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Observation of a psychiatrist on the family 1: a love to complain about the strength of

Mr. Ruan Gutou the wife does not know, she happens to be more amenable because his bones.
early in the child's psychological development, the role of mother than father. Think of the child from the mother's body and weapon gradually separated, you believe that this view is not wrong. Relationship with her mother almost every man determines whether sufficient sense of security, intimacy, pleasure and growth impetus. His father was his first important growth and associate self-identity and pacemaker.

psychiatrist in the face with neurotic conflicts (fear, depression, anxiety, etc.) and behavioral disorders in adults and children, the need for early relationship between mother and son or daughter to do detailed inquiry, we can often find a very rigid mother is right or there is a very responsible parent as closely similar strict father. And deal with such families, to convince the mother to give them to make mistakes that Because the mother is definitely a very reasonable person, do things always reasonable, the man has done diligently, when the mother when the wife also as very seriously. And they talk, you often feel a little shortness of expiration, a little bit wrong.

early in the fifties, a psychiatrist in the family therapy proposed tendency, while the other has become dependent and weak, their submissive. Children growing up as a normal relationship between this tilt will lose the ability to become equal relationship, or dependence, or power.


observation of the family psychiatrist 2: Tilt
you afraid of?


balance is the first rule of family relationships, slant is different kind of balance.
in clinical treatment, I often observed that the role of the mother being too strong, so the father's role in the children grow up to be weakened, or even divorced families were forced to The relationship, intimate relationship with education. The imbalance, the interaction between the child and the mother, not because of the emotional impact of his father into the buffer space, and have lost for adaptable behavior in the parents right to choose the child and the mother's behavior to the response mode is simplistic and not subject to obedience. Over time, the growth momentum is suppressed, change and against the desire to be depleted, resulting in delayed mental development of children. As the performance of the comic book, the mother of the child's aggressive and timid father became a stark contrast.
Thus, to suppress the involuntary psychiatrist mother, forcing mother back a bit, and then help his father a hand in the center as the position of children is relatively easy. In fact, the family therapist does not rush to the scene on the shade of negation, In other words, there is no father of a coward, and will not appear a powerful mother, who is due to the two difficult to differentiate who is the fruit.
kin therapists apt tilting as a path of family, of children's problems is right and wrong or damaging the relationship to preserve. If families ambition their kid to the problem works away, inquire if the family relationship namely compliant to change first inclined to watch a poised relationship in question will be how the child changes, this is the choice of the family.
strong sense of right and wrong unconscious psychological doctors will act as the family magistrate who criticized the looks strong, in fact, very exhausted mother, painful heart, have a great resistance to treatment, or even cause family therapist in disgust.
sage doctor to seek an alliance with the mother, the mother's strong assist.
The worst thing for a doctor tried to help the mother, In fact, most of the children's behavior disorders are initially point to the families, especially those closest point - the mother. There are changes to the child, parents should take the lead have changed.


observation of the family psychiatrist 3: Balance
you can not disregard the child.
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mother and child tightly intertwined, and sometimes not to blackmail the husband, but to protect themselves!
In some families, we often see a very authoritative father, rap and connivance of the mother over the spoiled child, not disappointing the children wholeheartedly adhesion mother.
Mother-child relationship namely a male may be endless distress in idea. Red-faced when you and your wife, you tin peruse from the child's eyes the alarm or inflame, you phoned him If you're decided to give them some bitterness, some clumsy looking child, you will swiftly find themselves in a embarrassment, because anyone children are certainly attributed to dissatisfaction with his wife, this is the kindness of a hole became an immediate ass hepatopulmonary .
Emotional appendix to a parent to maintain the megalopolis of the family, mothers and children constitute a compensatory This family relationship, the child is father of the thighs of a In others, this kind of mother with two children, an is never long immature husband, a child will not grow up.
third classification deep attachment to acquire internal stability. In general, the mother love the child from birth to the age of two can not be separated between a mother and the interdependence of state, the mother will be personality dependent on the depth of intimacy that brings pleasure by the intoxication, so that the child Addiction. In this family, the mother of the child to sleep with their children a great time, my father was often the lobby or small house sleeping passengers. Sometimes, personality may be a weak father, the family or the edge of emotional wandering, he had to rely on him to please the mother to maintain the position in the family.


