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required nine kinds of capabilities into a major event, 9 means, 9 share
a state of mind: calm
(1) Do not reveal your emotions.
(2) Do not tell everyone that your problems and experiences.
(3) in consultation with the views of others before their first thought, but do not speak.
(4) do not have the opportunity to nag your dissatisfaction.
(5) essential decision as far as possible to argue the best every other day and then unlocked.
(6) lecture do no have anyone panic, walk also.
II: carefully
(1) what is happening around them, often thinking their causation.
(2) the implementation of the impossible situation, to disclose their fundamental crux.
(3) of the adapted ways of doing things, the proposal should be enhanced or optimized.
(4) do anything to develop a methodical and orderly habits.
(5) often find a few people do not see the problems or failings.
(6) to anywhere ashore the inadequacy of their own place to fill the seats.
III: courage
(1) lack of positiveness not usually accustomed words
(2) do not often go back, have resolved to do softly overturned.
(3) fighting over the mob, do not assertive.
(4) the overall air is low, you should be optimistic approximately the sun.
(5) intentions of doing anything else, because something is seeing you.
(6) when things do not respiration, and re-find a breakthrough to end should be trim and natty.
Four: generous
(1) Do not disturb to have a associate who could become antagonists.
(2) on other people's small faults, small peccadilloes do not care about.
(3) the money to be generous, to learn the 3 facilities (fiscal fathom, Fasch, Wuwei Shi)
(4) do not have the arrogance of power and knowledge of the discrimination.
(5) any results and completions should be shared with others.
(6) must be some mash or devotion, when their own path in front.
five: integrity
(1) can not do Do not say, say it to do.
(2) the vacant slogans or slogans do not always linked to his jaws.
(3) for the customer's
(5) juggle a small smart, no good!
(6) calculate the price of the honesty of the production or service that namely cost of the mark.
Six: play
(1) review of any mistake, when start their own or their own people began to reflect.
(2) the matter after the first review of the fault, and then set out the credit.
(3) admit the beginning from higher levels, starting from the lower table functions
(4) continue with a plan, the first clear delineation of responsibilities, and assigned properly.
(5) of the > 1, the courage to decision - to conquer the habit of wavering nothing
cause why numerous people, the biggest problem is lack of courage determination manner, forever looked around, later thinking it over, and accordingly missed the best chance to succeed. into a major event in the outlook the possibility of coming to the success of things, the courage to make major decisions, so a brain start.
2, challenge disabilities - to completely alteration their flaws
everyone has weaknesses, of those great things can not always stick their weaknesses, not a major life change; to those great things are always good at their own weaknesses on the surgery, the ability to become itself into a super person. a enterprise can not correct their deficiencies who can only is a loser!
3, overcome difficulties - from the failure team of successful capital
always face difficulties in life challenges, can even say that the plight is the event made the plight of those who are able to become a mighty springboard to success.
4, collar the opportunity - good selection, good at creating
opportunity is the greatest wealth. Some people waste the opportunity accessible, so 1 has potential opportunities are slipped noiselessly ran into a major event is indeed not allowed to slip away, and can bound toward the opportunity.
5, to activity a strong point - to do things they do best
a very feeble ability of people life location it is difficult to open, the stage of life he must be the martyr of heavyweight; those great things to do on their own,
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6, attitude correction - - should not let negative emotions ache themselves
mentality who can not supply to live in any case pick and burden, because they can not face a private health setback into a major event is on high-speed attitude, even in the hopeless,
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7, immediate action - just saying no, a hundred times better than one operation
vain thought. Some folk are more than the actual reality of entities occur to him; into a major event every daytime depend on action to implement their life maneuvers.
8, sociable - a smart use of human resources people do not know how
communication is bound to advance the power of person relationships. One of the characteristics of those great things are: good by leveraging, by heat to create a successful situation, so can a piece of accomplishing someone difficult to accomplishing, and realize their life planning.
9, re-planning - Station to a higher starting point
life is a process, success is a process if you meet the small success will encourage the huge success of those excellent things from small to know great hard process, so to attain a small success, to proceed to open the afterward life not the best result, I am scared it is tough to mention. into a major event always select the best means to attain the best results, this non-ordinary people can do so in the road to success, you want to chance a major event , the first problem to be solved is: you means to enhance the success of your plan is instant!
into the event must have nine kinds of capabilities
aptitude to survive challenge: to find the reply in real good ; ; ;
1, attitude and For those who dare to face reality
often complain about the raspy reality of people who can not desirable reality, as usual prison life, both hands and feet jump, and bound body and mind, so often succumb to the pressure of reality, a weak persons; and those who really into big things, you defiance to challenge the reality, in reality, honing their survival skills, which is called the lusty!
Here, we can draw one into a big experience: to adapt to changing realities and fast change their motifs, the most important thing is we need to have an intelligent mind and a flexible eye, do life, heart.
under oppression in the real world, whether you change the conception, timely and along, to be received to the multiplier efficacy.
inseparable from the reality of our bottom-up even for a moment, with the reality of change, we must adapt their ideas, thoughts, actions and goals. This is a must to survive.
If we have a way to change reality to eligible our abilities and appetites of the development needs, it is most valuable.
