criterion peccadilloes, there may be a lot of this inexperienced and incompetent leadership, but it is really good for you, if future One day you must pass him, you want him more intelligent or more stupid? In fact, such a leadership is relatively simple to get, but you should figure down to equitable their own. Learn more almost some of the people, more and better than they are dealing with people, can too find a good instructor, not to a team of depressed people with the same complaint society, complaints employer, this can not aid you, will only make you more negative. And those dealing with people better than you, to see how they think, how do they learn, and then handle with more people.
; eight, select
Every day we do most things, in fact, is to choose, so when talking about his career must mention this topic.
I have always trusted that, to a colossal extent, if we will convert a kind of human the right to decide on our own, every day we do a diversity of alternatives, I can not jot this article, go to someone else's post pat brick, you can jot these words to help others and also finishing own ideas, I can let others disburse more attention to the emulating format easy to read, you can also write a bunch, so I made up, you can also see at the issue several times ahead, you can choose not to mow went to the interview, you can Choose a look in the mirror in front of ... ... Every day, every moment we are doing this or that decision, we can casually, you can also cost some thought, adds up to tens of thousands of small selection, the final decision is what we kind of person.
In a sense, our future is not given by others, is our own choice, Many people will say that I am Bitter ah, did not must choose A, if you think little choice, most people no choice. But every day you can choose whether to be more attentive customer service number, whether colleagues more patient, whether some of the more detailed work done, whether to understand the situation more clearly, the issue is not clear whether the re-clarify some of the ... you can also choose whether to persist to adhere in pain, those are discarded their negative thoughts, whether to excuse a mistake, believe that I am here to write these words, if only to make the same mistake ... ... live every day to give you the chance to choose, every day to give you the opportunity to change their life, you can choose to rely on the floor Sapo roll, teeth can also choose to stand up. You always have choices. Some choices are not immediate clash, the need to accumulate, such as farmers can choose their own often go to irrigation, you can choose to allow God to gush, be sure you are watering down today seedlings may not grow now today, but often poured water, most of the seedlings will eventually grow back, if you do not water, the crop must be very bad.
in daily life give you the opportunity, he will not give you a stack of money does not over to give you a good job, but in fact, he was giving you the opportunity. My family is an ordinary family, without any great social relations, my dad in college after graduation was assigned to the boundary, the little town is only a road, their generation is actually more than we have reason to complain, what they did not get, the Cultural Revolution, when young, did not have to read the writing, support border Chaduilahu, until the old, but give the young a accident. He has good reason as thousands of young people as the same as sitting there complaining about untimely grievances. However, after ten years assigned to the border of the state to restore recruit graduate students, he quizzed back to the original school. Graduate school, he was assigned to a small element in Anhui, is 3 years later, the first state to recruit PhD, he returned to the original school examination, to become China's first generation, Ph.D., then of him than I am now age is still large. Did not give up his life, he did not give up life. 10 years of waiting, he made his own choice, he did not give up, he did not 破罐子破摔, so when the time comes, he changed his life. You will eventually become the kind of person, on every little decision to choose between you.
you choose to believe? You choose and who to make friends? What do you choose? How do you choose? ... We face too many choices, and those choices were, than the ideological class, the objective conditions of choice and the choice is much more important, such as choosing what product is not so important, and the choice of how to do was important. It does not matter what people choose to use, with the choice of how important these people. Most of the time choose the objective conditions and it does not matter, most of the objective conditions on the choice and no right or wrong, what matters is to choose how to do it. A seminary graduate, he was going to Microsoft Ye Hao, Ye Hao he sell pork, he should start Ye Hao, he wants the game Leveling mind, but whatever does not break the law, not impair, all does not matter, what matters is chosen later, how to make things better.
In addition to these, you can also choose the time and the environment, for example, you can choose to put the most life difficulties on the most physical of the most energy when you can see step by step, until the 40-year-old repeatedly, only to the 40-year-old, that's what life's most vulnerable time, under the old and small, if hit a career crisis at that time, it is a very distressing thing. Such as its 20-year-old 30 years old eat hard, so that their brittle silence some of the time to live. You can choose to grow in a greenhouse, you can choose to sharpen the field, you can choose to turn up the airconditioning in the bureau work, you can choose under the 40 degree heat, to see your customers, but all this will eventually accumulate to adviser should get you to your future.
I can not say all the things you have have to choose But most of the things you have a choice, but often you do not see this as an option. Seriously every choice, will have a better future.
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career choices, in common, nothing more than sales , marketing, customer service, logistics, government, workers, finance, technology, management of several categories, there is an interesting phenomenon is that the CEO of 500 is surrounded the largest sales backdrop, and the second is the financial backdrop and more people, either were probably increase up to more than 95%. Modern technology came from the IT industry has become the boss, but in fact, later they are still engaged in a lot of sales and marketing work, and famous performance, the company was a success, relies entirely on the technical capabilities to become the boss, and almost did not. This is a reason, because sales is a science dealing with people, and the management is actually dealing with people's learning, either among the many things in general, their mutual goal is to specific things.
small when the company is the guiding sales company, and the company is large when the financial leading companies, sales is restricted in the digit look do not look human, financial constraints that do not look to see human figures. The initial, cheap operating costs, have orders to live down, nor anybody negotiations with the client's condition, others are willing to do business has been a blessing, this time the order overriding, overwhelming the customer's requirements, so we need to take the human. After the big companies,
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I am not advocating we all do the sales or finance, how to choose what kind of job, and you How to choose what kind of life are related, some people like to work in time to go home, take a look at books and listening to music, that's good, but not suitable for sale to find a job, otherwise they will be tortured themselves. Some people liked the limelight, like creature the megalopolis of a group of people, if you choose to do financial work, probably soon thereafter, because the boss does not like the general financial too assured, do not like to finance it too much. Be prepared to lead their own kind of life, and then decide what kind of job are looking for. There are a lot of unhappy, in fact, is derived from satisfied, not satisfied, are often derived from the unsettled and uncertain heart is not clear accurate what they want because it is not clear to what the result is everything you want , the result has been nothing.
I think we or because life work, not because of work and life, life is most important, work is just chapter of life. I always feel that all aspects of life are interdependent, if life itself is a mess, it will not work smoothly. So there must be distraction, there must be social, to exercise, there must be harmony of the kin ... the most important thing, to be happy, I find I have two sales conversation, a stomach painful, I asked them two years ago, what you no, wages are not high, there is no customer relationship, not performance, is to be open edge, you now a lot better condition than it was then, why now even more happy? If you do, the better the less happy, then why did you work? First and foremost, ahead of, people still make their own happy attach, so that my mind better, this change of heart will make you more patient, more confident, more disposition, more inclusive ... ... otherwise, look at the mirror inside you, you are satisfied it?
Some people will say, you say easy, I work overtime every day, no overtime will be the boss I launched, die exhausted every day, how can there be time for pastime, social, training? That is the goal that people set too high, the reason, if you are still fired at every turn will be the brim of the boss, then you surely can not be set too high a goal, do not you want to melodrama golf every day? You do not have time to go the gym, but the time to work more than a few steps you can take it, hike the stairs are stairs when the hoist does not go right? Office space shilly-neck elbow doing push-ups Lara can, right? Who provides training on a certain day, 2 hours to come to the gym? You do not have time to socialize, be it once a month to participate in journeys, weekend classes to heed, what kind of melody, drawing classes and the like can it, to attempt to understand some of his peers, and they look for opportunities to commute the exchange can not you? The beginning is always some trouble, but this step will be taken to a virtuous circle intention. Work every day very depressed, depressed the repose of the time to chew, only into a vicious circle, make life worse.