Michael Yu, chairman of New Oriental's speech in Tongji University (2009/06/02) In fact, people live to very good, as there is no meaning of life is another matter. Live every day the sun rose every day to see the sun went down. You can see the sunrise, to see the sunset, see the moon rise and fall, see the sky of stars, this is the best meaning of living.
Tongji University students did not expect me so \So I believe the first thing students will see that I am very disappointed. In fact, everyone is very common, we often find that a very important thing in life with our future happiness and success in fact not too many links. For example, someone that looks like success in the future there will be a lot of contact; Some people think that their family background will necessarily associated with success; Some people think that the people on the prestigious universities will be successful, good grades in college than People with poor academic performance is more likely to succeed ... ... all of these factors may be partly right, but most of the largely ineffective, such as appearance.
If a person's appearance and success related, there would be no Jack Ma and Alibaba, because if the students here think that Ma good looking, it must be a problem with the aesthetic.
course, this does not mean that the better looking person can not make it, for example, we are more familiar with another company boss boss Robin Li, Baidu. Li is very handsome, all his pictures are like movie stars look the same, but he also achieved success. So no matter how looks, can succeed, but Li and Ma are sitting at lunch, they usually do not like to sit next to a chair, because two people were appalling to the point, the solution is both of them put me in the middle of a transitional role to play. Like me, who looks no features can be successful. So whether it is male or female, the most important thing is their rich inner world, his demeanor and temperament of the training, the expansion of his mind, and unwavering pursuit of the ideal target. With increasing age, these will gradually become your wisdom, all of which is constituted the true essence of your success.
then there is no success and family background matter? We often see some powerful fu JIA origin, who was born with a silver spoon. For example, we may see some of his classmates wearing the left designer clothes, carrying the right brand of handbags, party secretary sitting in front of the daughter, son, sitting behind the central leadership, and you may be one from the ordinary worker families of undergraduates.
Sometimes you will feel satisfied, but the world already full of injustice, and many are often unfair to flash before your eyes. You will say, how would I do in this world, why he has everything, and I have nothing? I was in college also had this normal psychology. For example, my students will have the son of minister, a university professor's daughter, and I was the son of a farmer. After the 3rd entrance into the Peking University, dressed in commoner lug pole walked. You will find that you always keep up their status, they might as well say keep up the pace. You will find that even if they do nothing to stop life, the things they have more than you.
example, in the freshman year, when the minister of the child class have open every Friday, 280 Mercedes-Benz driver pick him back. At that time you think we can not afford a bike, he actually sat Mercedes-Benz 280, it is what kind of feeling. Basically you feel in this life is finished. But the students to remember you the truth, life is always moving forward, we should take a lifetime. We are not only through the next four years, or graduate school, we go a lifetime. May come to 80,90 years old, although come to 80,90 years old, lives in the end you do not know how to, you can do is to keep walking. So I am very proud to come from the son of a farmer north and finally to this day. My mind is very balanced, but I actually Zoulehenyuan. Of course, some students will say, you're in the North has been very successful. Indeed, many of Beijing University has increased my success. For example, because the North is very strong atmosphere of the school, so I read a lot of books, thinking becomes very sharp.
North does have human environment, a bronze statue of Cai Weiming Lake on the edge of the set, but every year tens of thousands of people into the Peking University, Peking University also has a few thousand people, can succeed in the end there? In fact, the success rate of Peking University students are not successful than any high proportion of college students.
all the success means that you pay after graduation to further efforts, if successful University of meaning, then there will be no Ma was. I told Ma, many of the same place where he had 3 years of college entrance exam, I took the test three years, he is the English test, I test the English, the third year I went to Beijing University, he went to Hangzhou Teachers College. I believe that many students heard of this college, then I think my life should be more successful than he is right, but very unfortunately, from the viewpoint of today, the market value of Alibaba is the New Oriental listed 3 times, and I they made a new addition to the East of everything. Not only that, he still Taobao, Alipay ... ...
