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first children to take the initiative to do their homework on how to make children obedient
second third advisable
how to adviser their children voluntarily
fourth child learn how to manage emotions
fifth Children love to learn how to treatises



sixth chapter to learn how to eliminate the child's anxiety
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how to make the child converge on how to eliminate the eighth chapter of confusion
children learn how to make the child chance the ninth chapter negative into a positive
10th chapter how to foster children's self-confidence
how to eliminate the child's tenth one inferiority
how to alteration the child's twelfth chapter the advantages disadvantages



one, so that children want to do your homework
quite obedient child, is a gentle horse, but folk often say . Indeed, unless the horse is very thirsty, or, even now they can send it to the water's brim to go, do not let him take the initiative to nectar.
first one, homework period should not be also long.
second move, amplify the children's benefits.
third measure, learning can not be too fast.
fourth move, so he likes the girls to take home.
fifth move, let the children fill
sixth trick melodrama, to stimulate her and make him go entire out.
seventh move, is so anti-that.
eighth trick, often changing the learning environment.
ninth trick out a homework schedule.
tenth trick, put the kids to do good homework.
eleventh move, let the children along drawing lots.
twelfth trick, do not magistrate the preceptor in front of the children

Second, how to make children obedient sensible
communicate with children,Asics Tokidoki Mex Lo, be sure to listen carefully to him, let him feel the parents of his attention and respect, so that the child will be to establish a small self-esteem up, he will talk with the adults, seriously calculate about their own and do want to express their views, which the children's reasonable preoccupied habits have a good help. Of course, adults and children when the interchange should also pay attention to some details, so as to make children more rapidly and good communication.
first one, compliment the child by the jaws of a third party.
second measure, with letters or diaries to share their feelings with their children.
third measure, with a mild tone of conversation.
fourth move, time to let children understand what went wrong.
fifth trick, clever migrate of the child's attention.
sixth move, merge with the children.
seventh move, once only explain one thing.
eighth trick, often express the child's confidence.
ninth trick, to mention only constructive remarks.
tenth trick, do not blame the children have been thwarted.
eleventh move promptly to correct the details of the lives of poor children.
twelfth trick, then naturally more than a child with gratitude.



Third, how to guide children voluntarily
there is a saturation rule is that children are adapted to feeling tired. Although the mighty want to have purpose, and can appreciative the fun asset done, but for many lessons in the feeling of resistance, can not continue to take the initiative to do things, whether the required level of rebate, to depress the weight delegations, continue to foster children in cheap when the vigor, then they slump over, will raise sense of responsibility, be more stimulated to do homework.
1st 1, due to lower demand as kid
second measure, let the kids do not like the subject
third measure, the pace of extension initiatives with the same compel
fourth move, so children eat first hard
fifth move, interest is the best teacher
sixth move, the mother of the most important incentive
seventh move, to change the child first, eighth change your viewpoint
strokes, sometimes alleging with the children to speak
certify of the ninth trick, not scolding a child while he vanquished the tenth trick
give children the appropriate amends is effective
eleventh move, and more children with nature near to
twelfth trick, success is not so complicated for you dream the thirteenth trick
, vigorous self-motivation among children
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Fourth, how to let the children learn to manage sensations
adolescent children often dissatisfied with their parents, because with growing demands from the self, the absolute conflict with the provisions of the parents, the parents must attempt to conquer this difficult transition duration, so that children grow up successfully adult.
first one to lead the children to vent discontent
second measure so that children have the right optional subjects
third measure carefully hear to children's voices of discontent
fourth recruit children into the role of the buyer
Do not let the busy fifth recruit to be your pretext to move the democratic approach to the sixth
unreasonable demands
seventh move the child to recede to argue and educate
eighth trick to handle with the real pros and cons obstinate attitude
ninth trick disburse attention to guiding the child's herd intellect
tenth trick to give children a vent space


