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a person no matter how intelligent, more capable, how good background conditions, and if people do not know how to do it, do something, then he is certainly the ultimate outcome of failure. Doing things is an art, it is a science. The reason why many people are commonplace life, it is because he lived a lifetime do not understand how someone who is. -
everyone living in the real world, all eager to succeed, and many people with lofty ideals to dream, to pay a lot, but get a little, and this can not but arouse people's food for thought: you can not say they are not hard, not hard, you can end up nothing why is the outcome of it? It is worth every one of us to seriously consider. -
the surface, it seems very simple way of doing things, who will not? Is not the case, for example, when you are a teacher, your wish is a good teacher subjective, but in fact they are not students; you to do business, your subjective desire to make big money can be chosen to lose this. Despite these surface phenomena, to discover the crux of the problem, you will find a way of doing things is really difficult to master science. -
so to speak, is a way of doing things in real life involves learning all aspects of a single study from any of the aspects, can not see the whole picture. To master this knowledge, grasp its essence, it must be refined on the real-life summary and draws some law of universal significance, it can be rules to follow it, rather than fan then no threads. -
read a tactic, good enough for your life! -
First, social interaction tactics -
- teach you to make contributions -
(a) of the
life skills only -
1, not arrogant -
2, proud not to carried away -
3, do not have the ability to boast of -
4, do not choose to ask people -
(b)
interaction with others, make friends to be friends, on the snobbish Fenhua, it seems not too demanding, when the More bearish, some look on, life will suddenly see the light, gusto the. -
as -
1, civil use -
2, Dankan life, kind of life -
3, indifferent Ming, Mo for the fame and fortune block our sight -
4,
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(c) of the
do not know how -
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1, save the living from the start -
2,
3, to guard against abnormal frugal: mean -
4, No Country For dyeing, frugal and to keep Germany -
(d)
to do a personality, give yourself the confidence! Break on their own path to success, a better future comes from self-reliance, do not bow to any authority, with efforts to find a part of your self-esteem. -
man named Li Shi, their closed! -
1, self-reliance, and success about -
2, alone product life attitudes -
3, with the self to challenge authority -
4, self-confidence - no matter how you wind truck -
(e)
born in ceremonies, to be a polite person. Polite person would be a man, it was fate, many friends. Polite person would do things, focus on image, cultivated, not enemies, success in every way on the road. -
1, courteous -
2, courtesy, politeness -
3, pay attention to etiquette dress, giving a good impression -
(f)
be a person of integrity and be a good person healthy personality, the subject of reverence. To be a selfish person and do things Qi Xin, Yin disease prevention capacity, and success missed. -
1, have behaved, do not impose on others -
2, jealous person is the Founder of taboo -
3, not to deceive your heart, in itself is a delight -
II Image tactics -
- teach you character and elegant -
(g)
give yourself a lever long enough and hope turn to Earth. -
to set your life a voluntary, goal trees, tree idol, down to earth, sense of need to develop a successful, first determined, and then with a date. -
1, degree of virtue within their means, to mark the conduct -
2, be determined, interested, there is hope -
3, successful culture awareness: determined to King -
4, establish the idol, to change their -
(h)
everyone should treat time, has to be punctual. Shape their own image, the modern concept of time can not be separated. Reasonable arrangements for their own time, effective use of their time, punctuality, unfortunately, do not delay. -
Remember: Time is money. -
1, a second value than gold -
2, do not ignore his spare time -
3, stealing other people time, equal to murder -
4, according to the importance of work, more effective use of time -
(i)
more effort, we more chance of success. Numerous facts have proved: the shortest way to success is hard work. Do not just pay lip service, not indolent, ground Lured on my own,
air max tn360, paid off! -
1, the shortest way to success: hard work -
2, more effort, more opportunities -
3, diligent action, rather than handling that -
(j)
earth person, real work. Any one of his hands in his pockets all who could not climb the ladder of success. Give the impression that a real image, to add a touch of his success lay a solid foundation of reality, to themselves. -
1, dedicated, successful man of action protection -
2,
air max plus, to every good work -
3, his hands in his pockets who could not climb the ladder of success -
(k)
