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133777 2006 年 09 月 28 日 23:04 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (2) Category: Personal Diary
; it is a new day, she got up and walked straight up after her daughter's room and opened the curtains, let the sun shine in the shop neat little bed. This is a small room of 10 square meters, furnished very cozy, clean and spotless. Bookcase in the book is still neatly placed, sandwiched bookmark dictionary and lying quietly on the desk stationery, clothing in the clothing Zhe girl exudes the unique atmosphere, the TV screen in the sunlight reflecting shining points of light ... ... look at all of this, innocent people, that go to school just a small owner, informed people who can not help but shed tears, because 10-year-old owner has always left the earth. Two years, she still can not face his daughter leave the room cleaned every day again,
coach shoes, seems to have been waiting for her return. And the mother is only hundreds of thousands of Shanghai's parents lost their children in one.
cold grave to cry like children lost sound
son daughter, in mourning, the parents, in the end how much? I am afraid that this figure is difficult to imagine.
is often said that three things in life the most painful death of his father Mo the last juvenile, middle-aged widowed, elderly bereaved. Death of his father is lost to rely on young, middle-aged widowed is loss of companionship, elderly bereaved is to lose hope. Perhaps your partner will depend on further, but I hope not, and what is the meaning of life?
garden in Shanghai Qingpu longevity, there is a Children's Day, a pair of middle-aged couple came here to visit their son left 5 years ago. Every weekend, as usual, they come here, as if boarding away from home once a week to visit the son. In this special day, they of course need to talk with his son, not her son alone in this festival. Although five years apart, but each time came to rest where his son, the mother's tears as the decision of the embankment is always flooding, more than shed. Anybody who watched the scene will be worth it Sentiment: all parents who is the most pain? Children crying sound of the cold grave!
also not far apart, spreading waves of crying, there also stood one pair of husband and wife with their similar age, also came to see the child. Tombstone photos is only sixteen-year-old child looks like. Two couples who met here many times. Is the so-called horizon sad person, why have known each other meet. The mother had sad as sad to see people with their own, can not help but sympathize with each other, comfort each other to: When to see me cry, she would cry, in fact, we should look at them ah smile. If the remarks of other people say,
coach sneakers, she will think that person is easier said than done, casual comfort her, but her eyes, the person must know what happened, said the truth must be from the heart. Two mothers, the conversation gradually shifted from the sad memories of happy, chatting about their children, unwittingly said a long time.
who said, to share the joy and happiness will be doubled; to share the sorrow and grief will be halved. This perhaps explains why, on the same boat's parents more likely to enter each other's hearts, to comfort each other. It is due to this reason, shortly after 10 on longevity have lost parents through the introduction of park staff, come together.
2003 年 7 months, 10 bereaved families gathered together in Shanghai, they talk into the night from the afternoon until late night refused to disperse. Because they have so much pain, too much emotional need vent. In peacetime, some stronger, pretending to be strong in front of others, only silent tears to the stomach to the pharynx; some people do not want the pain to others tell their own, others fear the eyes of mercy; more afraid of is seeing other people's children, Re Renxian how naughty even children, are being made on their face, their heart will follow the pain together. But here is different from everyone here has the same experience, where everyone is the best audience, even if you are repeated, they would not boring, because they know how much pain you are in the end.
chatting chatting, I do not know what people have suggested, so that one day, 10 on the loss of a child's parents have formed a special organization -
have a pain hard to cure
It was lovely children, they did not leave, they just went to a better world. A quiet haven on earth, dependent parents spend looking at the stars, every day they are concerned about their own angels, keep looking at their growth. For us,
心静如水 - Qzone日志, this explanation is full of fantasy, is so unrealistic, but the
child's death, they in their own world of depression, unable to integrate into the larger society outside. Whenever I see other people's fun, they would kind of embarrassment and pain, as if he is the world's most unfortunate people, happiness and joy is forgotten by the people.