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mode in spoon-feeding training, learning itself is a prototype of the process, or even advert no like it, regardless of children's learning amused alternatively not interested, sitting in the desk over and over another and look by the books, this is a cause of the children are tired.
first one to the children about some of the more inspirational anecdote
second recent recruit learning objectives to inspire children
third measure strewed children's attention is likewise essential to get rid of his children
fourth recruit minute heat habits
fifth move via increasing appetite for learning
sixth trick to educate children learn the strength of
seventh migrate to save the right sum of exercise can be more amenable
child heads with trying to rally the eighth trick ninth trick for kids to learn
sense of emergency to subserve the use of effective learning
tenth trick to reserve the content fresh learning
eleventh trick amenable reading different subjects deliberately alter the air
twelfth trick kids learning environment

six, children learn how to eliminate stress
a parent must be aware of its reasoning, we should offer appropriate counseling and solacing the child, the child can clear the nervousness approximately the result of the psychological, and often with an optimistic witty tone, escalator the child a sense of fear in the black accidentally so that they have a high degree of self-confidence and courage to face one afterward variant the size of the challenge.
first one to attach the child to feel safe
second measure to dilute the optimistic tone of the child's sense of humor failure
third meter mention thirty days to a month
fourth recruit more attention The importance of a child's psychological evolution can regulate breathing
fifth move the sixth child emotional
move deliberately in front of children make errors
seventh move mascot stable mood
determine the plot to think eliminating the eighth trick tension a spit faster

7, how to make the child focus
mama should suitably modify assignment timetable, and not to cede the established maneuver, this can only be co-ordinated performance, even in some children Next to reading, when having amusement playing the envy of others, center secluded indignation, it ambition affect his future interest in reading.
first one roundabout clue skills
second measure developed random schedule
third measure sub-clock Magical
fourth recruit to build a flexible homework schedule
fifth move to remove
ninth trick with the

eight, children learn how to eliminate the muddle
for the mother, its eyes meaningless mini things, sometimes the hearts of children is often a massive burden,Asics Rotation 77, so the mother should always put ourselves in the sake of the children, a spectator attitude to help children solve problems in life.
first one to lead the children to make the right choice
second measure asks the choices decree induced
third measure to set an alternative to query for the smart prelude of the fourth recruit black cows
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fifth move unplug the mist of confusion distress
sixth boat to cross the bridge move it?
seventh stroke is the most mysterious experience of hiding
eighth trick fate in our minds

9, how to change the negative into positive children
many entities in life can not, merely just can not live without hope, hopeful location, life is endless! For children, we should forever encourage them not to let them have negate feelings.
first one to find the underlying causes of child negative
second measure your child publicly announced target
third measure physical fitness is the basis of a positive attitude
fourth recruit good habits to maintain a positive attitude sorcery
fifth move so that children develop the habit of reading noisily
sixth move forward to reach the school so that children develop agreeable habits
seventh move so that more children make a positive and optimistic friends
first Bazhao so that children develop the habit of prose roles
ninth trick children to do housework to obtain rid of depression
tenth trick to do more to encourage children to try fashionable
; eleventh move children to foster a sense of responsibility in the household do not always ask
twelfth trick is not a problem with the foster child argumentative move XIII
positive attitude
XIV recruit more praise and less reproof, it enables the child motivated

10th chapter above how to develop children's self-confidence
the merit of life depends on our own! Tell the child,Asics Mexico 66 Lauta, who as an neutral thing, is solitary, and never forget this, let the children know the amount of his existence, to promote his positiveness, make more efforts to establish their own personality and future.
first one to narrate the children is expensive
his second child to do some effortless trick to do
third measure disable the child's errors highlight the accomplishments of its attention to the child of fourth recruit

effort to reprove the child ahead the fifth move must first move to reinforce the merit praise
sixth to seventh child continued progress
recruit high goals and establish the child's self-confidence
eighth recruit native dependency br> twelfth trick memories of the quondam achievements of their children reconstruct confidence

tenth one on how to eliminate the child's sense of inferiority
eliminate emotions of inferiority and amplify self-confidence, in truth, either sides, the two have to supplement each additional, whatsoever, mentioned the before section develop self-confidence capabilities, not exclusively targeted at meager children, namely is, for retarded or meager representation of children, constantly can not be efficacious. And this part is differ from the before part, can be widely seemly to the competence of poor children.
first move from the know the hearts of the children with the words tie
fifth move to eradicate child's psychological
sixth recruit children to peruse biographies of large men the world
seventh move their children with good theoretical results and objective peek
face first Bazhao foster child some special aptitude
ninth trick to weaken the child's sense of inferiority controversy luck