So, your future success and what college you go no connection, but later more of the easier employment abroad. Wonderful life can not get out, the University laid the foundation for you, but can not determine your life. To university graduates only had a quarter life, how the next time we have it? First, we must keep walking, because you do not live on nothing else. Whether you believe that the afterlife, I still believe that this life is our best paradise. So I hate to commit suicide or suicide as a threat, I think this is a lack of respect for life. Kind of concept, called \Because from my experience 40 years of life experience, you sit in that long, maybe the sky really will fall to the pie, of course, may also block meteorite fall. In any case, do not self a break, there will be many miracles happen in life. If Professor Yang Chen did not live to 82 years, how did he know it could end the second marriage?
but students who have taken life always looking forward, even if there is no hope of expectations. Students can think about a lot of people in our history, such as Jiang Taigong fishing in the river, to the 80-year-old year, the emperor in his side through it, found the old man fishing with a straight rod, with He will find this talk very wise old man, so to bring him back, and together they laid the Zhou Dynasty of the world. Qi comrades in the age of 50 still doing carpentry, is not a great painter, his works are all the great age of 80 to 90 years old when completed. Therefore, there is always such a phenomenon of life, some people have when they are young, as some people when there is a middle-aged, some old time there as well. Flowers are always in different seasons, if all the flowers are finished in the spring, in summer, fall, winter does not have any flowers open you will find this nature is so beautiful it?
Therefore, we think, if all of the wonderful life in the university had done, and the back is always flat, do you think that life will be perfect? In other words, you had college less exciting, has become more and more exciting after graduation is not more good? Facts have proven that many of our students achievements in college are always among the best, but after graduating from college but how come you can not make anything. Because in society, not performance at work. IQ scores can only prove that you than others, but it does not determine your life to a certain amount to anything.
success is not just determined by your achievements, the most important is the ability to deal with society and acted in the capacity. Relationships in a variety of chaos, the ability to look for opportunities, and you end up leading a gang with you the ability to create business. And all this is not determined by your performance. Of course I'm not saying do not take science in college, get a college diploma is inevitable, because in the future we will find such a phenomenon, if, even fail to get a college diploma, your life will be full of difficulties .
many people now read the University, some people say that college means nothing, because they can not work. Indeed up to now, this year the proportion of graduates find work only about 40%, but I believe this is only a temporary phenomenon,
cheap kobe bryant jersey, because of China's industrial structure has not been adjusted. From a historical point of view, far more than the Chinese students, because China is shifting from manufacturing to consulting, information, logistics and service industries to communicate with the world, which means that all college students here have such ability to work, must to find a job.
time that a college student told me that Yu teacher I want to start, do not go to college. I said why, he said, Bill Gates would like to learn. I said there are several Bill Gates the world, not to a thing, he said okay, he can become a second. I said, why do not the universities? He said, I failed the exam, does not go on. This is like Bill Gates can not be compared, people feel that their knowledge is far more than the teacher, that the University has been a waste of time, put their own creativity and timely play, so the drill into their own Microsoft went to the auto research library. These are two completely different concepts.
course, I just emphasize your academic performance is not necessarily good to do good in future. Have a statistical data, the top 10 grades in college and post-10 students did a research to a stage for 20 years, university students last 10 total wealth and access to social status, actually has over the previous 10 higher. This means that even the most backward in college students do not give up. For example, I worked for 5 years at the university, when the graduation is to bottom fifth graduating class, but now we are the first to fifth class in the new full-East. So, we never give up yourself.
is not a long walk of our life is bound to have achieved it? No, because the walk of life, there are two: the first one to walk on the plains and went 90 years old, very flat, but you can not see the beautiful scenery around. Because the plain view are the same on both sides. So, when looking back on your life, it was found empty.
our lives must be the same as the endless mountains, the same as the Tibetan Plateau through. Xianfeng always in front of countless that we need to conquer, and once we got Xianfeng, the infinite beauty of life will show up, panoramic view of the entire world. Of course, the climb is not an easy thing, you have to pay a lot of consideration, but the costs are worth it. You climb a hill, if you go to another mountain, we must start again from the bottom to climb, because no two mountains are connected together.
the most exciting time of life is to old to be able to write a memoir, he would have experienced due to the life of moving, will move others to continue to fight for the wonderful life, this time I can say my life very fulfilling.
a lot of wealthy students, to buy mobile phones, computers, parents will meet you, you get a moment would be very happy, but because easy to get, so easy to lose. Because it is easy, it will not cherish. The best in life is to cherish the things get, the premise must be the treasure you are not easy.