observation of the family psychiatrist 4: Oedipus
child never thinks his mother ... ...!
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when her husband have not grown up, the mother of the union and sometimes also for compensation for family functions.
along to family pathology, said, The 'props'. As the mother role, emotional association of the child on the admission and internalization of a strong character in the development of the child's self-repressed, this repression will proceed into adolescence and was violently released. Similarly, close to the boy over the mother's gender identity and ######uality developmental tarry, many of the boys put the heart in any circumstance India does not engraved off of the
understanding of the relationship of mother-child alliance and psychological treatment may be two different things, psychological therapists will not rigidly cling to these simple logic to treat the
general we first accept this alliance is a compensation for state of family narratives in the new balance is not firmly established, With this conception into the family, psychologists can better maintain the position of neutrality and broader viewpoints. We will bypass the cunning of a non-family members to give us cause and effect, not to deed as education or family narrations mediator. We are what the family presents to us a high degree of respect and recognition, and to coordinate future development of the family to find a variety of changes may, in order to decrease the anxiety within the family. We do not discuss family why, or the child Why is this or that problem, on the contrary, we are happy to agree that we know nothing about the causes of the problem (fool). We are only willing to discuss this with the family, If families choose to change and also how to create a new relationship and how to maintain the sustainability of change.
In therapy, family therapist and family are willing to sit with a pew, if the family secondhand to sit opposite, so that families of children will fall into trouble darting vexed over, that is tragic, will bear away.


observation of the family psychiatrist 5: Bound
seems to not work anyway.
not to work is never wrong! People to work, always from the mistakes began.

communicating with their children in the relationship between the level and content of the visible rebuttal between the level, the family exchanges to amplify a conflict of uncertainty, the family members do not know each other, or complain that they are concerned about their own. As the father said: Bateson scenario is that this conflict have schizophrenic children, the determinants or emotional disorders.
in Chinese culture, parents like to put on the child's anger, hid in a seemingly concerned about the child, the more the bad relations between parents and children,Gucci Shoes 2010, the more easily through the to vent their dissatisfaction with their children. Result, the content level of the child are in a long time to be concerned about the ambiguity between the level of abuse scenario was, and still can not withstand these comments or conflicting information. Children will slowly through conflicting information to escape punishment, to twist the behavior to deal with all relationships, lost the right to develop the ability to understand themselves and others, there personality differentiation delay.
cartoon angry mother said to her daughter: expectations, but also express a displeasure and complained to her daughter. Daughter to the mother's emotional balance, felt that something about it. Daughter to mother, said: Is an expression of compliance, even a deliberate to amuse, but hidden inside a defensive, afraid to continue the exchange with his mother. Mopping the layer when the daughter, if the mother received praise, the response successful heart be satisfied, mopping the floor behavior into an engine for growth. But her mother called loudly: are the transmission, transformation and change is no way out. Not mopping the floor, the mother must continue to endure the accusations and blame; to mop the floor to bear the new accusations and blame the mother, are not happy anyhow. Because the information from the mother conflict, and have actually been the driving force to make children grow weaker. The feelings the child is:
observation of the family psychiatrist 6: Contradiction
you stab me vain!



Many children
in the
deal with such a If the parents are the social elite, the child may not be so lucky to get away, talk to the parents and children do not strike a conversation will touch on the child's
Research psychologists 塞奥多尔利兹
essence families in the growing child maladjustment, family status that the higher the more the child's psychological problems, solve the crux of the problem and more trouble. From the genetic point of view, deserving to the high IQ children, they and their parents,
psychiatrist see the problems many children's education is properly supposed in an offer to educate parents on ways to attain a balance of communication within the family, this idea may be good, but the achieve is difficult to predict. Some parents hear to the recommendations of psychologists in the education children become binding the hands, no haphazard moments, so that the child's psychological development at even greater risk.
wise not to make things difficult for parents, therapists. In contrast, in the child's parents before the show enough respect and recognition. We will re-describe the family home with a We give children the We would also like to change the hearts of parents to educate their children translated sense, giving him a bag hidden in the sinking of education in the heart of selfless love. We will use the child's problem and give the parents a extensive display of self, so that parents become more like a good parent, the child is more like a good boy. The aim is to give us the hint: 7: split
child, or my Hello!



be superhuman if the baby's Na Zha, may be competent to meet the multiple needs of parents!
comic scene in the psychology of family relations is another specification - Leeds study of children mental illness (manic suppressing disease) found that: within the family do not form a good architecture and role differentiation between husband and wife too much independence, lack the necessary emotional communication and intimacy dependence. Strange Bedfellows or a couple, their alienation, hostile competition, desperately trying to get loyalty from the children there, and close, causing the child unable to adapt. Children will feel a strong solidarity within the family instability and the magnitude of quick development from a self-control, to meet or sway in the family relationship between antagonistic ideas or one or the other mode, with the self of family relationships to meet the needs of parents in order to maintain the unity of family separation, conflict and harmony. In such a family relationship, the balance is by the kids the courage to But there will always be a limit of compensation, once the buffer fails, the child may be in big trouble, or excessive control themselves - depression, or is the vent of the out of control - madness, and continues to swing in both emotional state. Excessive control of the child may be potential conflict in such families would curb deep in his heart and become adult neurosis or psychosomatic disease, psychological roots. But like a rebellious child out of control

psychiatrist observed 8 on the family: do you helpless
benzene, do no agreeable is your benzene.

