one daughter drinking events
fast one year old, curious about everything, especially water dispenser switch curious, very worried about her grandmother with her, has been looking at is not stop to stop, it is hard to know matter, adults always have walked away, while the daughter is around in the walker in walking. So I decided not to look at the water dispenser switch is not very dangerous, as long as the water will stop a free hand , and its been on tenterhooks as she looked hot to be useful once more, and soon she gave to the hot, and remember this is dangerous, in a very long period of time not to go touch. I told her the way she is because we stop this thing is dangerous, so remember, things that adults have to stop you move makes sense, do not think year-old children do not understand, in fact, they will listen to understand. Well, it should be too early to understand the girl, the boy will be here later.
II socket event
daughter almost two when the hole on the wall outlet is interested, so I brought her tape recorder, telling her an electric hole in the wall , a tape recorder necessary, insert the plug when the need to hold back the plastic part, this security, if the metal took the previous two will die, and when the plug socket with wet hands is going to die. Daughter is still very feared dead, though not necessarily know the specific will happen, but the word is a very bad terrible things. In less than two years old she learned the days of plug sockets, from that day we often call her to help me to chip in XX kinds of sockets, she has dragged her tape recorder in this room to hear, again and again to the room Listen, do not ask us to help her. Well, she was safe to live now, never touch over power, I would not worry about her shock, I even told her that if you see a wire you want to know whether live, you can hand back go try, there is power, then will hit you, be a little pain a little buzz, but remember do not mind to grab his hand, will bounce back of the hand touch, no risk, palms will lose touch, that is terrible out.
three, dressed for her daughter two years of age suffer PP
bath clothes he wears , but their novelty had worn off, will try to be lazy. Bath one day, wearing the clothes of a half, said to me, mother, help me dress it. I am very happy to say, can, however conditional,
belstaff uk, to help you wear a one you let me play with it, I like to play up the feel you PP. She considers it, agree to exchange, so I helped her to wear two socks for a couple of PP, I still remember those two made my hand hurt the next play. After using her face was very embarrassed, and I was very intoxicated PP in there to admire her how to play up the feel good name will make people addicted...... The next day, dressed very Hi , I offered to help her skin dripping clothes, and beat her repeatedly affirmed PP too fond of the feeling, I hope she'll give me a chance to enjoy.
, of course, now I have not been able to find the opportunity to enjoy.
four, his daughter two and a half
home, in a small class is also on the period of time, the deep red light stop green light to understand the rules.
One time I took her shopping in the downtown area told her that I'm going to look flat, and asked if she could know the way home, whether their own home, of course, she thought no problem, so far with me behind her , to see how she go home. Daughter very seriously and so the traffic lights at each intersection,
outlet belstaff, and even in one of the intersection until the sixth green when it is over. Later I learned that she did not just look at the green light, but also over time to see if there is no other car could have run a red light, confirm the safety of 100% was passed.
fact responsible for their own children, when more responsible than adults think.
five insects is a very lovely creature I am very scared of
terrifying the Rouchong that knows this stuff is harmless, but is afraid ah.
children do not know how to fear, my selfishness is not afraid to teach her daughter to help me after the worm gear. So one day only insects peaches, I told her sweeter peach worm, and that inside the worm is very cute, and fertilizer in vain, will be crawled. Daughter asked the insect does not bite me, I answered, these insects are vegetarian, and you are dirty, and is too old for the biting insects do not move.
quite believe her, she caught the bug crawling around to see it in your hand, palm back of the hand back and forth to climb, crawl back into his left hand left hand right hand climbing, eating send the worm on the table looked at insects to eat, climb far away come back again to continue watching. I, I, I screamed pressure in the throat, can not make a frightened expression, and if I was a little frightened, from his daughter would have been harmless insects that somehow afraid that I can not remember I have been is how to finish the meal.