are designed only constant, I have perseverance. -
you live in an era of knowledge explosion, if you are a genius, you do not become the unfortunate focus; If you extraordinary qualifications, please do not pessimistic, as long as you are determined to do good thing, you can be successful. Young people do not give the impression of a ramshackle image. -
1, put all your eggs into one basket -
2, versatile, nurturing trained
3, specifically, to disadvantage into advantage -
(l)
life long, and short-term, the key on the steps. Human Jungle, workplace cause a lot of interest, a lot of temptations. Aging and are not afraid of much, everything should be more than think twice, afraid of ten thousand, afraid of the event. Once the stretch the wrong hands, the wrong, wrong, in reputation, in business, in the image Jie You do not save the crisis. -
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1, do not the wrong -
2, then you want a good
3, do not act in haste -
Third, self-improvement tactics -
- teach you to save the fate -
(xiii)
life difficult, hard work, in the face of difficulties and resistance, to enhance the self,
エアマックス イエロー, not to point the If things are forced, and should be bold enough to say time. -
1, rejection is an art -
2, the me, do not polite -
3, bristle of power -
4, thick-skinned man, scalp hard work -
(xiv)
the owner of a seafood restaurant chain is the fish market is likely to practice beach had children, and the original owner of a chain of shoe may be a shoeshine. Yuzuo big, big money, we must first do small things,
14-day break four !, make a little money, lend a willing small profit. From subtle to start with, the first sweep of a house, then sweep the world! -
1, a house does not scan, how can you sweep the world -
2, little things do first, make a little money -
3, a nail change a person's life -
(o)
Little Sparrow, Feifei jumping, racing against time, constantly looking for food. Life is also the case, the face of fierce competition, only to forge ahead, be a good pioneer, the next goal when the goal, to take risks, dare to battles and hoping things, after all, are slim. -
1, does not meet the existing achievements -
2, determined to pursue, not submissive -
3, and your spirit can not throw, the success is sooner or later -
(xvi)
self-improvement, courage and knowledge necessary to go beyond the self. What is beyond? Beyond is to eat crabs, is innovation. Innovation also means adventure, danger and seek so-called rich. Like people think, and do not do to others, first in the world, is thinking of conversion. -
1, first in the world -
2, breaking the rules of creativity -
3, abandoned as I can get miracles -
4, reverse the offensive and defensive way of thinking -
(xvii)
Poor people want change, change to solution.识时务者为俊杰, general engine change by the hero. Not a path to success, why hang in a tree it? Seize the key to success,
Obtained after driving two decades, the real lesso, the East West light does not shine, whether it is black or white, it is important is whether it can catch -
1, cleverly transformation strain -
2, All roads lead to Rome -
3, success is communication, there is only win through -
(xviii)
to commend someone else, like the food as alms to the hungry beggar. Throughout the ages, I do not know how many people, with the silver tongue, changed their extraordinary destiny. Speaking humor, find a common language ... ... a -
1, psychographic find topic -
2, flattery is the best
3, to succeed in life, humor and wit -
4,
Fourth, interpersonal tactics -
- teach you to win friends -
(xix)
interaction should focus on the future, forgive and forget. To forgive others is the best way to treat yourself - for your enemies and angry, burn your own. Doing things, not too narrow minded. Welcome to Wikipedia, by a generous heart! -
1, forgive your enemies -
2, a man of tolerance, tolerance succeed -
3, happy to forget, forgive and forget -
(xx)
in the sea, if we do not want isolation, you learn how to get along with others now! Big woods, what birds are, does not require all the people you like, but not what the world's most cattle people. -
and for you Well, we should remain level with each other, we can give face. -
1, for the benefit of others, for their future careers -
2, you give people to stay face, someone else to do something -
3, wife of the Road, also, and also intellectual -
(xxi)
how many people trust you, how many times you have a chance of success,
airmax, Believed to be a force of personality, friendship goes beyond money, is to understand, is to enjoy, is the overlying water, irreversible. So, true to its word, line must be fruit, can help the busy is to help, but not easy to promise! -
1, help is help, not an easy promise -
2, credible, and principled man -
3, do prior life, the first man to win the trust -
4, the credibility of the cornerstone of life and death, friendship -
(xxii)
Interpersonal relationships, mutual benefit and reciprocity. To help others, that is, human credit card for their savings, particularly in people impose on the occasion of trouble helping hand to save distressed hero in hardship. Really helpful, the rewards speak for themselves. -