in adults appears to be what the seraphim, the children in mind is the monster!
Double Bind the child, inner conflicts persist, accumulate a lot of anxiety. Psychologists into the kind of family, easy to sympathize with children. If the wishful thinking of trying to teach parents to eradicate conflicts within the family, information, and self-esteem can lead to a strong demand for the pessimistic parents. Result, the children's office in fear, and sometimes had to express psychological therapists and parents do not like to Antagonistic or offensive to the desires of the child, such children to educate and encourage confrontation and blame the parents for parents in an awkward position in front of doctors, lacking self-respect.
many desire a sense of the psychological authority of doctors, keen to instill psychological thoughts to the family, education the parties, that such and such can be peace and harmony. There understanding of the parents have the perception can still do so on the understanding is not high or deep tangled family conflict, psychological wisdom is double-edged sword, helping at the same time impair deeper, make families self-judgment and self-renewal of lost power, the family into a bigger emergency and difficulties.
lesson, many families are also happy to push all the troubles to the therapist, the child psychiatrist huge and small have come to make a decision to make a gifted therapist under the inner surface wretched .
smart family therapist will bypass the value of family communication patterns to determine, through family modeling (in the consulting room of a psychological drama in the family) so that parents and children to experience the level in the relationship with each other The closeness of close to far, causing their internal associations. And create new communication modes, trigger a new emotional experience, to subserve the family's expectations for the future. Conversations with family, need to be flexible to avoid the publishing of the Family view of right and wrong and replaced by the introduction of an effective or ineffective judgments.
psychiatrist looks good to a lot of family teaching usages and theory of parent-child relationship the shelf and find a very individualized thing, to solve the crux of the family. When the transportation of information will give families some kind of value judgments or trigger new conflicts, the therapist willing to play a opaque role,Womens Gucci Flats, and by showing a variety of communication to deal with incompatible information in the home, interest free to whisper to make changes on the family . When the family fully updated, the family will find all the good decisions come from their own.
observation of the family psychiatrist 9: weakness
God! His bones to go there?
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to children curving below, are the genetic parents Genetic?
Another more difficult
twice bound, poorly differentiated in personality or mawkish split families, children follow the father, mother or either will obey with the additional creature reprehended, whether to do everything parents can not be assured or negate point of view. Sometimes their own parents in array to avoid conflicts with views with bullies, or to their own ways, reciprocal non-interference. Children can neither find the rules in the family, but also the formation of telling communication can not be all things have their parents look by his face, suspect their parents thought, it is difficult to follow.
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was 28 years old, can not do anything, what people can not touch, was diagnosed as schizoid mental disorders. Observation of his family, his parents found there is no appropriate communication between the mother to shut up talking father, mother, father, also installed to listen speak. As street parties and the father, and her father rarely return to the home. I also found the exchange between the parties with the mother rarely, less than one million may not open, open also some slightly doubtful voice, but the behavior that is very understanding. He was very close with his mother, his mother guess what you want, whether you want to understand you do not seem so important. The family's father's personality differentiation is relatively cheap, introverted, ineloquent, apathy between husband and wife, family communication is not formed, or can lead to interaction between members of circular things.
my efforts is to reproduce the family communication patterns to reduce the mother's alternative to tangle with the love between mother and child to promote the client's psychological development.
in the treatment, we must recognize this reality, the mother continued the family's tangled emotional essence, in the want before the birth of a new balance, you can only reserve it respect. My mother said: I have children, said: age, the son of
new role, my son's face became clear, the language can see clearly.
when a weak function of the family when his father, to family stability, parent knot is effortless to form, many psychological dependence medic advised the mother to the buffer mechanism of society, and gradually the emotional needs of children from mother turned to the community. Such as encouraging children and their peers, classmates, neighbors, teachers exchange, respect friendship, love of life and nature and so on. Many children of penniless character development, encouraged by this, will gradually lead the way to find your own mental, physical and mental development of amends.
observation of a psychiatrist on the family 10: Caring
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family therapist into a family, like to focus on the family may exist in some internal taboos. We will ask the child, someone the family can only be felt, not explained. We often find that almost all households know next to nothing of content in the commute of constraints on benefit of the family's cultural awareness class of rights and the family
to see such a scenario:
children home happy, incited and said: Do not be happy, tell me the best results in your class how much?
father then said:
accumulation of smiling faces to be children, elated lost, hid in his house, the parents have a smile on his face, said:
worry that their child can not open shared pride and joy of children, so that communication within the family has become boring, kids want their parents coincide that the passion has also been thwarted. May be cultural reasons, Chinese parents used to make decisions for their children, eat the small to the wearing, large study of employ, as if the parents do not cautiously control is dereliction of obligation. Most children do not like Korean music and like to watch Korean drama's parents talk to the feeling of Korean culture, if this is asked for certain obnoxious. Preferences feisty child's father did not dare discuss with the same Victory relationships, even now the debates will also be some false words. Many children were forbidden to discuss the parents of the right or wrong, or the love between parent involvement activities.
parents intended for children, good for children to create the ideal living space, the result is ignoring the natural process of growing children lively and diverse characteristics have happened to the child lost in the family amphitheatre the opportunity to show their talents, weakening of growth.
complained about the lack of autonomy and independence of children, parents, often the child independent thinking and behavior of any large increase oppression of the people to form a The contradictions in family education scene, is depicted as the family of psychology, Pseudo-reciprocity in the family looks like family and live in harmony, the parents for the sake of the child, the child for the parents share care, in fact, everyone is depressed and limitations, all of them do not feel snug.
observation of a psychiatrist on the family 11: Growth
Hey! How do you grow up?