she began to bring back a variety of large and small domestic caterpillar, and finally my nerves became very strong, and actually no longer afraid of these soft worm fertilizer, and then found that the brain actually some caterpillar head grow quite cartoon. We always hope will keep out the butterflies, the facts prove that, all of which eventually grew into large and small caterpillar moth.
six, ######
come from every child would ask myself, I have been waiting, and finally she asked, and I then took her to buy two human anatomy, but also found two outline drawings. And detailed explanation of all the organs, the function of each organ, of course, includes men and women's reproductive organs, she is to come from further out. Conclusion is that how come in on how to go out, but came in time to a microscope to see, it was already after ten months of a baby a lot. It is just general knowledge, honesty, I think so, so her daughter and it will accept, is also no mystery. Was so thorough in understanding, the daughter is no longer interested, others tease her, she would look more calm and told them that he drops come from, everyone is like this out.
seven, lying on the ground crying and crying
daughter rarely used as a means to achieve their goals, because one has not succeeded, after seeing on a small small success stories, then learn and use, in the day to and we ate porridge or to a separate article for her lay down on the ground below. Our family went to the of town when she the air. Here to thank my mom, she was the beginning of sweeping, when the sweep to the place where her daughter lying on her to come to lie in the past that, here I have to sweep the floor, Do not cross, and I play with you and then lie down sweep back. Then her daughter moved to continue lying to cry, one would say, well, I put a clean sweep here, you can lie back. Actually the daughter of two and a half really and lay back to the original place humming. Our whole family went into hiding laughter. When the daughter of a half-hour of air finally found success stories of others can not do it on her, to please get up, I feel that is good to eat plain porridge, finished his PP Britain Great Britain ran a clean eat the porridge.
Until now, I never saw her lying on the ground crying as a means to an end. In fact, many children act only test for the first time to stop, there will be no second time the same basic behavior.
eight, do not eat their own losses , not someone else's
day before meals quarrel with me, put a heavy bowl on the table and said fiercely, see you on its hands, and I do not eat the. I immediately said, yes, but not until the next meal you can eat anything. Daughter started a little timid, to say that I am not saying I do not eat, just do not eat with you, so you finish I come to eat. I answered her, either now eat together, or you keep the next meal and then eat together, there is no third option. She said that I do not eat the Qi Gugu.
reason we finished off the table and began discussing a smile, how a foolish people who do not actually get to eat to threaten others, they do not eat other people are not hungry, laughable person, actually threatened to take his hungry others, ha ha ha ha ha....... So the cost of a meal to hungry, my daughter learned to get hurt themselves to threaten others, is the stupid thing. Similar things in her life, never appeared.
nine,
belstaff blouson, limited toys, unlimited fun
daughter's toys from small to large is extremely limited, the basic no electric, and all Toys will take a large bag can hold up.
so few toys, not because of economic reasons, because the more children the less simple toys, attention focused on the easier, more rich in imagination, the more treasure things.
children like to play in the water, his daughter is no exception, my condition is that you can play in the water, but only to the bathroom, and play well to get yourself to the bathroom clean. A keg of a basin, an empty Coke bottle, plus a funnel, a spoon can while away an entire afternoon, she would bucket of water with a small cap or large spoon to get little by little Coke bottle sometimes and sometimes not funnel, fill bottle poured into the basin, the basin filled with water and then the same method to get into the bucket, sometimes the size of the various instruments at the bucket according to the basin, fill water without water by half by adding water at, is the press against the press, think of all the circumstances, a person having all the fun, and never tired before.
small classes, the daughter can sit there a couple of hours, concentrate concentrate on doing one thing.
