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Reprinted from 720877 at 00:22 on December 14, 2010 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (0) Category: Personal Diary
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3-6 years old, usually known as the The. As the saying goes 3-year-old to see a large, 7-year-old look old. Many people in a child temperament,
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Here are a few signals to remind parents of the children to help out and interfered.
shy!
Many parents shy
have such experience at home when the children loud and clear voice, dance, can sing, but once to the stranger, the children seem to have become personal. Than most embarrassing situation, life and death with the elders refused to say hello, or if well-meaning aunts and uncles try to make what, it is immediately become a hedgehog curled up. In fact, children are not shy at all times shy, shy of their great performance only in a strange environment or in front of strangers. We now know that no matter what the temperament of children can become useful. Children are usually quiet and shy temperament, and follow the rules. But it is undeniable that shy children unfamiliar environment, and things feel nervous and fear that their attention; because they do not love to fight, often lose a lot of opportunities; more importantly, in this fast era of fierce competition, shy children may also have inferiority complex,
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ways to improve it: shy child must first know what is not so He will ride faster than the active cousin. Although he is willing to play outside, but which do not want other people to He should know that in some cases, how to seek and seize their rights; he needs to know the public performance of specific methods and techniques, these methods can not just talk empty and need more experience to be able to guide him in an awkward predicament of each .
bad temper!
A mother described her troubles: out, because he often lost his temper. Every time he lost his temper, Hong Quan, scold,
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emotional intelligence (EQ) in 80% of the extent determine a person's success. The most important part of emotional intelligence is emotional management. Emotional control is the need to spend a lot of parents thought the content of education. For those who temper their impatience for parents to teach children to manage emotions is undoubtedly more difficult. Is often the case, bad temper, the child's parent is most likely a bad temper. Guard your children know how to provoke. Jipi Qi if you are a man, the child can easily lead to a war from you, they shouted each other, there is no winner. If you ignore him or walk away angry, in fact, clearly conveyed the message: anger is not acceptable. This is also an important part of children learning rule. Parents need to keep in mind is: If the child has reached an unreasonable by the purpose of temper, he would be angry, again and again to use this means.
ways to improve it: In fact, everyone will be angry, sad, depressed and disappointed. The difference is that emotional management ability of the people, will use the healthy way to express emotions. Screaming, rolling on the ground, cried, threw things around, curse, kicking the expression of emotion is bad, is not healthy. In general, you need to convey a clear message: be angry, but a negative, angry or hurt the way to vent anger is not acceptable. Therefore, children need to know,
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This is the father and mother heard the child say the words of the most worried. Back child feels frustrated. After all, confidence is the most important qualities. If a person is not confident, he did not start to do something, even if prompted by someone else started, a little difficult to be able to trip him, because he never believed he was possible. From the perspective of developmental psychology, 3-6-year-old self-confidence is the key period of protection of children, self-confidence during this time to build to how, or even of primary school age have a significant impact. Distressed parents often use all kinds of praise, encouragement, children, or Recent studies have found weak to withstand setbacks, the family is actually misused Many parents (elderly) in order to encourage children at every turn will be However, the children get the information out with this great contrast. He was very easy to find, does not quite work! Its not only not the best, in some ways, still a long way. From self-confidence plummeted. Through education is often more profound than language education. Concerned about too much, also contributed to weak to withstand yet another reason for frustration. Concern children often sensitive, afraid of making mistakes, very concerned about the people around them for their views, in the absence of full grasp of the situation, not dare to try.
improved method: self-confidence gained from the experience. In whatever circumstances, allow children to do their own thing. Self-confidence among children is the family the most simple and effective method. Most importantly, parents should be more efforts to praise the child, rather than a result of the moment. Do not say: Clear to children that parents pay more attention to their own hard work, and make them the confidence to face difficulties. In emotional intelligence training camp,
loner!
3-6 year-olds are still self-centered. In interpersonal relationships, they do not understand the true meaning of friendship. However, parents still can see some children play together in harmony, it seems inherently In these children, most of them can find such qualities: willingness to share, loving, willing to help others follow the rules, take the initiative. While others are Some children can easily conflict with others; some children continue to This stage the children have been learning to become a Children do not usually gregarious for the following reasons: The most common is that the child's behavior is often offend others. As with adults, children do not like bullying, self-centered or destructive behavior, they do not like non-compliance with the rules of the game people play. Children with attention problems often someone will interpersonal problems because they understand the rules of the game difficult, but also easy to get angry when the game is slightly unsatisfactory. In addition children will be shy loner problems exist, they are likely to be laughed at.
Conclusion
experts believe that parents must take seriously the child's actions. Upbringing and education of parents, as well changes in the social environment of a person's character will have some impact. It depends on what kind of environment children grow up and what kind of teacher learning and development under the guidance,
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