children grow up because it may sometimes be too much load!
scene of the cartoon can be seen as almost a kind of Chinese characteristics. Scholars with different views on many educational psychology that China's one-child plan does not just let a child ride in 6 adults (parents, grandparents, grandpa grandma) on the pate, powerful, domineering. All disburse will need to have a potential return. Under the brilliant surface in that the child's physical and mental development is an advance over the adults, and even debt.
a family as a system will unconsciously manner an anticipation, and expectations tend to be so bound, becomes blind without understanding it. Emphasis aboard small to see the antique Eastern civilization, that a child who is difficult to excel, grow extra unpromising. Therefore, parents have to start with children, picked up the pace, step at step. When a family's expectations point to the child's learning and talents, then, parents will be wishful calculating, Sometimes understanding that to do so invalid and even counterproductive, yet incapable to stop. Family Therapist to such relations as: . Mainstream view of this controversy have a natural aversion to, because it is an adult's vision, to educate their children as a responsibility. However, the visual system, only to find their parents in the education process of children Many have their own accessories, or the improper benefit education. To know the developmental needs of children as the parents for their enhancement as the soil sticks shooting, rather than the horses of the reins.

observation of a psychiatrist on the family 13: AC
Silence is golden.

Most of the children is not quite silence
nothing to say, but defiance not say.
see the family through a cup house, we can see how parents communicate with their children. Most parents and children the language of communication is one-way, or directive, the children are generally not instantly against the parents in the language, which is the model of Chinese culture of More information revealed in the child linear statement, mood and behavior changes, unfortunately, parents often turn a blind eye.
glass house in the child to come home immediately, the mother asked:
father immediately interrupted:
mother pressed, said:
She added:
father then said:
emphasis on the father:
father sternly said:
eventually the mother said:
this exchange, the exchange of content, will and way of exchange decisive by the parents, the child is passive response, his expression and body information is restless and disappointed, but parents still insist on the the accuracy and integrity of education.
the psychologist view, this exchange is to meet the family section is actually a complicated internal demand. First, the mother of the problem and the end of those questions she can be the father of the child's emotional involvement in the family; father responded to the mother, so that family feeling together. Second, do parents think they are the responsibility of parents to express a child's care, but it is the language of the unconscious: What, in counting to the pressure or stress.
observation of a psychiatrist on the family 14: Taboo
can only be felt, not unraveled.

family taboo people like cord knot beam, the more the less amusement!
When I was juvenile, the family also had a lot of taboos. Some of the parents are Gejie all ecology and active, at home, actually consciously silent man of few words, be scrupulous to avoid squabbles with their parents, things can be very little chat. Only I was so juvenile, like to casually remark on political things, laugh at the shy parents Gejie was them as
existing family, whereas fewer in political detention, but many parents worry that their children make errors, at enemies with the child's nature to impede children's freedom of thought. As the performance of the humorous paperback as a people depend on to shut up obtaining safety. In general, the more the family taboo, the less happiness and emancipation, the greater the family's internal conflicts.
psychological consulting apartment into the family, is to help that is marked as the If the parents linger obediently set painting, When the balance is broken, all the internal efforts can not make
bound by traditional view of doctors, will be acute to play a This doctor will be salute and thanks to family, parents with children are willing to come to treatment, doctors can be said to reputation and fortune. Suffering is suffering to a child, in order to smooth the family, he needs to inhibit their own.
The success of such manipulation, relying on family aptitude to comprehend the problem, families are also beneath the clash of change, through a relatively violent phase. wise therapist will swing between the two tendencies, on the one hand, and parents to discuss the content and scope of the family taboo, given the From the Finally, we will give a time plan, that is, when the children what kind of behavior occurs, what kind of taboo to vanish. In this way, and with a family taboo

observation of a psychiatrist on the family 15:
difficult conversion period is only transient.