Teletubbies was the daughter of favorite shows, the mall also has to sell, she was like, so I told her when she can have a birthday, she can pick one in four in the second year birthday until the second antenna her baby, after the long wait to get something is worth cherishing. From the hour of her most want to have to go through waiting for things to get, the longest wait for a year. So now things are very much cherish her, understand value and want to know what will really need to consider.
ten, learning to write is the need to learn to write the quota
figures, and bought a Miao Hong, to the daughter,
belstaff shop, then told her that this is a quota , only a day Write half a page, can not exceed.
children learn things from the start is always very interested in, and wished he could write off about half of this, wrote a very happy day, when the quota has run out, closing out the book, find useless, only write tomorrow. So develop a habit to write off half a page each day until a certain pleasure. Very relaxed and happy to learn how to write complete number of the process.
key is to maintain the mystery, has been suspended by her interest and curiosity brought her to beg her to learn to write, to become her to beg you to write more, but it might not agree, continue to use quotas to hanging her until the task is completed.
November, less than two years old daughter to share
(suddenly discovered that most of the corrective actions have occurred in shape within three years), she Grandma often buy shrimp fried shrimp crowded for her to eat, there are times I saw, took a few try chopsticks, her daughter said, how do you eat my shrimp. Who says I answered your shrimp, picked up the spoon to eat two spoonfuls of half of bitter, daughter react, rush to grab to eat with me, but she grabbed me how, how to grab me...... Hey! Daughter looked out the shrimp bowl empty tears down, I told her, something no one can eat, nothing is your own, how to eat to how we want to eat. From that day where she likes to eat a certain point I have to go half of the children is a good education, she soon got used to sharing.
sometimes see her particularly like to eat, we want her to eat more, will say that this thing could not bite my toothache, or something I do not like this...... And so looks reasonable excuse, you help me to help me eat it, begged her to use a certain tone, so she felt she was doing you a favor (of course such things can not be doing too much, more are not interesting), then the daughter will eat happily, it was unexpected be happy. If you do not learn to share , the child will think that he deserves, and do not feel happy, but as long as someone points out even a small population will be angry; and habits of the children to share even if it is to eat more to an accident and will feel happy. Do not eat less of an impact on life, know how to share, easy to be happy state of mind will benefit children for life.
second, their relatively small when
get (really forget what year, but must be less than three years old) to take her downstairs after dinner to play every day, many children on the square, some children will bring some toys down, my daughter sometimes want to play not dare to ask me to help her to say. Of course, I flatly refused, telling her that this is something you want to play, or play your own to discuss borrowed, or do not play. Tolerance for a few days, and finally she had to borrow the first step, like his play, of course, sometimes by less than, but most of the time, or can successfully borrow. As long as a success, and it was much easier after the children are Zilai Shu biological ah. Later she found with the kind of toys down to play with people switching to their own want to play more easy to play something, well, you get.
XIII, talent training
failure when small children totally dependent on adults to survive, they can not protect themselves, So God gave them a gift, it is fine to judge the tone to distinguish adult, slightly larger than life environment that they will observe the subtle, even small changes that can be found, which is the natural or animal instincts , because They can not protect themselves, so very sensitive to environmental change. When the child of a two years old, parents will find almost all the children are very observant, and almost never forget it, then parents will be pleasantly surprised, but soon , when they grow up, growing ability, talent will gradually disappear, how to keep it this fleeting talent.
this point, I was a failure, the method is simple, but persevere until at least six years old.... .. Unfortunately, the opportunity will not have missed.
children read every night to a story, when the child will speak after the speech, let him retelling the story yesterday, could not speak to read once (Please be assured that the child's memory of talent), to repeat them back to continue reading the next period, from short to long day after day, sustained five or six years old, you will find that the child can not forget who heard, heard the night before the big papers over the story, the next night you can almost verbatim on the back out. Because it can completely back out of the late stories, put up their own books to read, according to the book on what literacy is simply a matter of course. This requires parents to have patience and perseverance strong (guilty a thousand times), never forget that every child is a genius in fact.
my cousin made it, after I failed to understand how her parents had to bring her such great talent .