1999 two weeks before the Chinese New Year, Mr Yim's son died because of a car accident. A 13-year-old just entering junior middle schools students, parents worry about a full day of gremlins, a love life, love the painting of the child, so the moment is gone, what a cruel fate! This sudden blow warm overturn the strict family life. After that year,
加入到微笑者和赞美者的行列来 - Qzone日志, Mr Yim Each Chinese New Year are spent on the train. New Year's Eve night, people are rushing home to catch, but he went alone to the train station, buy a ticket flights recently, sitting in the car where there is no scenery aimlessly looking at the scenery outside the window . For him, this trip was a run away, New Year ... everywhere ... but now everything is so quiet. to the parents house to encounter other relatives, they are a family of three, I look at the poor will feel; stay home and friends, but also to come New Year, they probably also with children, we often see children of similar age, and his son, and I could not help but think of him. If he is still alive how nice. parents often have a disproportionate and age old face,
coach women shoes, and a impressive melancholy eyes. But this is only appearance, we show that in the hearts of their wounds. Because the child's left, they become very fragile, sensitive,
coach purses, and the heart can not touch a piece of territory, once stepped on, sad as it will be like opening a faucet pouring down.
watching television when the expression of joy which the children; shopping, see the children wear for children; to the farms when the children will remember most like to eat food ... ... the pain and often can not help thinking of my heart. Do not want to work with colleagues, friends and relatives do not want to travel, do not want to encounter in the street and greet neighbors, and they were afraid to hear each other talk about any topic of children. Ms. recalled her daughter had just died of cold,
coach sunglasses outlet, she said: This good is not say no pain, but learned to control a long time. awake no way out. These words is very appropriate for them the. Hopefully, long drink is their greatest wish, in a dream to see the appearance of the child, the child can hear the laughter, this is the only make them happy moment.
how difficult the days of lost children
shui, said: few, however, no more than the grand total of the first foil a meal, it usually, so where a cold,
coach sunglasses, fear most is to have control over the downtown. This feast of life, the children have gone and left the meeting early, in the face cup messy situation for the last, who also reluctantly must be the most painful. The so-called: get rid of Children always in, but in their hearts, not in life.
a family of three children is a solid triangle, once missing a corner to collapse the children are taken away the joy is not a simple one-third to be calculated. Taiwanese writer Huang Chun-ming, The packet of rice to eat for a long time, or so much more than a few weevils. Mother know that you do not come back to eat, she did not want to cook out. I know today, my mother was born to you for cooking. Now you do not come back to eat, not what my mother, my mother did not want to do anything, do not want to eat. bed. daughter lying in the hospital for 3 years, during that time, the children suffered much pain, Zhang couples is ruined. death,
狗一样的导演ＭＶ - Qzone日志, regardless of parents can bear it? But now, when we gradually calmed down, at night, we were lying in bed thinking about the future, how old do? Want to get whole body tighten as though two people are now thinking, but one day to become a person, and then sick in bed, mobility
, and then even more pathetic ... ... br> Love in the continuity of life goes on
white-haired people who sent hair, what kind of life this is the taste of it? a Since then, lively young boy in front of his parents gone forever, such a family, life, what can support them to complete the journey of life do?
sad fate of the human experience, but who face the same fate of the bloom of the sun and weep. She could not imagine such a person can experience is so free and easy to dance, eat and talk. Six months later, when she continued to participate in activities, she also learned the the sadness away, with a sincere smile to the face of new members, tell them to bravely live.
nearly six years The Bao Xianguo late now parents to participate in blood donation. think of the usual dutiful daughter, well-behaved, and her sense of responsibility to society of this, he could not help but come to grief. Her love life is so alive, if you see us down, it will be sad. So for her, we have to become strong. In the Mood for Love 16-year-old, but had cancer. Qingshi involved in the protection of seriously ill always wanted to scrape together 200, donated, know that this is clear without the knowledge of their children has been quietly accumulating the money is to be remitted to the birthday that day, Ke Bin will donate 200 dollars on the completion of her daughter's wish. Gengrang Ke Bin moved, she found that every year was a good child, her love of society, although she is now away from the seven, but the love she still goes on. , feel the warmth of the sun, life experience a disaster will know how the power of love.
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