When children get a little lunatic or unreasonable, it is the way he grew to become marshy day.
is a psychological transition of the operational concept, referring to 12-year-old children to 16-year-old process of psychological maturity, should come a history of hardship. During this period the child should be subjected to many psychological shock, there are many correction disorder, heart entangled with scandal, stress, social panic, ethical anxiety, guilt, and aggressive behavior. This is slowly changing from child to mature mentality intellect period of time, often exist in the behavior of two extremes: self-esteem and low self-esteem, the blind worship and disdain of authority, excessive sense of virtue and deliberately ignoring the moral proclivity and undisciplined proclivity to force the independent motivated and lazy reliance, they were all mixed together, the fashion of
In fact, for each youngster, this goals, aesthetic and value system.
many parents within the child is put into a ego chapter of the child can not stomach the Unfortunately, some parents do not recognize their own anxiety, Accepting the child's growth, anti-thought to strengthen the education of their children, so he returned to the trail. If parents seek medical treatment of these With a system perspective, parents and your doctor, Children of the transition period to last long, depending on the attitude of the family, if family relationships are the obstacles out of the transition period to later. Some children in the age of 18 or even 20 years of age can not be out of the Transition delay, mostly due to excessive but ineffective treatment of their parents, principally children For such parents, I can only say:

observation of a psychiatrist on the family 16: Converse
ground off as stuck.

parents of the child rebellious indignation because of his position of authority undermined.
children transition
What are the characteristics:
one, they suddenly became perplexed parents, and sometimes dare to defy globe opinion, as I best in the world. Their rebellion against authority, of parents do not respect, disrespectful, refuses to accept, but then the parents of the feedback and extremely sensitive to objection. In fact,Womens Gucci Sandals, the more severe collide with parents of children more dependent on their parents, the conflict is to crash free of dependency. From the physical theorem, closely connected with their parents the children, separated from the kinetic stamina, the release of heat as well. Smart kids against the parents of tolerance and dependence twin psychological desire, but carried away the children simulate to enjoy the reckless things in order to widen the development of the road for him. But it will dim the parents waving a big mallet, with inappropriate criticism and
Second, they suddenly had some strange behavior problems: such as the silent, closed alone, irrelevant questions, concentration, think. More common in particular, forced ######ual orientation: some simple questions, such as Either time-consuming for the sake of precision, or is act Magyar hot, absentminded. Separation of married admiration of children, the more strange, as if desperate to attract parents to the concern for the family to create a common heading. Third, they suddenly sensitive to family issues, willing to play the scapegoat for the family or small adults. Children are ardent facilitator between parents, between parents play seesaw, playing balance. When the Some children will turn their anger on their parents, headache, fever, diarrhea, severe truancy away, doing their extreme. To deal with these

observation of a psychiatrist on the family 17: Competition
disadvantage I found to be more!




If you want to detect the shortcomings of the child, the child will stop giving you manufacturing defects.
couples in raising children's issues there is a hidden rivalry. People of different ###### couples, the child will naturally have the kind of growth expectations. The children look inward to shaping the thinking and action is the family dynamic. In truth, the children with whom close to grown up personality, behavior will be more like who.
children's issues in education, the family often have two types of conflict, first, a conflict of values, because the purpose of education appears to be the same, but their different ways, because some of the the issue of how to educate children, parents, the most interaction and exchange up to the conflicts most. Second, the emotional conflict, such as more towards children who, even listen to anyone, but whose interests. At the drawback of that parents will have more complaints. These two conflicts, the sometime level of family awareness of the collision, which is the family feeling level the contest.
In fact, parents school their children reasoned by the clash is whether the two family cultural continuity in their children's contest. Everyone grew up in a particular family, the family culture is the same as the gene through detachment, pairing, recombination is rooted deep in our own feeling, influence our inner sensibilities and our value decrees. Family conflict can be seen as two family culture Unfortunately, our heads from childhood to be withheld in right and wrong, and wrong, fact and falsehood, charm and ugliness of the value system, the lack of philosophy under the guidance of a kind of communication and vision, many seem just cultural diversity issues, opinions became a struggle to fight major problem.
comics in the hands of the magnifying glass is representing the parents of parents in their families for generations continue, uphold, perpendicular transmission of cultural awareness and value system. His or her childhood monasteries, invisible in the overall acceptance of a digit of ideas, attitudes, habits, customs, emotional expression, and response to collide with people mode. Parents always wishful thinking, not consciously, diligently, and even inside that good things dauntlessly to levy a child, the child who hopes to see psychology that children who see parents easily from the legacy. Study how the parents from the child who a matter of concern, because it happens to be the crux of the family. Therefore, we often ask

observation of a psychiatrist on the family 18: Confrontation
my bad boy, how do you along!


