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Old 06-22-2011, 10:55 AM   #1
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  “不管他站不站得起来,我都要陪他到最后一天。”

  昨日上午,成都市一医院高压氧舱外。张学成坐在轮椅上,艳子收拾完他的尿液后,双手揽过去,一手挽着他 的颈部,一手抱着他的腿,缓缓将他抱进旁边一辆小车里,一系列动作非常娴熟。

  张是一名高位截瘫患者,艳子是茶馆的一名服务员。几乎每天,她都要凭自己1.55米的身高、106斤的 体重,去背负1.78米高、140多斤重的他。

  采访源于8月5日,mbt shoes clearance,那天,同在一医院高压氧舱接受治疗的市民李大爷打进成都商报热线,告诉我们:“我发现了一个特殊的家庭, 他们的故事很感人……”

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  艳子姓冷,今年24岁。2008年,她投奔亲戚,到新华公园旁一个茶馆当服务员。冬天,太阳照进小区, 艳子常看见一个小伙子坐着轮椅,被一名中年妇女推出来晒太阳。

  小伙腿上盖着一床毛毯,英俊的脸上,浮着一股颓废。久而久之,艳子暗自嘀咕,这个人晒了那么久,咋个还 不好哦。那时,她还不知道毛毯下的秘密。

  对张学成来说,那正是生命里最黑暗的一段时间:下半身毫无知觉,出行只能依靠轮椅,他很孤 独。

  致命的一击,还要往前推几个月。2008年6月2日晚,25岁的他和几个朋友去猛追湾游泳,其中一个人 带着女友。为了照顾女孩,大家就去1.5米的浅水区玩。中途,张学成练习跳水。入水后,后脑勺竟重重磕在池 底。他使了使力,想浮起来,但四肢哪里还动得了。他面朝水底,像鱼一样漂浮着,憋着气。看着四周都是腿脚, 却喊不出声来。

  朋友们在岸上开玩笑:这个人憋气才憋得久哦。许久,才看到一个人影,晃晃悠悠地浮出水面。众人赶紧救他 上岸,为了放水,用一把改刀撬开他的嘴。

  醒来已是一天后,张学成躺在病床上,头上吊了个牵引。

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  直到现在,也无人指责那个离去的女孩,包括张学成的母亲。

  医生检查发现,头部的撞击直接折断了张学成的颈椎,伤及脊髓。他们私下曾说,这个孩子高位截瘫,差不多 毁了。最初,女友每天还来照顾他,半月后,她就不辞而别了。

  泡在水底时,张学成就想,一定要憋住气,等浮上岸,只要有人看到自己,就有救了。女友离去后,他后悔了 :“早知道就在水里呛死算了。”

  母亲安慰他,你们才耍一年,如果我是她母亲,都不会准她跟着你,“你要换位思考。”同一个病房的例子更 现实。一名外地女警婚礼当天发生车祸,同样造成颈椎断裂。几个月后,病床上的她等来丈夫一纸离婚书。张学成 渐渐想通了。3个月后,他出了院。

  和母亲离异多年的父亲来看望他,他在公交公司上班,每月近两千的工资,他留出一半给孩子,周末他还去人 民公园帮人奏乐,一元一首。母亲已经退休,除开医保,每月只有800多元收入。

  母亲觉得儿子很委屈,“做了那么多好事,却得不到好报。”儿子以前当过兵,喜欢摩托车,经常在路上看到 有人车胎坏了,一个急刹就停下来,免费帮忙修理。5・12地震时,coach outlet,他还送过方便面和水去什邡。

  家里渐渐入不敷出,大家都认命的时候,艳子却出现了。

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  这个茶馆姑娘某天买了部新手机,想下载点新歌,亲戚叫她去找“成哥”。她对这个人有印象,就是冬天她曾 经看到的那个坐轮椅的小伙子,louis vuitton bags。那天,艳子拿着新手机,敲开了张学成的小房间。

  大约一月后,艳子做出一个大胆的举动。她从隔壁茶馆里搬进了张家,决定照顾张学成。“是我先问的,愿不 愿意跟我,她答应了。”张学成美滋滋地回忆。

  母亲辞退了护工,对艳子说:“我给护工好多工钱,就给你好多。”但艳子拒绝了,“如果你给我钱,我就走 。”

  艳子只有1.55米高、106斤重,每天却要背着140多斤的张学成进进出出。夏天,为了防止长褥疮, 一个半小时就要给他翻一次身。

  张学成也像是换了个人。每天见不到艳子,心里就空空的。他恢复得很快,后来,已经可以用双手支撑自己了 。

  很多人都不理解艳子的举动。

  院子里的风言风语很多。有人私下拉着张学成的奶奶说,这个姑娘是不是要图你们啥子?还有些人则直接对她 本人说,你好手好脚的,随便找一个也比这个强。

  姑娘说,这个家都成这个样子了,有什么可图的呢?她自己知道成哥的好,天冷了,成哥会惦记着要她加衣服 ,感冒了还催她按时服药。

  “我以前也耍过朋友,好手好脚的,都没那么体贴关心我。”对自己父亲说起这些,艳子都快哭 了。

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  她感受到了家的温暖

  两个年轻人,都开始了不一样的人生。

  艳子命苦,5岁时妈就死了,小学没读完,就随亲戚出来打工。

  她喜欢成哥的家庭,叔叔阿姨见到她,都会艳子艳子地喊,很亲切,有时还给她买衣服,而她回后妈家,总感 觉“很压抑,喘不过气”。一旁的张学成就接过话,“很压抑啊,那就跟我一起去做高压氧。”艳子扑哧笑了,一 拳打了过去。

  处久了,大家都知道这个姑娘善良,淳朴。家人经常塞钱给她,让她去置点衣服,但她死活不要,“还是留给 成哥看病嘛。”一见到张学成的母亲在厨房里忙,她挽起袖子就来帮忙了。洗衣服、拖地,这些都落 在了她身上。

  她没念过多少书,看战争片,张学成还要给她解释,这是什么时候、在哪里发生的战争。有些字 她都认不到。

  张学成开始有意改造她。为了方便他看病,亲友们凑钱买了辆二手路宝送给他们。他就叫她去学开车。每天, 张学成从网上下一套题,让艳子做。最初她连字都打不来。想不到三个月后,她就拿到驾照了。

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  今年,两人开始商量结婚,准备在10月把证扯了,“不管他站不站得起来,我都要陪着他到最 后一天”。

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  艳子说,只要两个人过得好,穿差点吃差点都无所谓,她琢磨着,以后要是有个小孩就好了。

  床头柜上,贴着一张大头贴。两人依偎在一起,笑得很甜。

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