1, to help others make a fortune,
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2, good wind power, by the ladder can be almost impossible -
3, seizing the opportunity to pull people one -
(xxiii)
people to face the tree to the skin. Human existence in society, to play various roles, especially in dealings with each other, requires a certain dignity to support, this is human weakness. Knowing this, can understand the -
1, to Conceal for the boss taboo -
2, in front of the losers talk about your pride -
3, respect each other's
(xxiv)
human well-being, inconstancy of human relationships, usually through common friends. Make friends then friends, not instant success, friendship and investment, should take the long, cold temple worship, Yaki-Yaki cold stove, at ordinary times, even a few words of greeting, is also making friends. -
1, more leisure time to burn incense, when anxious people to help -
2, friendship investment, should take the long-term -
3, the temple worship cold, burning cold stove, make misfortune Heroes -
V. Rebate Due tactics -
- teach you more relaxed and happy -
(xxv)
the face of setbacks and difficulties, bearing in mind Churchill's famous quote: For the final victory, should persistence ambition, the humiliation being faced and persistent pursuit, not stop until one reaches one's goal! -
1, profound knowledge, resistance to loneliness -
2, who laughs last, laughs best sweet -
3, persistent pursuit, never give up -
4, not stop until one reaches one's goal -
(xxvi)
man has confused things with a difficult Problem-solving by the head, brain produces thought, so think angry, in a surprise place easily solve the problem. -
1, the cleverest housewife can without straw -
2, from the
3, the power of thought -
(xxvii)
to get rid of the plight of people and things, which inevitably requires people to be obsequious inevitably ask for help, but look to the future success, even if the same as the cockroaches should be at the expense of living, feng shui, after all, times change. Lend a hand with the give way bent, resilient to bend for the extension side to hero! -
1, the same as the cockroach life -
2, postures, in front of a road -
3, you respect my foot, I respect you ten feet -
4, low-level people,
(xxviii)
Calm among the plight of the decision is often the best solution, but also a kind of calm and wisdom to wait for change, Luanzhongqusheng! -
1, sat in the back seat managers chair -
2, heart Ning Zhisheng, intellectual trouble into -
3, calm the heart from the Yi -
4, tolerant about parties for the outstanding personality -
(xxix)
There is no absolute happiness, and only refused to happy heart. Life is short, with every pull bow, crossbow, as Remember, success is starting from the smiling, life things do not always eighty-nine, no music, create their own fun, learn to easily solve the problem. -
1, a successful start from the smile -
2, learn to create happiness -
3, relaxed and happy to learn to solve problems -
4, There is no absolute happiness and only happiness would not mind -
(xxx)
life rely on themselves and, yes, the sky will not fall in your lap, sit back and wait starved to death, but that does not rely on does not work, relatives, friends, classmates, fellow villagers, is a Three disaster six difficult to rely on the keep, keep not rely on the creation of conditions! -
1, let a friend be your patron -
2, out distressed by the villagers -
3, relatives of relatives, further and further pro -
4, Dream of Youth, the Kaokao a -
six unbeaten life tactics -
- teach you life, brilliant -
(xxxi)
learn owl, an eye, close one eye. You say I'm confused, in fact, I'm not stupid! More than just changing things, business is difficult, ruining fast, people say that water is clear there are no fish, no police were to Christians. In fact, the self-preservation, of great minds are often Dayu,
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1, stupid people smart I, -
2, do not think they smarter than others -
3, doing things not too seriously -
4, who is a hero? -
(xxxii)
really a hero, why shortness of breath, start to finish, side is undefeated! Forbearance to preserve one, and forbearance Nengcheng Shi, tolerance is a great wisdom, Dayong, an even bigger blessing! Tolerance is a thick, black bear, bear villain, forbearance tyrannical, and forbearance of the world finds it hard to do, do not do mild-mannered fellow, as a matter too hard for ordinary people. -
1, tolerance is a quick response Tai Fook -
2, do not do mild-mannered fellow -
3, undefeated life, ninja invincible -
(xxxiii)
Jiuli rivers and lakes, sophisticated human person stuck a Withdrawal is a strategy, retirement is a kind of exchange, but also a means to survive. A good philosopher, said,
1, as wrong as hard regardless, consider backward in every way -
2, refused to compromise, is refusing to success -
3, untouchables, hide under the covers from the -
(xxxiv)
radius of a man, smooth and slick; successful work, everything goes. Unpredictable people, always best to hold back, there are at leisure, you can look