2, so you have peerless self-
made, is to overcome desire, not because of a little impulsive pressure on the heart,
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a person unless the 1st control yourself, otherwise it will not control additional people.
a successful event at a time the goal, understand what they ambition , and then take action, acquaint yourself never give up, success is only a stuff of period merely.
way if you are in trouble or obstacles, you go to face it and solve it, then push on, so the problem was not greater collection.
when you move forward one step mount, do not say to yourself most difficult to overcome is their own, the meaning of these words is that the biggest obstacle to a person's success does not get cracking the outside world, but their own and only control ourselves, to control the pressure to yield to the pressure in front of you.
3, the emotion into the rationality of the box
generated a backlash is often shrewd, merely its clash on a person's life is big, this effect is reflected from the many little things we should try to exclude their negate sensations, because it will give us not only occasion physical and psychological harm, and we on the road to success, negative emotions can occasionally become a stumbling stop.
to your success, you have the emotion into rational carton, you have to adjust to other people adjust to the situation, otherwise, you are preordained to not become a major event, destined to be eliminated.
4, the power of thought solo can activate
If you know how to be alone, then, all those great things who is good at being alone - alone in the process of thought-provoking power.
low self-esteem can be overwhelming, favor a mountain man and you will never muffle can too be like a strong driving force for propulsion.
before anybody else step, to create a successful state of mind.
in alone, you should be thinking, do not always overstaffed.
5, pressure is the best incentive
who want to become a major event, because the target high, the pressure may be greater, but Ruoyu into a big, must be able to resist this pressure, the pressure as the driving force to promote life.
one of the most outstanding work is often the case out in the face of adversity made. people want to do something we should do certain things should be done must be good, the fixed should not do not do.
get does not necessarily Fortunately, it does not completely lose the bad things.
6, the transformation strain, have a way out
conform to the trend,
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a person does not handle with people considerable skills, not the manifold conditions are thoughtful mind, flexibility of the tool, you simply can not control the big situation will be difficult to become a major event.
a person can see their status, attitude will poise many, an objective can be to look on, understanding the world, and adjust their behavior.
7, self-confidence is a strong pillar of life, self-confidence enough
's ability to adapt to tall ability to adapt to low and vice versa.
general lack of confidence in some of the more serious people are constantly physical and psychological symptoms, such as usualdrawal, panic of dealing with people, talking too utmost despair.
If the work experience of the more successful, then the stronger self-confidence.
the opportunity to training self-less successful, more self-confidence is weak, thus resulting in a serious inferiority complex.
nineteenth-century thinkers Ralph Waldo Emerson said: will be invincible. .
into a major event and who is not a big inconsistency in some small action only: cost 5 minutes a day perusing, playing more than a phone, a little more exertion, one that at the right time, performing on multiple charges a little effort, do more research, more than in the studio or test time.
in action before you know you are competent to this task.
no pardon can be interpreted to be what you are still not able of a long task.
Whether you want to pursue what you must force yourself to promote the ability to achieve goals.
spare not practice, engage in lively train, practice leftover eventually! never stop learning, and be sure to apply the knowledge gained in annual life.
9, to concentrate on act one thing
If maximum people condense strictly on a job they can do this work well.
most of those great things jobbers is the ability to make decisions quickly and decisively, they are always the first to nail a clear goal and focus and devotion towards this goal.
concentrate on doing one time only things, dedicate themselves and actively want it to succeed, so that your center will not feel exhausted.
the things you need to do is imagine a big row of drawers in a small drawer. Do not always think of all the drawer, and you have to converge on the open drawer. each man's means are not the same things, you can tell, there is a means to a person, there is a kind of a person means to be successful on their own way. Numerous facts have shown that some people are too self-confident, sure miss their own means to solve any problems, but do not kas long asthis is often not have any effect, so they always feel that the goal of success is not getting away from the past, and In truth scale up distant.
into nine kinds of memorabilia must
opinion of mind: affirmative
1. always thinking succeed
2. to do the to do extraordinary things
7. to reserve the young mind is very important
8. is always positive, active, ardent attitude of the two
: industrious humility
1. Top Gun analytic, down to dry
2. Qin King industries, menial man
3. diligence than talent
4. hard to build a successful, dispose lazy genius
5. cultivate the habit of hard go ambition be a lifetime
6. there is a hard, there is a harvest
7. patience and advocate to Three: Honesty and trustworthiness
1. sincerity is derived from its own ecology
2. honesty is the big winner
3. in agreeable faith to lay a successful foundation
4. honest friendship will make you cause more amplified
5. a man of integrity should behaviour
6. honesty is as big a with eagerness to do things
mentality of four: the gallantry to challenge
1. dare to challenge themselves, overcome the degrading psychological
2. Challenge Unlimited
3. made by the courage to persist in the end, halfway cowards
4 stirred into a major challenge as the confidence
5. courage is a good way to overcome difficulties
6. people who triumph power, since the winner strong
7. patience and perseverance are the elementary skills into a major event
8. perseverance into a big, kick the tires no way out
mentality Five: Six good cooperation
mind: balance
contented state of mind of the seven: happy attitude of the eight
: generous guest, the
mentality nine: always confident