how to change the child's twelfth chapter the advantages disadvantages of the mother would always prompt
correct shortcomings, so the children will themselves knew, however, self-demanding child, will often worry their disadvantages, so the mother direct verbal damage, often have the opposite achieve, so that he no self-confidence.
first one with the appropriate way for children to residence shortcomings
second measure excuse other children in front of children informed of delinquency
third measure is to discriminate among the shortcomings or identity
fourth trick to change the child's rank his self-law who
fifth recruit child's shortcomings and advantages of interchangeable
sixth trick to eliminate the child's lusts satisfied oblique
seventh move to use the menace of discipline or implied temperate effect
eighth recruit himself suggests the shortcomings of the children do not have the authorization
ninth trick to suppress the child's resistance
tenth trick encourage children to / p>.



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every morning, Toby woke up, Susan, to the breakfast table a release, to just keep running around tending to the. Toby climbed up on their own stool, drink milk, eat toast. Meal, he returned to his room, in the closet to find clothes, shoes, and then put their own. Toby,mbt chapa, after all, only 3 years old, still unclear about the positive and negative children, can not distinguish left and right foot shoes. Toby once again wear pants on backwards, I quickly stepped forward to help him change, but was Susan stopped. She said that if he felt uncomfortable off on their own, re-dressed; if he did not feel any discomfort, it will be with him. All that day, Toby is dressed in his pants to run around, as Susan did not see the same.



again, Toby and the neighbor kids out to play, no more breathless to run home to the General Assembly, to Susan, said: Anti-wear, is it true? Susan smiled and said: Since then, Toby had never wearing anti-pants.



I can not help but think, at the age of my granddaughter fifty-six not use chopsticks, elementary school will not tie his shoe. Now boarding at the junior high school, she brought home every weekend do a lot of dirty clothes.



day at noon, Toby disgruntled, refused to eat. Susan said that his few words, angrily pushing the plate a little Toby to the ground, spilled food on a plate in one place. Susan looked at Toby, said earnestly: laughed within herself, this mother and son, are all very stubborn!



afternoon, Susan and I discuss in the evening for me to cook Chinese food. I take the hint, Toby bid farewell to eat Chinese food, it must be noon Susan Toby did not feel good to eat, let him eat more at night.



display cooking that night I did a Toby favorite Sweet and Sour Pork, shrimp oil boring, but also pasta made with Chinese-style cold noodles. Toby likes to eat the kind of noodle, full of little people can eat a big plate.



began to eat dinner, and Toby joyfully climbed the stool. But Susan came, took away his plate and knife and fork, said: to cry in tears, weeping, said:



I feel bad, and want to make Toby plea, say a good word, a wink to me, was surprised to find his son. Remember when I first came to the United States, his son told me that, in the United States, parents educate their children,mbt shoes clearance, others do not intervene, even if the elders are no exception. Helpless,mbt uk, I had to remain silent.



the meal, from beginning to end, the poor little Toby has been sitting in toy car, looked on helplessly while the three of us adults devour. This I understand that I do lunch Susan real intention. I believe that next time, Toby would like to throw tantrums when their jobs will certainly remember their stomachs to see my parents and grandmother meal experience. Hungry taste bad experience, or face Moreover, their favorite food.



before going to sleep, with the whereabouts of Toby, Susan and I say good night. Toby carefully asked: After sleep sleep Open your eyes, you can eat? Toby shining.



most cases, Toby eat very positive, he did not want to Every time I see places to eat Toby, hard at breathing, his face sticky lips are food, I think of her granddaughter. She, like Toby so much, in order to coax her to dinner, a few adults holding jobs with the rear end of her run, she did not buy it, but also about the conditions: after eating a bowl of buying toys, eat a bowl of buying a Toys ... ...


eye for an eye, but few people that the body





one day, we took Toby to the park to play. Soon, Toby and two girls playing on the kitchen game. Plastic pot, a small shovel, small plates, small bowl placed over the floor. Suddenly, a mischievous Toby picked up the pot, knocking his head hard on a girl a bit, the girl froze a moment, burst into tears. Another smaller number of young girls, see some cases, have been scared into tears. Toby did not expect about such serious consequences, would stand in amazement.