I met 10 years ago, a particularly touching story: a college student came to me, because the very poor, but want to go abroad, like the GRE and TOEFL New Oriental classes, but he had no money with me so East said he wanted a new class, but no money, can do part-time summer classes at the New Oriental administrator, and arranged for him to TOEFL and GRE classes, check Sao Wan Ting Kezheng students to complete after the lectures at the back I said of course. I did not expect the students also mentioned the requirement, if the two-month part-time has really done well, then, can pay him 500 yuan to buy him a tape recorder, I said no problem. The child made a two-month result, all contact with him say the boy seriously hard, so that two months later, I gave him a thousand dollars to let him buy a tape recorder wages. After he bought, while listening to the tape edge of tears. I know he was touched by their actions, and doubtless a big breath, sure enough a few years later he was admitted a full scholarship to Yale University, and is still work in the USA, thousands of dollars annual salary of 130,005. So moved only by their own will be wonderful life.
fact, I moved some make their own stories, such as my entrance exam. At that time thinking I have to test the university, but never thought into the North, so hard to read. Sometimes you will find your head down, straight ahead, the target will be in your back. So when I got the admission notice of Beijing University when the sky really is laughing and crying, with Fanjinzhongju exactly the same. But if at that time did not insist, maybe I am still just a farmer's son. For example, when we have people like me, the village took the test two years, he still scores higher than my third, when I told him that the third test with it, but his mother said not to test, and find a woman married to count , but I was with my mom, you let me test one year, results in the third year I really admitted. So I have come to two conclusions, 1, must run forward, not necessarily to run fast, but the long run; 2, can not stop, you can not three days two days of drying fishing nets, to persevere.
I went too lazy today, not a day, I still have to work nearly every day 16 hours that day from the entrance every day. But I found that I was over but some colleagues. From primary to high school, I learned also very serious, results are always among the first 10 to 20, and I learned even more serious in college, but eventually the bottom fifth graduating class. Tortoise and the Hare story we know from elementary school, and life is also often reflected. Because people tend to run fast to stop, but can not because of slow Paode Man is not running. Long run, sooner or later will reach the end you desire. So when we do not go to college regardless of who scores high or low, as long as the stop pursuing it.
Once, a friend asked me who a lifetime horse and camel to go far? I think it must be the horse, he said you are wrong, the path of the camel is much more than the horse, because the horse will stop running for a while, but once you start a camel to go, if you do not let it stop, it will not stop . Therefore, a wise man is not necessarily a lifetime achievement created by people stupid than to create a multi, because stupid people are creating every day, and intelligent people may create a period of time would stop, even Edison that super-genius, a child is also considered an idiot. Einstein-year-old would speak, but fortunately he had a good mother always thought he was a genius to make him a great scientist. So when my son will not speak to 4 years old, my wife worried Strip him everywhere doctor, I say, do not look, 4-year-old will not talk normal. My wife says, why do normal, I say, not speak the language function development is not complete, does not mean that mind is developed. So never use your situation to determine your future, as long as you stick to what you will get something unexpected.
life, there are many unexpected things, like, three years I've never thought of college entrance examinations into the North, but the results I found out after the announcement of Beijing University entry score 7 points. After that time, we are their choice of test, I was also concerned about not being completed after admission, the result is still taking me north. Because many people with high scores than I dared to fill in Peking University. After I entered the North, due to poor performance overall in the last class, but I never stop learning.
then I have to contact the class many students go abroad, I saw the envy and want to catch up with their pace, it also began to contact abroad. A full 4 years, contacted numerous American universities and professional, not an American university offered me a scholarship. While a few get admission notice, but to the United States Embassy visa each time refused. Of course, now my visa in addition to Iraq, not, almost all the other countries. Now the United States gave me the visa is 10 years multiple entry business visa. Because New Oriental is listed in the U.S., he must allow me to enter the United States anytime, anywhere on any given day. So when my childhood friend and now also facing the Yellow River, in this life we have not been out of town, I have traveled around the world. We think, in Xu, Su Shi that age without any means of transport, can wander through landscapes, wrote many of us moved and moving text, and prosperity in our age of technology without leaving behind some of the world text and footprints, how do you worthy of my own.
