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35174 2009 年 05 月 05 日 08:12 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (1) Classification: Emotional World
gun teacher
Hello, I am more and more depressed left a woman, I am afraid they will increasingly take things too hard, I now live life very depressed, especially in the emotion this piece, it is failed. I am 26, but I live in a small place has been considered an old maid, and that made the family lose face, his great pressure. I am a simple person feelings, not four years of university talked to big cities after graduation worked for two years, still nothing. During this period, my mother has suffered from Alzheimer's terrible,
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Fast forward almost a year back home, family members worry, I'm more anxious, and thus accepted the family's arrangements, and a stranger talk about it. At first, I vowed to the family said, as long as the height of the work in line with my requirements, and does not exclude the situation of my family and I to talk. But the real talk is not so when it happens, I think the second meeting did not ask each other advice to take my shoulder,
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mulberry sale, his looks, his mantra, all in all I think I can accept this is not , for his concern about the eyes, I was very cold, which makes the presence of Gesao very angry, and to this end have verbal conflict, so I feel wronged, but this time because the mother of a need care at home I wanted to go home early. That men with me by bus to the station, along the way we did not speak, I do not know what to say. To the station, I do not let him pay the fare, I count this thing is very clear, I do not like to pay someone else to the back so all the. Go back, I think I still do not like this man, would also like to look at the decision, the evening went out to introduce the students met the man, but the results so I am very disappointed. Family know, so I swing that is not good that man, so I'll make a stand, do not delay the people cut off early, while I am disappointed to find nothing wrong in my body, my eyes so choose, I would like them to say all right, but the thought of a lifetime to face people, I still soft heart to no less than that, I said it would break it, then that man phone me directly to the linked the shutdown, and I can replace my wife to go and the young man said what I meant. The next day my brother and I arranged for the blind field, but I heard the other side are not well educated, I once again refused. For the blind date, I have a little shadow, but such a small circle of, plus my house female cell, watch her getting off by the poor it is very lonely, so lonely old life I do not want to, but I do not want to compromise on reality, I want to go that something was out of this little place earlier, I still yearn for the bustling city life, no family constraints, live at ease, but the thought, after all, to a home, not very young, and then read three-year, that time could not find work, age is also greater, and nothing resolved, I'm afraid I can not even accept the kind of situation. Alive really confused, but the days have to business as usual, really tired, sometimes feel that they simply redundant, the family has been so complicated, and I even became a burden at home, compared to just come back to that time, I, I do not know even their own change, and hot-tempered, paranoid, I think I may suffer from depression, but I do not know who to talk to, I even lost confidence in his family, because I just say, they do not will stand on my point of understanding, it will only say that I am immature and naive. Gun teacher, I am afraid I have to adjust, but to me this attitude is now very easy to sleep night after night, how can I do?
Reply:
fact, not to start their own position on the high, really high level of education in rural areas will not stay at home, this is something you have to understand that the love they have to change their mind, find the object in fact,
mulberry Handbags, is love, but just love this form of trial period, no no need to point out his own world outside of like people, even giving a chance to meet or interview is not very often, opportunity is given its own, door without a gift.
own pressures, family pressures are carried in his shoulder, 26-year-old is relatively large in small areas of age, for the love object, to find a their own satisfaction, it is hard, this is a real social, for a the burden of family man will be taken into account.
Furthermore, the so-called house woman, but a way of escape, you do not want contact with foreigners, the total order to see their own ideas to see other people, sometimes they are not live for themselves, and live for something , the contact state with the outside world and directly affects a person's thoughts and visions.
1, the family is out of concern for family will make some things that you do not like that, others never do.
2, locked himself in the home will only make more and more depressed mood, go out, come out of their own errors, not all of the romantic love can also be strange, at first sight love at first sight may not be marriage, and marriage happiness is real happiness.
3, not to strengthen the ideological view of their age, love is just the age when the come to an additional condition.
4, when the attitude of everyone to make time, you have to re-cognition own ideas, whether with a viability of their point of view,
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