parents if the child to give up and challenge the values, parental authorization will be drawn as soft as a reinforcement.
psychological child development specialists trust that children in self-growth is most momentous is a complete self-esteem, self-confidence,Cheap Gucci Trainers, self-reliance of cerebral ability, other than the child's ability to ten times more important. Self-esteem like a glass of the child's marrow, and only when it can be fraught with complete adore, knowledge and conscience. Parents, the child's self-esteem inadvertently thwarted so to goad a chasm in the cup, no stuff how hard the child in the hereafter and the hard life, his soul will remain blank cup. Imagine, a dare to challenge the parents of children say they are wrong kids, his mind is riddled with gaping wounds early.
the surface of maximum of our parents want their children grow and mature, but deep down still fearful of the day your child will not longer obedient, but the children to their parents sooner or later that day against the strong words will come. Our culture more cared almost how numerous parents mash as their children, did not say the many parents benefit from their children. The first is to benefit relationship, many parents fulfil their children right through the senseless lust, controlling, self-centered; and psychological benefits, the expense of the child to encounter the moral needs, from children who quest a sense of amount, or forcing a child to realize their early annuals unfinished commerce.
early 70s in the 20th centenary, the United States and Western social scientists, educators, psychologists have come together to learn the negative family, that family is also in the protection of people the hardest area. The hearts of many young people from families with lacking into the community, has brought great instability. So many Western countries have decrees to monitor and limit the corresponding parental rights. Watch the film
Classical School of Psychoanalysis
savants, almost each psychological distress, internal conflicts and behavioral disorders have outlined an early experience with the psychological trauma associated disease spectrum, the disease spectrum is the trauma happened time sequence. For example: the formation of intimate relationships, bulimia, anorexia is not entirely breast-feeding spoken satisfaction (sucking nipples). and rapacity, hostility, sarcasm, love to criticize people and children did not fully meet the teeth afterward chewing happiness narrated. introverted and compulsive personality and normal children 1-3 years old emotional responses, such as anger, anger, destruction, catharsis, etc. over control of their parents. cruel, no sympathy, aggressive and psychopathic personality, in turn, and these emotions are not is the right guidance, the lack of rules on family ... ... and so difficult to reiterate them. psychoanalysis have to figure out the cause of the general diagnosis of what obstacles get busy, such as the symbiotic period, separation of the mouth like stage, ahead or Oedipus Oedipus of so.
Now parents do not acknowledge the family if their child love, kindness and helping others at the same time, the child's guilt will propagate, combative, rebellious tendencies and selfish, surely not a good parent.

psychiatrist observed the family 20: Strategies

infantry to the stop.



rivalry favor the parents of youngster children, most of his adolescence has been out for trouble.
unrealistic is the common problem of the transition period the child, they are especially easy to imagine the Example, the children suddenly began to guess ghosts believe in God, the pursuance of mysticism, began to enjoy watching Horror, terror, detective and venture stories, in their room can see the tie with a pencil or brush to draw a across into the On the eve of the exam, the child will be without a teacher's What to dress, what to eat, what seems to have a variety of taboos overnight. Some children will talk about death and end of the world, as if they are the most concern for the fate of the team.
to deal with these, parents have to learn to open one eye, close one eye, recognizing the child can have some Only a confused moment, be clever I know. Impatient parents can look at your performance in the same old from the solace.
children learn the transition period will be affected, but not to the transition problems as reasons for poor children to learn, so very tempting explanation, both adults and children peace of mind, the consequences of the opposite. Growth is a cost to pay for some of the parents to back, leaving space to respect children's privacy, avoid using one or the other of right and wrong to Luantie Energetic parents is best to use multiple in nature, different, and both this and that kind of value system to lead adolescent children, broaden their horizons, to change the child's utmost and one-sided thinking.
Doctors encourage families to improve mental
parents and children, the relationship between parents and strengthen family cohesion, so that children all over the transition period. Marriage split in the family, parents must play against their children's deep transition is not dynamic enough to grow their own, often oiling the parents are blind to antagonist the big trouble.

observation of a psychiatrist on the family 21: benefit
children, do not cry!



then the authority of the parents stand up to the child's tears unthinking.
therapy room, in the face with behavioral disorders or mood disorders in children, couples often pass the buck or blame each other, the therapist was forced to become the arbiter of family problems, play a use of reverse power to maintain the authority of the role of family stability. Depression in children, the blind want to encourage or stimulate the parties, and by disabling parental control to amplify the awareness of children's behavior. Restlessness in children when the parents turn to help the parties to suppress or limit the thrust. Both cases, therapists appear to be symptomatic treatment, in fact, share responsibility for the family, constitutes therapists - parents - children amplified family system. Family therapists to become the ingredients of balance, family therapists may induce excessive dependence, so that not only can not solve family problems, the development of chronic hand, appears.
another , bronchitis asthma lawful punt psychosomatic disorders such as children. These symptoms on the family of
lack of experience of the therapist comprehend the internal machinery of the child sick, we were amused in treatment interventions on the family, trying to slacken the opposition between the family, to help children run from a relationship split. This work necessarily involves the appraisal of both parents for children build causes disease, the introduction of new value system, so that families feel secure.
mature therapist will use a independent form, to avoid the opposition parties is to choose, and sometimes even use the combined method of mud, obscured the view between the two sides, the opposition preferred as reasonable A reasonable coexistence. Therapist can sometimes double strategies, representatives of the two psychologists interpret how both parents into the family's opposition to accept each other. In fact, the mood disorders in the children inside the family to escape in one of contradictory (a separate desire), and somatic symptoms was frustrated many times after the separation of the body under emotional stress of. In order to arrange for the child's body in a long-term emotional stress, accept and even encourage parents and children emotional leakage is to be well conscious of the therapist to do.

reconnaissance of a psychiatrist on the family 22: Learning
Reading is more important than everything.


