`Let go of comprehending it - Qzone log
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138576 2007 年 06 月 27 日 14:55 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (13 ) Category: Personal Diary
time can change everything!
one, you care about each other more
you in a relationship, but not to determine each other's ideas; you think you are right He seems to disagree; he is not when you want him, you do not, he did not seem to differ, What does this mean?
love is not perfect, long continue,
new balance outlet, you will love hungry, you will feel controlled by the other side, you will feel angry, cheated and suffering.
Second, you love other potential
you love each other's potential, rather than the other really, the way you love each other's future might look like, he is not your partner, but the object of your transformation.
Each time we make pre-marital counseling will be asked if the other party fifty years will not change,
量身定做西装-意大利 ERMENEGILDO ZEGNA 顶级西装布料, you will be satisfied ? If you always wanted to change the other, then they would feel more satisfied, it is not love, but gambling as a bet with both sides happy.
when dealing with a person you should love and respect each other's Benxiang, rather than his future looks like,
new balance mens, you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with the way he is.
Third, you want to help each other
you often feel sorry for each other? Do you think they have a responsibility to help each other perk up? you will not be afraid to leave the other party if he will not stand against? If so, you probably is a difficult mad aggrieved person, you love by the Health and pity, you are grateful,
new balance shoes, he will, like the feelings of such a rescue mission, not a sound, balanced emotions.
The key to remember here is br>
four, the other as the object of worship
director fell in love with a young actress, college students fall in love with professors, Secretary fell in love with the boss ... ..., fell in love with the object of worship, this feeling is difficult to maintain normal, because of equal treatment between the two men can not.
both men and women must be treated equally, I do not mean status, and is the attitude, not idolize each other. 'll love the object of worship, often self-confidence is low, they feel very bad.
five, you just be the other side physical attractiveness
everyone this way, right? If you find a character that they have been attracted to each other, to ask ourselves if there is no other pair of blue color of eyes, magnetic voice ... ... If the other party not a model, will not play basketball ... ...,
new balance running shoes, I will tell him (her) together? man is the first appearance of productivity
six short-term opportunities in daily life
you and your partner to share a job, often with overtime, so you feel in love the other side ... .... you go on vacation for three weeks, also came to know a man on vacation,
Two solar memorial - Qzone log, you feel like falling in love ... .... short morning till evening,
new balance sneakers, in exceptional circumstances is a piece of hash is not normal, this feeling can not be sustained, because the short time I felt I could not make you fully understand each other's personality.
seven,
《中日汗青上的每一个本日》 - Qzone日记, in order to rebel before choosing this object
parents always told you stressed the need to find a rich object, but why each of your boyfriend is a pauper; young parents strict discipline you, but why every girlfriend you were free; young father daily instruction, communication incense is the most important thing, but why can not your girlfriend is not life, that is, do not want ... ...
If the object of your choice, always make parents angry, you probably just want to rebel, what do you think will come back to prove, when you can not control their own choice, you do not really love each other, this relationship is doomed no results.
VIII the other is not free themselves
I made this point for last, because it can not be emotional. choose life companion of the first premise that the other is body The man on the earlier promise to break up with another woman; or he says he does not love that woman, and he loves you; or to accept his original object of your existence, they do not intend to break up, but he wants you together for a while; or he just broke up, but may be reunited ... ...,
new new balance shoes, these are not freelance.
object types and people who are married or have contacts, no matter what the excuse, the results are the same, You are doomed to heartbreak. Do not forget, you are simply part of another person with the left.
choice in your hands, the responsibility on you, you picked the right person. If you have contacts the object, and you are feeling one of the eight mentioned above, go to counseling, do not waste time, there are better objects for you
IX. replies are not sleepy? right?