chi Interpersonal experience

1, to people families, so when the employer can be just about, and constantly make recommendations inform you to nectar tea or take a look at TV, you should say good-bye. People are always feel nothing to say when it is to caution people to do something marginal. Stay any longer, you may be unpopular.

2, is the work of his supervisor, did not converge his eyes looking at you, or his fingers on the table clasp inadvertently a few, it is possible that he has satisfied the reporting for you. If you went in, his feet are shaking below the table bored, you Yuehua Jian, his feet suddenly stopped shaking, he has produced for you, then a acute amuse.

3, and a new understanding of people talking, his hands always inadvertently across their chests, it shows that he has prepare for you, so let him believe in you before best to attention whom.

4, the table in the wine, a toast to you frequently people are inquiring you not, that is hostile to you, so you analyze, or as soon as possible, whether they belong to the sometime or the latter. The former lead to up the heading of his last promise, which you have to install drunk.

5, one person an invitation to you, your invitation to the implementation of high spirits, he suddenly aboveboard. In fact, his invitation, but is difficult to talk about the one to say, you do not investigate anymore, unless you absence him to dislike.

6, find your blunders do not tell you much more than tell you horrible, especially the work of 2 people in a competitive state.

7, a face you all boast of the people are not arrogant of, his center looks exactly contrary to his rhetoric,air max nikes, is an highly low self-esteem of the people. But his rhetoric is nobody more to conceal the heart of inferiority.


1. no matter what happens, we have to first think that he is not wrong. If your right (it is not likely),tory burch reva flats on sale, then stand each other's point of view, to experience each other's emotions.

2. permit yourself to adjust to the environment because the environment not to meet you. Even if this is a very, very painful process.

3. generous. School will not be generous generous. If the generous really make you very distressed, then install generous.

4. low-key that some low-key, and then a mini low-key (also low-key than the temporary laborers, maybe in the eyes of others you do not favor a few of the temporary personnel it did).

5. mouth to sweet, normally do not begrudge you cheer. (Will praise people. A good compliment, would create the sense of pleasure, but not also far to the aggressive.)

6. If you feel that the most recent work incredibly smoothly, you should multiplication careful.

7. polite. Say hi when you look at each other's eyes. To call the elders and older people to communicate, because you are out-kid generation.

8. Shaoshuiduozuo. Loose lip sink warships, talk less mobbed places.

9. Do not put other people's good, granted, you know Thanksgiving.

10. hand-low tall eye.

11. obey with the time, but do not expect others to obey with time.

12. believe the first promise, but do not easily promise. Not to put someone on your commitment to always keep in mind and believed it.

13. Do not borrow money from colleagues, if you borrow, then it must be in time also.

14. Do not lend money to colleagues, if you must take, then give him a good when.

15. Do not shirk duty (even someone else's responsibility).

16. in the behind of a companion not to say bad things about different companion. To uphold the good word to say that someone in the back, do not worry about good things does not reach the ears of the parties. If someone in front of you saying bad things about someone, you must smile.

17. to avoid open confrontation and co-workers (including public criticisms, the intensity of more preferable.)

18. always help others, but can not be helping people to feel that life should be.

19. tell the fact will make you Daoda Mei.

20. not the person; alternatively someone cruel, for people to adore; or life first, work second.

21. Always check that they are not and proud, and proud, and they see down on someone else. (Even if you have Babel
not merely the cooperation and alms of others is no good)

22. Patience is a required course in life. (Be patient life ah, some people a lifetime to die in this lesson does not pass)

23. New to a place, do no rush into the surround which one to work. Wait until enough time, namely part of your circle ambition automatically adopt you.

24. there is a sense of balance. No huge handle, a good thing to go bad thinking, bad asset to the behalf of considered.

25. Try not to place an office legend, if it can not be avoided, then in the office to avoid any manner of physical contact, including eyes.

26. will be flattering (this is the momentary administrator and one momentous way of communication), but be cautious not to filthy your hands.

27. qualification is very important. Do not eye the age guys playing a war of intellects, or die hard to penetrate you back.

28. good intentions occasionally do not have good results, but not disheartened.

29. to be on the King, to be the next to broad.