Some students said the teacher Yu money because you can do so. Frankly, before I have no money and I will do so. Because a child is my most admired figures Xu, because he is my fellow, stayed at my house next door. But he was 400 years ago, stayed at my house next door, to know where local celebrities on the impact on the young is very great. One time, I sat next to the Yangtze River to see sunrise and sunset, I was thinking how can go so far Xu it? Therefore, I will aspire to meet him in this life to go as far.
precisely because there is such an example in, I will find entrance once, twice, I do not despair, because I know the only way out of rural boundary is admitted to the University. I want to become a city of rural household accounts, because at that time could walk around the city's account. Although I usually very calm, but there is always a desire in mind, called the desire goes away across the horizon, that is, looking at the horizon I never satisfied, and I always want to turn over the horizon to see what the other side in the end The.
we all know, if you continued beyond the horizon there will be a lot of scenery displayed in front of you. It does not matter to you with no money. And I have carries 100 yuan, went to the Mount, went to the Huangshan Mountain, went to the Jiuhuashan, went to the Lushan. I walked to work to help others, come Jiuhuashan found no money, slept in a farmer family. That I broke a farmer in the river bed, but also to find me for money, and only 5 dollars in my pocket. So I say to help him with planting to offset accommodation. He said taking a closer look, how students will be planting it? Results jumped the day I put a three-quarters, and he just put a quarter moved him half dead. He said, how can you plug so fast? I said, I'm 14 years old to get over our county planting title. Then he killed a chicken for the evening to drink with me. The more he talked the more I like my students like farmers. The next day I left, he actually dig the 10 dollars to me, I know that money in your pocket, and tomorrow we still have to Lushan, this money will give you when tolls.
life is a variety of living law, but even if you sit in the middle of his study, his life and let life be great. Nothing was den OF CHEN life, not the world's greatest mathematicians? So no matter what the state should also like to write a poem as \Therefore, only when our lives have a look later, can progress. Sometimes, we choose to move forward, not because we are so strong. There are so short I was very moved, has become my motto: \Any new recruits New Oriental teachers and staff must walk 50 kilometers, and the future also have to walk every year 50 km. Many people have never walked so far as the general walked 10 kilometers to walk, wading in particular, to climb to go. Every time I would go with New Oriental staff, half the time someone will come back to, I said no, you can not go, but first handed to the resignations. When we arrived at 25 km when you have only three options, first, to continue to move forward; the second, back; but when you go half the time, you go back is 25 km, it is not if we insist on moving forward ; third, standing still is not fixed. Stop in the journey of life is not what hope is there before it?
we lost a lot of life and suffering, and as long as you keep moving forward, the pain is often resolved. In the process of walking, I have a pain in the tears flee, has also been a pain in the crying, but I know you really stick to it not because of the strong but because you have no choice. Till the end, you will find that there are always results. I did not think the training of 13 new students from the East, and now into training, 1.75 million students, in fact, all of which you do not have to go to, if we continue to move forward on the line.
always going to pursue our life an experience, sometimes we feel that people do not even like fish, because I was in Canada, I read the Canadian salmon return to spawn each time it returned, I always find life and its spectacular, eggs in the sand will be produced by other animals eat a lot. The following spring, when the rest of the eggs will become small fish, tiny fish downstream and into the lake, and other fish in the lake will be eaten by some. A year later, the fish will grow along the river ran out into the ocean, and then around the Pacific Ocean a week, every four years a cycle. If the salmon to move along in the ocean, not to return the lake to lay eggs, it will not die, but it is being concentrated in the mouth of the call inside started swam, swim into the river once again eat anything when desperate forward tours, and then began to travel to the destination pair to lay eggs, producing both good after death. You will see thousands of dead fish floating in the river red, while the eagle and black bear on the edge waiting.