If you become a judge

grades only arrow of children's behavior, parents not far away from the frenzy.
in a family, no matter how many children have mental or behavioral problems, learning at a time decent, family with children generally will not see a doctor. Once the child's learning is not good, family is very easy to find from children In my clinic, I would ask:
have a family, parents are intellectuals, family economic good, the child's learning context and conditions are good. Parents, professions, and their expectations are high, playing a small let her learn a alien language, painting, piano Grading, swimming competitions, can be described as all-round development. Happens to be 14 years old (two days), the girl had Good parents, notwithstanding strong, is so painful to see children have soft under the heart, to the children full decompression. Children into fits and starts educate network, this is the top students will soon learn to become a the face of such families, psychologists do not encourage families to continue for the child relief, but to the parents to see how the interaction within the family the child's problem. Parents need to maintain the internal rules of the family, the child must face her own growth pressures. For sample, the recognition of social phobia will affect the child's interpersonal feelings, or will affect the efficiency of her study, but will not affect her school life and learning. We will give the parents say, the real question is not The real problem is caused by fear of liability on the growth of the Parents interested in reducing child

observation of a psychiatrist on the family 23: a strong
; or illness can help me.



problem can not free the children to benefit, so that parents he was the center, like a camel Laolv millstone circular and round.
in my mind, the German teacher has been echoing the words of Simon: Here the A sick child will establish choice family relationships and option family rules, the formation of a new balance within the family.
I received such a home, the boys three days this year, in the face of the upcoming test, traction reached a gastrointestinal disease, can not dine, I eat disgustful abdomen pain on the mushroom. A few days later, the body languid Debu not hospital drops. Children diagnosed gastrointestinal neurosis or anxiety state, the intended decompression to relieve the parents for the child the child's psychological omens, but with mini success.
clinic where I talk about learning and children, did not see his apparent emotional response, and how many still have some room for complacency. He told me that the first two days, when this disease lived in homes in January, the last examination is still the class of the top three. Child's illness quirky, so I turned his attention to his parents.
father or mother alone, and when they meet each other, marriage has a great sense of resentment, blame the father, mother, introverted, stubborn, letting the children; father, overbearing mother, chatter, peremptory, cruel children.
and both parents in a conversation, he and she has apparently restrained, or concealment, or remain silent, both sides avoided the contradictions.
I call in the child, sitting beside their parents, and the atmosphere is about some harmony, and parents for the children to have some exchange of words when they can supplement each other sets of people sigh: Parents, children and the forbearance to allies and enemies. family therapist ought have understood, the child's symptoms are in the livelihood of a family feature. Disease, the family has a strong interference power, when the couple's grievances accumulated to a definite intensity, the matrimony began to become unstable, the child's ailment came out for the couple Xiehuo. During the consultation, I academic that children do not eat the problem from the age of three has yet begun, on and off. Parents to the child's physical and mental health, to reach a accordance does not discuss in front of children, maintenance of the imaginary peace. Numerous facts have proved intense conflict in the family, the cancer can become a membership because of contradictions in digestion and solidarity. Little do they know thatpeace fantasy, like a narcotic obsession, the child will be attracted by disease without knowing it.

observation of a psychiatrist on the family 24: compassion
enough to eat birds called love.



different with the animal world, parents are willing to care about the weak point of the absolute child.
in many families with children, the body weak and sick children always loved their parents more, enough to eat like a bird called love.
have a family, the father out ordinary incompetence, but it is a very authoritative at home, a sense of his mother some nervous, emotional or bright or rain often. They have two boys, the old wooden satisfied mouth, patience is also urgent, and his father became the enemy of Health enemies. Second child Zuitian, smart shakes, naturally it is their parents proud and delight. Gradually became the boss of the family could not get the soft tofu, the second development is so smooth, is a good boy at home, appearance is a good student.
One day the boss to go to school back home, was injured after a speeding motorcycle came back, kick off the right leg. Lying in bed anguish boss weak to influence a strong sense of compassion inside of parents, they uncharacteristically, began to boss every possible care, the rehabilitation of more than two months, the oldest in the smiling faces of their parents had a like Rapidly improve relations with his parents, while her second child at home increasingly heard in the deplore.
Later, the Mother of concern for parents has become a fret, because the boss is not forever satisfactory functional recovery of impaired leg, which makes orthopedic surgeon and amusements neurologist headache, a hundred puzzled.
psychologists kas long asthe boss was left unconscious in a sense the symptoms to retain the love of his parents, the unconscious hope to use the disease to control his loved ones, similar to a psychological compensatory neurosis. Psychologists to do the symptoms of such interpretation is to improve communication within the family.
many marriages, the wife felt she could not restrain a man or to be losing her loved ones, the nervous malfunction would help. His wife was sick, you can have the heart to do for her ferocious! in the treatment of psychology, mental illness and functional disorders is largely a psychological pray to change the bad reality, if we take the initiative to meet these changes, disease to become superfluous things.