fourth, fell, bleeding outside
daughter fell, got up and found a lot of broken skin, bleeding, and nervous. I knelt observed, the smile said to her, ah, bleeding, and we go back to find a bowl of blood Shing up this bar, it can burn blood soup pot, fill it, do not waste friends. Click on her strained nerves relaxed.
home, I helped her out of alcohol disinfection, should talk to her shows, this is a disinfectant used, put on broken skin may be painful, but it could not bear the pain, the wound may be infected, The meat may be rotten to the more painful when the meat out, or bacteria into the blood had sepsis, it will die. Daughter thought that, then you disinfect it, I can tolerate it.
fifth, dental
small small daughter, finally quit the habit of dangling bottle to sleep, but her two front teeth for a long soak in the milk, the bore out the point So I plan to take her to mend some, the more bore the greater province.
prior notice her daughter, bore out her teeth, if we do not deal, will develop permanent damage to her, if you take her to repair teeth, treatment time may be a little pain will be out of the blood, but all not too much, and then asked her, you see, is not going to fix it. Daughter, agreed. Sit in the dentist's chair, the doctor did not dare to start, I had to surface again when the doctor asked her once, be reaffirmed, the doctor hands trembling earth, the whole process of her open mouth generally motionless wood, and afterwards told me that You said you would a little pain, in fact, did not hurt. Saw a lot of his chair like a butcher as a child, the doctor is unable to meet such a counter to the filling of the children calm. Why the daughter is so calm
it, for I had informed the situation may occur, such as pain,
belstaff online, such as bleeding, she had mentally prepared, it is not afraid. Resistance may be more children crying not because of pain , but the instinctive fear of the unknown damage.
so do not think that small children, deceive on it, they will remember you fool, will not trust you, next time lie not so easy. Do not underestimate the capacity of the child, telling the truth will make them trust you more, so that the pain they may be psychologically prepared, they can bear the pain is actually very small creatures.
sixteen, corporal punishment
then behaved children are always there to provoke the parents to feeling angry and wished he could spank When shot dead, otherwise it is not a puppet of the child.
One day, I am worried they will not help against the daughter of a slap down, so the birds out of the heart that export gas. But the anger is so, or suffer internal injuries may be, it will be like once the hands of the Yellow River dike, then beat up close can not be beat hand, beat the child's parents a lot of excuses for the child, in fact, more to their own hearts breath. This is his daughter, so the only internal injuries.
I said to her daughter, the last to remind you once, I'll hit you if repeated, and made a play about, made two dozen or two, the third striking four, each doubled. Daughter said, no. I said, supplementary conditions, punished good when you have your pants off beating the bed, if you refuse , then I caught a hit, beat the changes in two, hit two of the variables looked, in short double.
she challenge me, challenge me, challenge me...... Finally, I let her free to pick a place to be punished, she picked a room and not cleared the onlookers, lock the door, take your pants off their beaten. For her, this is a very shameful thing, but it is also very effective discipline methods, in general, as long as the reminder of a rule set, to avoid being beaten again, humiliated, it will comply with regulations.
see old age is three years old I saw an old saying often heard phrase
, but do not quite understand, my daughter was born, slowly found in the education, the ancients really TMD (emphasis added) had wisdom.
experts say education should be tender, to give children reasonable. Children less than three years old, big deal you understand? Maybe. But more important is not to reason with a child so small, the most important rule is to establish a year-old child will understand, \ If the child is wrong, even small children can not be tolerated again, we must immediately stop, and correctly guide their behavior, do not believe her children will naturally understand this argument, as long as determined at the first stop on an error, the child will soon understand and make the right behavior. Once the child's deviant behavior and then developed a habit is much more difficult to stop, the child will know what to do. Within three years old, most children have formed habits, If I had been correct the correction, you do not post over and over again as a shortcoming of struggle, the follow-up of the education also will be farther along.
seventh, embroidery or dance
day, her daughter's grandmother said to me, you come to speak with her, she is more willing to listen to you, the kindergarten extra-curricular classes, the girls let her go
Why learn to dance the best, but she refused to go to embroidery.