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and your present condition does not depend on your future, when I was at the university more blow, first, as the poor, indeed I was wearing a large patch into the campus, and we never sports teacher in the class do not call my name, are called to be a movement that big patch. Because I had training in the countryside, doing just fine jumping movements of view, so I always called out to do presentations.
the first day of the evening, the class class meeting, I rise to speak a word. Wang Qiang, New Oriental is now the teacher is our class monitor, stand up and tell me if you can not speak Japanese. Because I have been in the rural school, so we never useless Mandarin language teachers to the lesson for us, I do not know Mandarin at what to say. North was in accordance with the English placement scores, college entrance English test I was just fine because it was assigned to the A class, in fact, I heard that level is not good, so to Class A month later was demoted to Class C, and C classes mainly for those who voice tone and hearing-impaired students. Etc. Later, I found my classmates and I really have an IQ gap between those students I usually do not see how serious they are also learning how one final exam will be able to get good grades, study time every day I have more than they two or three hours but each time the countdown to final exams are in class a few. It makes me feel very depressed.
At that time, our class of 50 students, 25 boys and 25 girls. At first I heard this figure is particularly exciting, but did not think the girls in our class did a Zhengyan Qiao my glance. In 2001, when our class reunion, we come back from around the world. Looking back, we suddenly discovered that the very unpromising class, Mandarin is also about bad, unknown how the man became the best of the class. This time female students are enthusiastic to hold onto my hand, do not start with regret.
college girls ask me why later, Yu teachers what we are looking for a boyfriend to the standard, I said very simple, refer to my looks. Of course, if looks like me, it is absolutely not let go of. Those who were so much ugly and do not let go, because the law of this world is, the more ugly people richer content.
junior year when I most like to read the \The results showed that he himself was vomiting blood. To the hospital, doctors put a check immediately locked up tuberculosis, one off that year. I told the doctor said the young man like me how will it be TB? The doctor told me about the status quo. I said, you see I have to learn especially hard, can score that do not increase, the class is not a girl like me. He said this may not TB is completely impossible.
but the disease also brought me to adjust on the state of mind, because the first two years I was in college, you want to catch up with my classmates is my spiritual support. But by the third grade, I was sick after one year completely changed, I feel alive for good. I then gave himself a set minimum standards to ensure that college graduates get a diploma at least, the last state to assign a job to me good. Although I did not give up efforts, the result will be a more open mind. So, until now I have learned never to go over, because there are always more good than you, there are always more backward than you.
the world's most accurate is your competitors, think about today is not better than yesterday, a little progress, think about next year is not more better than this year. Think about it, 10 years after the year you are not than you better. This attitude has been maintained to my college.
graduated from university, each person must go speak a word, such as how to get after the rest of my life, I would go about such a passage: I said, the students we are all powerful, I did not catch everyone 5 years to recover on, but please remember, after the students play a camel certainly will not give up, you do 5 years into my dry dry for 10 years, you have 10 things that I did it as dry as 20 years, 20 years dry as you things that I did it for 40 years, it is not happy I will keep good health, to the 80-year-old one away after you put me before you leave. This is my personal attitude to keep to the present, and I think such an attitude is very effective for me.
I was asked if the new East did not how to do? In fact, New Oriental will sooner or later did not, because it is already a commercial operation of educational institutions. Think about it, we see a message the other day, GM is an American icon, is not still the verge of bankrupt? This may be the future of New Oriental will become the traces of history. But I think, even if the new East still very successful without me, because my mind was very successful. The kind of life I desire and pursuit of the horizon through the desire will not change. I think that New Oriental to me is a spirit, a strength, not a new East itself, brought me how much money, of course, if the new Oriental give me more money, I also like to have, not money is a fool it. But more importantly, money can make some more meaningful things to. For example, I have always wanted to do a small private university, I might not be as big as the Tongji University, but do it one-tenth of always right? In Beijing, I have bought a piece of land, is being built university campus, after making it just like New Oriental decoupling of listed companies, and become a non-profit college campuses, then it becomes possible to do another of your things.
