The original study in the cemetery memorial military wives
Sports Network (AFP) chief reporter newspaper reporter Nan Zhong Wang Jinliang Photo: Reporter Tong founding
Unfortunately, the family each have their own misfortune.
former husband, Xue-Jun, Chinese Academy of Sciences, Wuhan Institute of Physics and Mathematics, Senior Engineer;
wife Zheng Jing Gorge, a senior Chinese Medicine, Wuhan Institute of Physical Education, found in the spring of 2007 with advanced gastric cancer;
son fields, Tianjin University graduate, spring of 2007 because of depression Ziyishenwang home in Wuhan.
in the spring, as the Pandora's box is opened the same, unfortunately,
Adopted daughter, single mother begging saving medical treatment for the two yea, one after another. Since then more than 1,000 days and nights, nearly Nail husband, covered the verge of a broken heart, with a son who leaves the phone, the wife of the disease weave a lie.
2010 年 1 月 19 日 23 时 40 points, was tortured by the disease to the last breath of the wife and mother, the heart stops beating, this beautiful lie have been taken to heaven.
heaven bad news only son committed suicide
spent in anxiety: Zheng Jing Gorge physical deterioration, the family are anxiously awaiting the final outcome of the hospital.
wilderness at the age of 26, or about to graduate from Tianjin University,
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Soon, the hospital confirmed the results of your family's heart suddenly dropped to freezing point: the age of 54 suffering from Zheng Jing Gorge in advanced gastric cancer, and cancer has spread, surgery must be implemented as soon as possible.
busy military career step by step down the original study the matter at hand,
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2007 年 3 26,
8 each arm late wife walk 10 kilometers every day, the day the military to the original study unforgettable: noon home, he saw his son's mother is hospitalized boil ribs to the soup; in the evening and then open the door, my son has been hanged on the ceiling fan in the living room dead ... ... ! Think about again, he made a decision: the bad news to his wife to conceal his son, and entrusted all the family secret.
secret SMS mother and even the heart
son's funeral. Son cremated and the ashes storage in the Wuchang funeral parlor.
tolerate the grief back wards, the son of the original study had a sudden return to the military lied to Tianjin, busy with graduation and employment. He also told: the son of a bad mood, a lot of pressure, do not bother him too much, the time will send information back his son.
Over the years, the former military school and his wife have strict rules for his son. Although the family in good condition, but the overall teaching children to save, to send a clear message that things to try not to call.
Yuanxuejunzai Chulierzai Hou Shide when, to his son Zai Tianjin Shi Yong De Shouji quietly retained. Soon after, he sent to his wife the first message: His son's cell phone has become the most feared things, work, travel, and he carried; a tune into the home to silent mode, on the most hidden place, and feel free to delete each message sent and received.
Zheng Jing Gorge has been honest and honest to the full trust of the original military school, but the original is still learning the military lightly. Soon his son was gone, he has asked relatives of Tianjin and other items will be the son of a computer package to return from school, falsely claimed that his son graduated, and informed the good news: / p>
days passed. The university's original study on the military are familiar with the passage of time based on, the seasons change, step by step idea of the content of messages. Through these messages, Zheng Jing Gorge to know: his son to work, to positive, and increase wages, to prepare doctoral, love, and romance of the ... ...
But let the original study the military feared had happened. One day, Zheng Jing Gorge irrepressible yearning for his son, kept calling his son's cell phone. Xue-Jun then back to the original text is explained, the 2008 Spring Festival, the original study made up a reason for the military specifically, saying his son to doctoral, do not go home, do not have much contact. Zheng Jing Gorge replied that her mother understood the contents of the message has been believed.
life goes on, lies also been weaving. Many times the original study the military comfort his wife: son does not like the phone, may have their own considerations and mind, and now the pressure is very young, he will understand one day, will be out of the shadows, like medical treatment you peace of mind.
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period of time, Zheng Jing Gorge's condition has been effectively controlled, for life, she is full of yearning and hope.