Susan walked up,mbt trainers, opening and cleaning the whole matter, she said nothing, picked up the pot, hard knock to the head of Toby, Toby did not preparedness, suddenly fell to the grass and cry randomly together. Susan Toby asked: I'm sure he'll never do it.



Toby's uncle presented him with a light blue small bike, like Toby, as a baby, not let anyone touch. Neighbor girl Lucy is a good friend Toby, Toby several times begged to ride to his car, Toby did not answer.



time, when several children play together, while Lucy, Toby, do not pay attention, secretly ride car, sped away. Toby discovered, came to the Susan angrily complain. Susan is the mother of several children and chat with a cup of coffee,mbt anti shoe, he smiled and said:



After a little while, Lucy was riding the car back. Toby saw Lucy, a will she fall to the ground, grabbed the car. Lucy sitting on the floor and cried. Susan picked up Lucy, to appease her for a while. Soon, Lucy and other children happily play again.



Toby will be riding their own cars, feel a little silly, seeing that having so many children happy, he wanted to join, and feel a little embarrassed. He rubs up against Susan around, muttered: close to Lucy, she is coming around when they turned back. Back and forth several times, do not know when to begin, Toby and Lucy and a big grin, downtown has become a group.


do parents raise the children





Susan's parents live in California, I heard I'm coming, they drove to visit us. Home to the guests, Toby is very excited, run up and come down to earth rampant. He used to play with sand bucket filled with water, put the keg in the house walking around. Susan warned her several times, not the water spill to the floor, Toby ignored. Finally, Toby, or the bucket prostrate, and the water spilled over the floor. Excited little Toby do not feel wrong, and also proud to play barefoot treading water, the pants all wet. I quickly find out the mop for mopping the floor. Susan grabbed the mop from my hand to Toby and said: Susan apart from anything else, directly to the storage room he pulled, closed confinement. Toby heard crying inside the earth-shattering issue, I feel bad bad, want to go pick him out. Toby's grandmother has stopped me and said: Mom, I was wrong. two lines of tears. He took a swab of his two struggling with high water drag on the ground clean. Then he took off his pants, carry in their hands and bare buttocks into the bathroom, splinters from the clothes to wash.



Toby's grandparents looked amazing I look, smiled with deep wisdom. It left me with deep feelings. In many Chinese families, parents discipline their children, often cause a



Later, I chat with Toby's grandparents, the mention of the matter, Toby's grandfather said the words, so I was very impressed. He said that children are the parents of the child, parents must respect the child's education. The child is small, but it is born diplomat, when he saw the differences between family members, he will be very clever at exploiting loopholes. This is not only no benefit to improve his behavior, it will lead to increasingly serious problem, and even more other problems. Moreover,mbt sport shoes, conflicts between family members, family atmosphere will bring disharmony children more insecurity, the psychological development of children adversely affected. Therefore, both parents educate their children with grandparents in the event of a disagreement on the issue, or the husband and wife have different concepts of education, are not in front of children in conflict.



Toby's grandparents lived in the house for a week, ready to return to California. Before I left for two days, Toby's grandfather solemnly asked his daughter: give him a pair of roller skates as a gift to the Christmas toy excavator as a gift to buy him! guy, but then I took Toby to the supermarket, he pointed to the toy excavator, said:



Although Susan Toby so strict, Toby incredibly loving mother to Quedui. He was playing outside, it will collect some nice flowers or leaves his considered beautiful, solemnly given to mother; someone gave him a gift, he would call her mother to join him apart; what delicious, but also always leave half of it to her mother.



think of many Chinese children's ignorance and indifference of parents, I had to admire my foreign wife. In my opinion, the child's problems in education, the American mother has a lot to learn from the Chinese mother.

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