how to change their own lives more fulfilling is the most important thing, so that the New Oriental does not exist a day is normal. If the new Orient did not, I still will come with you a lecture, but will be more cheerful mood. Because there is no complicated things. I just want another title on the line today called \
while in college, a few things we need to do is: first, to build their own knowledge structure intact; Secondly, it is possible to make friends in college, because you life-long friends, co-operation who will come from your university; Third, if possible, in comparison to talk about a specific college, love, as North back to my life gray. I think why is it gray? In fact, not because of poor grades, but because of 5 years in college I never had the time drawing near. So college has become my regret. Let me give all of last year, Peking University, Beijing University students to do the opening ceremony, I give them emphasize one, nothing important, important is love, but love do not have fear of failure, because suicides are not suicides, Weiminghu to so shallow, can jump to get up; Fourth, do a good job plan for the future. Future work with you how many friends, with your expertise to learn how many are related. A good grasp of your subject, then certainly some bad professional use, as long as you learn better.
learned I have a friend is Vietnamese, Vietnamese indeed rarely used, but all of the central leadership to Vietnam to find him because he is the leading Vietnamese simultaneous translation experts. I have a college classmate of Chiang Kai-shek, of 10 years and destitute. But he later made a report to the United States, the United States to help him figure held a Seminar on Modern Chinese History, in his report in terms of their research through the results following an old professor of tears. Down after a question, the old professor is also a 30-year U.S. study Chiang Kai-shek, lonely, I could not find one of Chiang Kai-shek, did not think there is a \So $ 50,000 a year, so I followed him in the United States students to graduate, and then read the four-year doctoral student. After reading the old man retired, he became a professor at the school. I went to see him, he was in New York bought a set of small house, buy a car married a wife keeps a dog. At that time he told me that Mr Yu You can see that all this is Chiang Kai-shek \
I want to use this example to say? What is the research is not important as long as you really like to do it, then someone will use you. Conversely, if you feel you do not like the profession, but it is for me to find a job, this should not learn? Course to learn. I was such a state, I have never liked English, because the math did not test in English only. Because I do not like English is not strong ability to imitate. Wang Qiang, like my squad leader, able to imitate any words vividly. I Putonghua training for a year before we can understand the way excel. My wife is from Tianjin, a quarrel with me, then call me on the use of Tianjin, but I will only say that until now Tianjin words. Is that when she picked up the stick to hit me, I told her screaming, \
But then I found my life in the English language became a tool for English, I became a teacher at the university. In fact, North did not keep good grades, but was just forty-six examination, Beijing University students should learn each year the Department of English, the results of Peking struggling to find a teacher. Some outstanding graduates to Ministry of Foreign Affairs, Ministry of Foreign Trade, wages are high. We later dean anxious that the last five to me to stay. 5 people left to become a doctoral tutor now, and shows how the quality of education is now Beijing University. Which was a joke, of course, they later through their own efforts, through a number of times tests have become very good teachers.
in the mountain, you will care alpenstock you like it? No, you only care about can help you reach the top. So English is my trekking pole, although I do not particularly like, but I know I want to climb higher peaks in life must need this trekking pole. I originally wanted to own a Chinese expert in English, the top 100, but later found not one o'clock game, because more and more Chinese students returned, and some spent 10 years abroad, 20, came back to see how high standard of English than me. I can only narrow the scope of English grammar to become experts. Later discovered that the word back mindless, so the word starts to go to the back, turned into a pretty good vocabulary of Chinese experts.
addition to specialty, the students read more books in the university. Asians are very much a new study. And much study, it means even more open vision, will be thinking more and more innovative. New Oriental popular saying is called \Inside the thickness of the mainly on two aspects, first read more books, read a lot of books and your knowledge of the structure will naturally complete, will produce wisdom; second is the more life experiences. The wisdom and life experiences combine the wisdom of reading will become a true great wisdom, and create your future career will become a source of endless and tools.