I called her and asked her, is not to the extra-curricular classes, she said yes, I said, what classes you want to do,
belstaff motorcycle jackets, my daughter, I want to learn embroidery
, I have not embroidered over it, but the grandmother to let me to learn to dance. Me: No, just my grandmother, it is your school, not her to go, you want to go to class even
What is your freedom, others have no control, but since it is your choice, you have to be responsible for their own seriously learn.
period, the daughter of regret have to say, I embroidered the A and B, C word embroidery lessons were only half over, and did not have embroidered.
eighteen, the results of their actions responsible for their own
district where many children, daughter contrived because they do not squeamish, it can Zilai Shu.
daughter asked me one day, can bring their children to play, I answer, this is your home, you can call the shots, if you bring their children to play,
you can be arbitrary, but in the end have to put everything back the status quo, because you bring a friend, so you are responsible.
very fond of children come to my house, because free. Usually I would ignore them, they play them, I do mine, and his daughter
will be responsible for hospitality, whether you eat, whether you play, all by her themselves.
will sometimes have a good time upended the ground, before leaving, the daughter will organize them to clean up. If you do not clean up before walking, and finally cleaning up himself by his daughter. This is what we said yes, she made a master, she was responsible for the results.
nineteenth, the bottom line
daughter buns appeared very normal bun, not with people care about, never seen her unhappy quarrel with a friend. Her grandmother had been very worried, often complain about my daughter Norinari steamed buns, and later will suffer.
large class, she brought a student to play, decided to send students to a book. Two piles of books, she read a bunch, a bunch is Mokan Wan, the daughter of allowing students to read a pile of books she selected one, but she insisted that a student she did not read the book. Daughter insisted that she also insisted on the students, so the daughter said, I have not seen this book can not give you, but can lend you, I wrote a library card, you sign a good name, and have read back to me. Two children seriously do a library card, sign a name, write down the date.
buns only superficial, there is always the bottom line, when the limit of touch in the end will come up with a solution, do not cause conflicts with friends. Forcing parents to let go of her childhood to find solutions to their problems, this is very necessary exercise drops.
141 # of: peach fish balls Reply Date: 2010 -9-20 7:14:00
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of writing in elementary school, the teacher asked of writing, her daughter can not write to me to teach. I took her to the front of the computer, taught her to open Google, fuzzy input essay topic, press the search button, and then told her that these are what you need writing, lug copy it, but your teacher should have read, So copy the whole of it can easily be found, you find several pieces together much copied. Copy writing such a thing back cooked a resuscitation of two or three back to back on the experience of four.
Why teach her daughter how to write copy, second grade children, small vocabulary , it is difficult to write vivid writing, the best way is to copy someone else's. When she pieced together several articles, all articles must be carefully read, pick out a paragraph of available words and find better ways to link up into a complete composition .
hey, I'm lazy, but this approach is indeed effective.
the twenty-first, do the first two years to ten
as close to the school from the grandmother, so he lived in his grandmother, but actually often do their homework to ninety o'clock, started an adult complained that too much school work, and later with her fellow students and found that some of the same operation to complete before six, as some children and daughter to do ninety points. In fact, do not concentrate on her homework seriously, of course, play while doing so, and later there was a time she looked at her grandfather every day, but others just do not look very effective. So, very lazy landlord appeared. In fact, I just told her very seriously, and I know your amount of work, the latest work from today to achieve 8 per day, after 8 dared to do their homework, I'll throw the book. Daughter of resistance, I'll tell the teacher, you will not let me finish my homework, I could not pay. I laugh, then you talk to the teacher that well, anyway, who could not pay jobs that you are not me, write you name on the blackboard is not me. Daughter of frustration for a whole month, I went to see her every day for a whole month, and her assignments are completed in six, and then to develop a habit, do not concentrate on looking at can be completed quickly.
why this could so easily to her bad habits to correct it, in fact, there are two necessary conditions,
First, I grew up instilled in her life to her own responsibility, I do not will be responsible for her, but also that the implementation has been, so she knew I said is true, she was his job could not pay the consequences. I grew
second set will be the implementation of the rules are , maybe maybe next time do not like, so I say throw before making 8 of her book, although not really perform, but she knew if I will definitely violate the Executive.