observation of a psychiatrist on the family 25: dependence
away from us what you do!



many parents do not know the child in the eyes of the world and they see things is different.
Miniu piano that family function imbalance is the cause children emerge to adapt to obstacles. The most common reasons for the imbalance between family function:
an emotional tangle: the family of external boundaries of rigid closed, but within the twisted, like the cartoon character, parents and children depend on each other, not away from everyone. We often see teenagers also have to toe the parents, the child's problems all have to bear by the parents. Like to ask a psychiatrist to observe such a few words twisted feelings of families, such as asking how old the child slumber with the mother? Asked the children ten words in mind, parents can guess a few words? .
Second, the relationship between alienation: the lack of such a family family to power, each of the order, the relationship among members of the stiff department. Unable to freely express love and concern about each other, can not predict the other's behavior, but also do not form effective interaction. Outside the family ill-defined, independent of any persons involved in so many family affairs can not be coordinated to deal with outer information and pressure.
Third, triangulation problem: If the mother and father and son Union, the father or the mother by the child's emotional connection to confront the other, inter-generational alliances, grandparents, grandchildren through the control to restrain the son and daughter.
Fourth, oblique relationship: parents, the surface looks and courteous, the substantial subsistence of communication barriers, the children will present the publish to preoccupy the care of parents, reducing the pressure between husband and wife to form a consensus within the family.
5 cycles of conflict: the father complained that his wife does not care about himself, his wife complained about the trouble too many children, the children complained that the father did not like him. The result is the father to punish the child, leadership to even worse father-son relationship, mother of the child difficult, more difficult to make the mother's parenting, father, mother, anger, so that husband and wife even worse. The phenomenon of the family system, the function has a destructive force, the family lost the rules, right is modified, the exchange is blocked, a lot of members to each other maladaptive.

observation of a psychiatrist on the family 26: Fear
I want to escape!



all fears and avoidance behaviors are gradually strengthened through active learning and passive form.
psychologists in helping children learn self-control problems and self-relaxation at the same time, will be remedied in agreement with the expectations of family to do some work. Such as the reconstruction of a set rules of behavior for their children, or push their children to complete a student should complete the learning task, at first sight, such as psychologists put pressure on their children in alternative parents. Social anxiety so that children can not abide by rules of society, want their parents to live can not be blamed,Mens Gucci Moccasins, that is the question to send benefit to the children. This benefit, though not the child to predict, but to escape physical and mental relaxation after the pressure will make the child's chronic illness. Psychiatrist to change the child too many to dwell on the symptoms, ignoring the desire to strengthen her spirit may also weaken the ability of the child, so that coalition in her fear of the disease.
rotate, we adopt the social anxiety is one of the most prevalent emotional phenomenon, to converge on the life of a child in the rendition of customary, give her a good she is also full of clues, child nervousness concerns will be alleviated. We are not the Thus, the problem evolved into question the sufferer on the players, the children had to face a fashionable sense of the disease. We even asked kids filled with surprise: react to other human can not deal things. in the meantime to aid children deal with anxiety, but also make friends with children to learn and anxiety, the anxiety of life as a driving force for development. We say we want to evoke children, she said, then insured her not to differentiate their parents, the child is revealed her true thoughts, we try to reach a personal accession with her to argue what to do to parents by startle. We discuss the change with the child milestones, the goal is not remedy, it may not knowledge, but children in the different appearances of emotional behavior. Better or aggravate the determination by the children, basically a child would select better. We allow children to observe the impact of behavior change for parents, while allowing parents to observe changes in mood to tell us that in discussing these changes and the family, the children obtain psychological satisfaction and positive encouragement. If you only care about the child psychiatrist symptoms exertion to train children to cope with anxiety, fear of technology, charted for her behavior or desensitization therapy or exposure therapy, the child broke free of the social fear that everything will be everything is all right, he is only half a psychiatrist .

observation of a psychiatrist on the family 27: Mangrenxiama
step back, a brighter future.


many children out of the transitional period, still in the mud back to peregrination to see their parents too!
children transition out of a sign: they know what they want, on their own Zhilengzhire, know know the warm winter, parents can gently say Parents came home from school They suddenly gods, ghosts, strange no longer so interested in, tied the cross has been solved. While they may still remained a number of
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