, for example, recruitment of important posts New Oriental people are my interview. I only have a few questions, first how much your college read book, if you read dozens of books, and that certainly I would not want you. Minimum standard in my mind is 200 books, and I read 800 books in college. New Oriental has a more prosperous Wang Qiang, a teacher at the university read the 1200 book, a daily average. Some people will ask me out, I forgot to read What is the difference did not read it? In fact, completely different. As you fall in love, fallen in love and later became a bachelor's and a bachelor self-confidence than it is. Because when he saw someone in love, he will be next to the \It is not too late to read it, you can go to the bookstore looking at the books, remember to touch the names, so that can add a bit of human temperament.
I have an idea, person alive to live a poetic life, how many of us often stopped to look at the moon, Inner Mongolia during the holidays to look at the starry sky,
twins jerseys cheap, how many students when looking at sunrise and sunset heart felt life surging. Of course need to practice. University, there was a very famous poet named Zi, wrote a famous poem, \So we say that a person can not be expressed only in the language of poetry, but also to express the poetry in the real world. So in reality you have to overcome obstacles and setbacks. A poem called \I am on the \So, after entering the gate of Beijing University is the first thing to desert, to the Gobi Desert, to the prairie. And to date, these places became my spiritual home. If one has in life make life difficult thing, I went to Mongolia on horseback along with the herders. Pastoralists have said, were never seen in the Han Chinese did not like your life's.
returned to the subject of poetic life, in college, playing games on MSN is not called poetry of life, holding a book in bed and slowly fell asleep while reading it is a kind of poetry. To pay attention to current political, to grasp some of the world event. This capability will start in the course of your future play a significant role. The other is to make friends as much as possible, make friends first you have to be a good person, you will be a reassuring one. Business in China is such a state, if you are a good man, in the difficult times some people will definitely help. For example, Niu Gensheng Mengniu we heard, he and acted very real. So Mengniu after the accident, he needed money, just make a phone call we will send your money. And why not even signed the contract we gave him reason is simple trust.
I have come across such a situation, in 2003 when it came to SARS, we'll refund tuition to students, New Oriental's sudden withdrawal of liquidity bare. And I was told, leaving a shortfall of 20 million on account. So I were a telephone call to the two friends, one night ten million to get. So, you become a person to let others believe, than being a proof for you to let others who are far more benefits. The establishment of this trust, to do the following elements: the center to the others not to themselves as the center; have a spirit of service.
time I think I am good for nothing that the university students, but why come back with my business? This is with my university behavior. My university is a learning bad but people really like someone else. We were never ranked dormitory proctor, because in all my sweep. There is basically all the quarters I hit the water, and the reason they later abandoned the foreign excellent conditions to start with me or with a relationship I had to fetch water dorm. Years later, I went back to those college students, they say that even you are so good for nothing people in China are making money then we come back terrible? The second reason is, we know you are a particularly good person, you will not give us something to eat porridge, porridge drink you will not let us starve to death, so to come back. So in college did not even have a friend who wants to succeed in this life is almost impossible.
still in college to pay a few people who can really help you, such as: heart than you open, eyes sharp than you. I was in college to pay is such a friend, a man must follow the cattle run. For example, Wang Qiang, a gifted teacher side, which I could not learn. He enjoys reading, he entered the university will be the cost of living into two, one for books, to buy a meal ticket, meal ticket, not finished with the books of the money, he would rather steal other people's meal ticket I think this is a good habit, I also divided into two, finished my meal ticket to steal him. Every weekend we went to buy books, I do not know what to buy books, so he bought what I am going to buy anything,
cheap barca jersey, he was tired I get that you can not but follow me, I say you are my squad leader has the responsibility to help the backward students. In fact, I know he wants me out, because when he was pursuing the object of our class girls, I do not follow him if he would take girls out to buy books, I had to see through him in the plot. So far my reading teacher is Wang Qiang, his collection of nearly 60,000, whenever he saw a good cheap book will help me buy expensive will send a message to let me buy their own.
