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people do not because you are older and mature, not because of your age, small and immature, as long as you surface again and again the challenge, time and time again to overcome the difficulties you can gradually mature to success.
do not want to pay, not the original wait, give up, never give up those who win and winners never give up!
First, they were asked to return, the poor state of mind
(1) each get a chance to see the opportunities they are always difficult, always say no!
(2) always want to get rich is by no means easy to get something valuable, valuable things never let you easily get, the Olympic champion is the overnight success of it? They just get in the game people just recognition of their training results too!
Second, no self-discipline
1, unwilling to change their old way of thinking
difference between people is the most fundamental difference between ways of thinking, we want to be successful, you must first change our way of thinking, and then change our behavior, do one thing you can see the difficulties of light You even thought can succeed, you will become a miracle that does not become? The old way of thinking: they were asked to return, poor attitude, difficulty to give up the power of perseverance is invincible,
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2, like to talk behind other people
idlers we call such people, and so do not say we do not listen to pass, even if the argument is right, then did little good for you!
3,
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person can not be perfect, more or less shortcomings, if not a matter of principle, we see the good side,
kobe v shoes, more importantly, you can not always see the faults of others, even if your complaint is right, you do not complain, because winners never complain, complain about those who never succeed!
4, refuse to learn, refused to change
the twenty-first century, the world's three most prominent special startled are: speed, variable, crisis, and our response is: learning and change, entrepreneurship, the faster you learn, the faster you change, you success is the sooner. In fact, in today's competitive business is a talent competition, talent competition is the learning ability of the competition. Now is the era of Dances with Wolves, you want to succeed, you must first become a wolf! Now the rich man, in five - ten years 80% will go bankrupt, you want to succeed, you must learn to learn to change = Success.
three, often swayed by emotion
how much tragedy in the world, how many can not tolerate the fear is occurring between people, some people encounter something on the fly into a rage, bristle
five factors of success in the first major factor is the ability to control their emotions, the second largest is health, and the third is time management, financial management Fourth,
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handle the relationships of the three tips:
concerned about others than himself;
Three no more than three, that is, not blame, do not complain or criticize and praise, more praise, more inclusive;
Is a good listener, good at communication! Learned ignorance and indifference than passion!
Fourth,
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China National Quality difference with the United States and other developed countries five years,
The first indicator is the engineer, the proportion of doctors;
The second is the proportion of national investment in education;
The third is the national investment in learning time, those who do not learn, will self-righteous, self-righteous people who are difficult to achieve.
people learn to go through four stages:
not learn: No friends do not know
Learn a bit: I do not know have known about
To learn a stage; knowledge of the known
The most mature stage: not known about friends
zero attitude so very important to everyone, and a sponge, if not the original water squeezed, can not suck a lot of water, who return to zero as fast as possible, who will be more able to succeed .
five, judge things by instinct, not based on facts
in our lives a lot of people say do not judge the facts, but by instinct: I thought. . . I think. . . .
six, things do not rely on faith, relying on hide
life for myself, and no one else alive, someone else's mouth, long in someone else's body, how other people would like to say how to say, you can stop, no one would mistake for their guidance and take responsibility, and the reality is a good man in many divisions, one side of the world population is 5%, while 95%, 5% of the successful people who failed were called before the crazy fool, radio and even in the presence of mad inventors carried to a mental hospital to .
because we do not have a life like many people, so we are willing to lonely, lonely, people to laugh!