30. If you lead a team,ghd straighteners lavender finite version 寓所内数,adidas ss 2g slide, in summarizing the work should errors catching on himself, take the honor for the subordinate body. When the presence of supervisors and subordinates in the meantime remember that timely admission of your subordinates. When people must reprove only the two of you in the case to proceed.

how to deal workplace relationships (transfer)

vocation relationships is a very important issue, particularly for colossal companies for commerce professionals, a good working relationship is a safe enjoyable necessary condition of life. Today's graduates, the extensive majority of baby, fair out of educate,herve leger wear 非盟宣布在科特迪瓦总统交权前暂停其会员国资格, self-conscious, to the excellent social bad perplexing environment, person relations ought be adjusted in their coordinates.

on the boss - later the first scamper

esteem of anyone employer (including division heads, project directors, management representatives), dried to this position, at least some of the amazing place. Their rich experience and yeah, politics strategy, are worth learning from, and we should adore their splendid past and impressive performance. But each boss is not perfect. So by work, only to hear to the Siming is not necessary, but should also reserve in idea that remarks to the supervisors in their jobs only a small part, attempt to improve, corrections, new step towards the final goal. Let the boss willingly accept your point of view, should respect the atmosphere, respectful and restrained in a amounted in sync. However, questions and remarks made, be sure to come up with a careful enough to convince each other's file arrange.


of colleagues - to comprehend more cautious support

work in the bureau, obtain onward with my colleagues a long time, between the interests of each other, living conditions, there is a decisive understanding. As colleagues, we have no reason for their allegiance to the effectiveness of claiming people. In the accident of misunderstandings and disputes, they must be from another angle, standing for the position of the additional people think and understand about the situation of others, do not affective, to jolt out of people's solitude. Any speak behind and indirect accusations,christian louboutin big kiss flats, finally in the process of demeaning the other generous harm the image of his own, and at others in the conflict. Meanwhile, the work we must have a sincere enthusiasm, you must choose carefully to colleagues to support. Support method to accept other people's views and ideas, and blindly support tin only guide to blind compliance, the suspects will be breeding a clique, affect decision-making believe.


friends - good communication floor contact

the mentioning goes: shake trees dead, human shake to live. Fierce rivalry in modern society, the steel rice bowl not longer exists, a human fewer promising in the same element his life. Therefore,nike air max boots, it is required to pay more friends, the so-called friends more good one thing. Therefore, the sleepy time to a friend hang a call, write a letter, send one e-mail, even if I were you a word, a friend will be thankful for, than to comprise everybody with front more significant.

I have a friend in a tough moment big artist show, and I feel reduced. Friends, after that, invited him to try a slightly smaller corporations, the results themselves, and subserved within 6 months of the department heads, the benefits of this is to make friends. A phone call, a saluting to friends, closer to the heart, so variety friends, have a good become you can not first take care of it?


subordinates - to listen more to help small

in working life, only position inconsistencies in individuality, they are all equal. Staff and subordinates in front of us was just a chairman with class only, there is nothing which may not be the glory and proud of place. Help subordinates, in fact, aid yourself, because employees have the eagerness to melodrama better, work will be completed survived well, and let you get more respect, and build an open-minded image.

and listen more to appreciate the work of subordinates in the state of mind and understanding of the situation, for exactly response, change management provides a detailed root. A noted person in dictate of the U.S. company said: When a dispute with a subordinate managers, and leaders do not listen patiently to ease that most of the subordinates do not listen to the mandate, my first thought is to replace the department managers.


to antagonists - a grin

work in our lives, there are numerous competitors. Many people nigh the fortification of competitors or, worse, the chilly might too behind to This utmost, it will only widen the interval between each balcony, to create tension, the work is undoubtedly noxious than good. In fact, a whole, each person's work is important, everyone has a lovely shines. When you along of the competition, no need to disdain for others, others are too questing progress; when people above you, you do not have to accidentally creating perplexity,nike wind max trainers 法国接任G20主席国 将订贸易, finding mistake, because work is always mingled effort, No matter how you perplexed antagonists, do not narrate him rivalry, gently grinning, Jing Xiaxin first hands to do a good work! Maybe he is standing still, grievances, and you have completed an wonderful rendition. Grinning, both lavish lenient, generous neatness, there is a open-minded in a good mood, but also about lost it? Opponents might yet surrendered to you in my heart