to now I have to keep reading. Because every party when they talk about good books, if I did not read will be that they say \The reason is that Wang Qiang, and you really need such a friend. Xu Xiaoping, there is the teacher. I think this college a good teacher and would like to know. After a week I bought a small pen to give him support, knocked on his door, he asked me who you are. I said, I am your student, after listening to you after school was moved, so you want to make friends, which I give you a small gift. Xu Xiaoping, took a look at my hands a gift let me go, and into the door of his home found a lot of young teachers there. It turned out he had a habit, will move to Friday night, a group of teachers to his home to chat. I certainly want to hear, and asked if I could stay and listen, he said no, ah, we talk about are some who question the innocent boy like you will be contaminated. Fortunately, I have quick reactions, said Xu in this area I just need to elementary education. Opportunities will always find their own. I found no one to give them boil water, so I boiled noodles to help them burn. 4 weeks to go straight to the first 5 weeks I'm not going. Why do not you, not because I tired, but I think the importance of a person when the display must be displayed. Sure enough, a call came over and said Xu Xiaoping, how you this bastard is not over. I know not but I can not do without them they can not do without me. Since then, in a year, I kept listening to them talk, when I run the new East, I went to Xu Xiaoping is the first home. I told him no shortage of New Oriental English teacher, but the lack of thoughtful people, so I hope you go back and manage the new thinking of the East. So do in college is another thing we must make friends, let themselves into a people trust.
And if we can talk about a love is still very good. But love has a very important prerequisite is to wholeheartedly love. The so-called single-minded love is not to say, the university can only talk about one love, but that can only talk about one. Love to what extent? To have such a feeling, \
second element is when you really love someone,
minnesota twins jerseys, the proper way to tell him you love him and not just in my heart. I was in college to lose a lot of girls in love, but only on the heart, afraid of being rejected. In fact, the pursuit of better performance out of, even if rejected by a girl, her home will write in the diary, \One year to the United States, with a class like the girls before dinner, she and her husband to dinner with me. Dinner when I told her, in fact, in college I have a crush on you in particular. She was Yipaidatui said why do not you tell me was it?
third is to talk about generosity, magnanimity means that when the so-called falling in love with another person when other people must be generous to him, your happiness is my happiness, your happiness is my happiness. I always feel that people in the world there is always fate, if the university no one loves you, in your future life will always be someone loves you, so hand in hand with you to the next journey.
I am a special love life of the people I did not dare to walk even step on ants, I would like stepping on the mother bird ant bird ant the public how to do. I do not dare to eat fish, I eat a piece of fish that the male parent of the more painful ah, so I generally do not eat fish to eat two. Of course, the love of the university is a process, whether graduate or undergraduate students after graduation to get married so much less than love. Such as our class more than a dozen of love, got married after graduating from college three pairs, two years after the divorce, the two pairs. Now left the next pair, the pair is the teacher and his wife, Wang Qiang, my college classmate. Both of them now living a happy life.
love it if there is dissatisfaction with the University does not matter, look at me on the line. Many people think that I'm not normal, but I still to get married, and still find a loved one, still a child, but also have a relatively happy family. All in all, life is such a wonderful move forward. Are trivial, there is excitement, it has steadily night, there are beautiful day, this is our life.
there is work problems. The problem is the work of a relatively simple question. I believe the students of Tongji University, when looking for work will not be much difficulty, but the students asked me to do business. Life've never created a business must be a very bad thing. People always want to own a lifetime of dry matter, is to start doing their own thing. A job we work together, but you will not necessarily start college. Why? Because the business requires experience and a lot of preconditions.
First, your expertise in the use of your business; Second, you have to get along with classmates and friends and have the ability to assign interests; Third, you have to deal with China's society is so complex situations ; Fourth, you need to have basic business knowledge and operating principles, or business operations; the fifth, his force had been a person with leadership; Sixth, you need to have the operation of their field of knowledge and expertise.
example, you want to put forward a training school, your working knowledge of it from somewhere? The operation of the knowledge you need to do by observing how people come. If I had to do it directly from the new North East, I never could accomplish. New Oriental I do have two preconditions. First, I did six years at the university teachers, so do teachers do a good job.
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