Disease Zheng Jing Gorge have been accustomed to receive the For the introverted 2009 Chinese New Year, Zheng Jing Gorge is still not, and well, father of Tianjin Public Security Bureau ... ...
the original study the military admitted that he engaged in business for many years, lack of concern for his wife and children. Gentle and virtuous wife, do cook at home, favorite food shows, always changing the pattern to make a variety of dishes, is known for gourmet circle of friends.
appreciation of all kinds of food taste Zheng Jing Gorge maximum enjoyment and hobby. Although the treatment spent a lot of savings, but his wife looked increasingly thin weak body, the former army general wanted to learn his wife live to enjoy life, tasted every food in Wuhan.
time, he stumbled on the January two, each buyer. Every weekend, nearly sixty of the original study would ride his motorcycle troops, carrying his wife, what you want, street after street, today, Hankou, Hanyang tomorrow ... ... fish,
ecco shoes, sea cucumber Braised see good restaurants, I think of cancer treatment to help, I dragged her to eat a few times ... ... After New Year's Day 2010, Zheng Jing Gorge's condition suddenly worsened. January 10, Zheng Jing Gorge ready to re-hospitalized.
the evening of January 9, the original study took advantage of his wife still awake army, he told her: Watching the Spring Festival you will be able to come back! Without the knowledge of patients and doctors have complained: busy, busy abroad, and not blame him!
2010 年 19 January 11:40 the night of the original Xuejun seeing his wife's care device appears on the screen in a straight line. He stroked his wife's face, muttering: died, making the military thought of the original study,
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the original, the son of wilderness in the March 26, 2007 after the death of his wife to avoid being discovered, the original Army study of its ashes stored in Wuchang funeral home and paid a 3-year storage fee. After his wife died, the former military school in Wuhan Jiufeng immediately bought a cemetery near the tomb of the two-bit, after removing his son's casket, on Jan. 21 with buried.
Although the Army the day before the original study was to his wife and children specifically for the suit, playing a tie, the whole appeared to be very spiritual person. He said that the The original military white gloves science wipe the tombstones over and over again until the top spotless. Then he carefully put in Beiqian longan, citrus and other fruits, but also cast a piece of yellow and white chrysanthemum petals. Army and choking back tears to speak.
others lament -
keep it secret, and the courage required to pay what?
son after the death of the original study the military to all our energy on work and care for wife. See too painful chemotherapy, the original study asked a friend from the Shenyang military effects buy medicine at home every day boiled plaster, paste a picture of his wife, and then over and over massage. Helped her with bathing and laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, which he never left the housework all the contract down.
three years, the former military school is spinning like a gyroscope. He can not, dare not stop. Not only because of the need to take care of his wife, but, once quieted down, the pain of bereavement, forlorn hope, all the disappointments will emerge from the bottom of my heart, and put him to torture to be added.
Therefore, the gap in the care of his wife once improved, he immediately threw himself into the work, always focussed on the work, to numb themselves, forget the pain of life.
he has done, is for his wife. As long as the secret hold on the hearts of his commitment to everything. Nevertheless, Many people think he is too cruel.
Zheng Jing Gorge, a longtime friend and always knew what her children in her sick, go home to visit friends, the two sat in the living room sofa, conversation be about Zheng Jing Gorge to her Xing Zheng Jing Gorge hastily said, and did not notice the faces of friends toward the TV screen, has long been the face of the tears. Since then, his friends no longer afraid to face Zheng Jing Gorge, but often on the phone greeting.
lies when there are almost Goof last day, Zheng Jing Gorge suddenly received a text message: information accidentally deleted. In this regard, the original study to explain the military repeatedly for several days, was talking to various reasons, the last stall in the past. So far, the original study the military do not know, who is at the time, to his wife sent a text message.
inner monologue -
with a lifetime waiting, waiting for the results of happiness ... ... To reporters about the past three years happen to them bit by bit, his 60-year-old as a child, sometimes smiling, sometimes crying.
1980, he married and Zheng Jing Gorge, three decades of ups and downs them together for three years passed and, once loving husband and wife, has also been enjoyable for a family of three, and now looking back,
Salamander was issued four wildcat baby cry for he, reminding us of scenes a good dream ... ... the original study, said the military to stay in the hearts of countless memories, hard to break away, the huge home, but only their lonely footsteps,
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in this man who happened to allow journalists to shock, also will join burst into tears ... ...
the original study the military said: I never once lied to her spread, I do not think I will from an honest husband, and finally become a 'world's biggest liar', so cruel, so heartless, three years, the long suffering of the three, ah ... ... the day, I hope that one day, to have a miracle, she can recover her body can withstand the bad news. so, I can tell her the truth, let me accompany her through the grief, to finish the long human growth Road ... ...
Zheng Jing Gorge left, former school friends, the military repeatedly to console, without remorse, to bravely face life.
journalists believe, who reading this has touched every soul who would wish the grief out of the original Xuejun, blessing he has a beautiful, peaceful and happy old age. Source: Metropolis Daily
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