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The second reason that I feel for you is that I have been in your shoes. I know how painful it is to be in an ending marriage - and it drives you to desperation. It makes you allow your emotions to take the better of you and do the wrong things to save your marriage. Such wrong actions would be to:
2. When this doesn't work (and it won't), your emotions will make you go and beg your spouse for forgiveness to save your marriage. Unfortunately this is another big mistake because it will make you look desperate and needy - no one wants such a spouse.
1. First, trying to talk your spouse out of a divorce by apologizing over and over. This kills your credibility in your spouse's eyes because it's clear to them that you are apologizing to save your marriage; not because you have sincerely understood your mistakes.
4. Use your talents/gifts to serve the world - the best way for you to serve the world is in doing what you love and/or loving what you do. You have a core genius. You have within you the most wonderful talents and gifts. How do you know what they are - its simple - you feel BRILLIANT when you're pursuing them! So pursue them and keep nourishing them. Then start asking questions like - how can I use my talents and gifts to serve my family, my community, my country, the world? How can I begin to earn an income from what I love and how then can I get it to grow? As you take each step on such a path you leave behind a path which is illuminated with love ######## Ed Hardy Sunglasses Clearance, with kindness, with joy, with happiness, with passion and it acts as a lighthouse for those who find themselves in stormy seas. Does it take courage? Absolutely! And this is one of the traits you have in abundance - simply take the first step and keep going!
If you are reading this article because you have marriage problems and you want to save your marriage from divorce, first I want to congratulate you on this. Marriages are the building blocks of a society, and they are what keeps people unified. They are sacred institutions that are meant to unify two people until eternity. It's a shame the marriage failure rate is so overwhelmingly high (87%). In the year 2009, people are too selfish to try to maintain this sacred bond. So that's why I congratulate you for sharing these views with me.
3. Create a new identity - we are creative beings. Instead of having an identity which is attached to anything outside yourself, which is subject to change and ultimately beyond your control, base it on the infinite wisdom and greatness that is within you. This can never be taken away from you, recession or otherwise. You can begin to affirm to yourself "I am an infinitely creative and resourceful person", "My greatest hour has yet to come", "I am so happy doing what I love and loving what I do and getting richly rewarded for it" ######## Oakley Sunglasses, "the greatest moment of my life is this one - the more I truly live it, the more fulfilled I am and the more the future blossoms." Its also a good idea to remind yourself of what you really like/love about yourself - make a list and smile with every wonderful trait you posess. And let those you love know how wonderful it is that they are part of your life.
I didn't make an inch of improvement in my marriage until I was taught to acknowledge that my emotions were guiding me wrong. When I stopped acting according to my emotions and instincts; and started to look for outside advice cheap fitted baseball hats, I instantly made a lot of progress in saving my marriage.