XXII
trust
-year-old daughter: I want to do extra classes on holidays?
me: Who the?
daughter: of course my last
me: Why do you ask me on
-year-old daughter: the teacher said to write to Grading, I do not consider it
me: Who test?
daughter: I test
me: something that none of my birds, ask me why
-year-old daughter: I want to come to the students, do not know my house, her mother to the park entrance, to accompany me to pick up about it.
I: I'll even such a trifle? You are not not know the way, pick up his daughter
: You are not afraid like I was cheated walked.
me: lie to you? First, you were 8 years old is too old for a liar, articulate, clear-headed, no family support
Second, you are a girl, can not afford a large sell price, uneconomical
three, say to get you to sell to others to do his wife have children, you have not developed too small, now have to lie to you to keep a lot of years to make money, too much loss of the
So, you are simply unwanted are now the most secure age , pay attention to safety can cross the road.
daughter:..........
-year-old daughter: my grandfather they want to go traveling for a week , then who is going to pick me up from school ah
me: then what are so big then, with a key to their bus, back
Daughter:........
-year-old daughter: the school sports meet, I can apply for a project can also be reported to two, with the high jump, long jump, 100 meters....... I think what newspaper you help Well, I can not decide
me: If your mother will get you reliable idea of the tree that will sow the
eleven-year-old daughter: My gums jaw orthodontic Mozhao, and going to correct that
me: I did not empty this month, you set a time I bought tickets to you, you go to Shanghai to seek medical correction, remember to bring good information and Money
Daughter: Expo opened, I have not been to it
me: so hot, I decided not to, vote in the drawer, take the
daughter: I afraid I lose ah
: Expo opened, Shanghai is now the safest place in the country, super-multi-armed plain-clothes, where were you want to lose?
Grandma: either I go with
(grandmother will not have enough confidence to keep up)
Pro to the former, and grandmother stop the annoying chatters repeatedly asked her daughter, how the car turn how Metro Expo, how to eat
daughter: Can you not so bothersome, I can not take you.
Grandma: Well, I went to Shanghai will not only do you bother to follow
night ten o'clock, I received a daughter, Tel: mom, we are now on the train, the train X point X separately, About X minutes, you count the time to pick us.
the car to the rear, her grandmother laughed like a flower, and tolerance can not help, I am excited to say
Today I go to the hospital with her braces amendments are bought her ticket responsible for route to the hospital, his doctor said registration, I really just followed her have nothing to control
look at the map to the Expo to pick her line is complex, with to dinner, went to see other people are adult care of children, I just sat by her responsible for all meals delivered to my hands. Where I see things at the Expo, she told me that what my grandmother told me you fancy Well, I bought you.
trust their children, not verbal encouragement, is a real understanding of your child, believe that their ability to boldly, is the real trust
xxiii, results are clouds
after primary school, when his daughter was still in kindergarten, not to run their own examinations to teach others. Sometimes the subject of thinking to do and others do not like. Such as a math problem, a five Apple stores sell the morning, afternoon, seven pears sold, ask if you are the owner of the fruit into the what, why? What kind of fruit is just a simple comparison which sold more than entered. She replied, if I were the owner to enter strawberries, because I like to eat strawberries. When I accidentally saw this exam, the laugh to the wind messy. Well, I really do not think this is a problem, but the teacher must be an answer to see this black line. One can imagine, though not bad, but her grades will not be good
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