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【users stubbornly alive
oral, Liu Suifeng finishing】
saw a couple of days ago after the retirement of the news on 80, with 74.1% after 80 because of work pressure and can not care for the elderly subject, I was struck, so that I have urban and rural areas after 80 after 80 different concepts on aged parents analogy. I as a rural baby, the question for the support parents and I felt this pressure, now in the city hard-earned money, that is, how to make down the plot, for parents to do with old age, as for the three years of marriage wife, the same idea of holding such a hard work in the field with me, so that after the parents are not living the old pain and desperately worried about money, since even the children did not dare to, first, afraid of losing the opportunity to work and take a Now the cost of raising a child is too high, just a few days off after several years more, and then to children.
I think the question about the support their parents, is unalterable. In our rural areas, this belief has always been hailed as the fundamental way and acted, the so-called virtues of filial piety as the first, if even the most basic support obligation of parents can not do this to the time, they did not lift their heads man. But the fact of the factors is that we face after 80 support two of four elderly people, or of the eight; because the vast majority of child under the premise of social and family patterns created such a structure way. And this constitutes the family structure, the face of today's rising prices, medical expenses, the case remains high, as 80 after the wife and I managed to face the pressure of life.
I remember a month ago, the wife's mother called and said the body was not comfortable Laozhang Ren, because the weather is hot, but insisted on going to land head busy with farm work, the results in that scorching heat spent a few hours later, sickly way home, wife's mother saw the look Laozhang Ren has been in high spirits, with the catch at fever after the soil is still not go away, feeling no energy, and quickly sent him to town hospitals, the results of several the world come and spend a thousand yuan of money. Outstanding, wife's mother is also said to his wife over the phone, this year, and consequently can be bad, but not to poor health, both of us to look old to you. Wife grabbed the microphone, all right until I heard my father did settle down. Yes ah, as rural people, old age is the fear of what? Is birth, old age ailments. Do not like city people, living with security and community health care assistance, you can enjoy the health insurance. But we rural people, but can not enjoy the benefits of such a mechanism. I will not speak now the implementation of pension insurance system in the country, but for us the kind of backwater, the first year of busy down in the fields of income, sufficient only to maintain basic food and clothing, the old-age insurance has become one of the yellow water, looking forward to touch the . In this context, students living outside the old pain is only expected to children, we hope that the rural wage earners, who work to supplement the family income or the income to provide basic protection life.
and I remember that I read in junior high school second grade, my mother did not timely treatment for appendicitis, almost fell to the ground the home of the pit stage, but the clerk get together in the village Next, the doctor finally gather the money to save a mother's life. At that time, the mother's words, think about the past forbearance, so did not expect this disease could even harm. Think about, ah, a disease, a simple appendix operation, the best treatment because the time delay, the results took more than five thousand yuan can only be good. This money, only to my junior high school after graduation and eventually also in other provinces to work on. And now this time a full 13 years later, everything is gone up, this time I doubt if the next of kin of life today, the old pain, he did not save money under the premise, watching their loved ones affected by pain and suffering, it is a What a sad thing ah. Perhaps the situation at the time the mother left me a deep impression, so loved ones can save money with no fear. In my later work, I always tighten their belts, the money has been respected the idea to use the knife's edge, all the expenses actually possible savings, in that meager wages, and bring to the lowest cost of living. This approach, when just to the holidays, make their delivery earned money in the hands of their parents, so that the wrinkles on their faces blossoming mottled drawn to a beautiful pattern. After marriage, always thought a home in the efforts of two people will have better lives, the pressure will be relaxed some,
pandora jewelry, but the situation tells us. Life is like Tuo gong, you can not tolerate the slightest bit complacent. My wife and I have only one child, but all the elders have become the focus of our lives, how to let them enjoy their twilight years is our goal. As a result, money has become our strong reason to live for their pension nail in the coffin became our only objective.
always thought that books that gradually increase in the number of let the glory out our eyes, but the festival every year to make this bill will always invisible to shrink, the parents would call me every time we pull their hearts, their health has become our biggest worry. I think this is our rural people and city people the difference between it, they can have access to health security, retirement pay can be, but we have nothing of rural people, there is only a piece of land, and only two hands, so that the ground long the crops to support the survival of our rural people the purpose of the older generation, and as we are after 80, it is the parents of the future as the goal of our life, to save money is the last word. We thought, in order to enable both parents to enjoy their twilight years, hundreds of thousands saved up enough to be able to carry Bu Xiaozi we do not count, before we can allow them to live happier. This is what we live hundreds of thousands of fun and hope for life, but now after ten years of Pinbo we've achieved that goal gradually.
Although the baby as a rural, but we work hard day to run around outside, and my heart always was attached to his family was attached to parents, the concept is always around the house completely installed in the heart. Because, as we are concerned, parents Cheng Huan is the greatest happiness and joy. And when I live in the city to work as time goes by, the face of the same age as the city with my 80, very different ideas for parents manage when I have mixed feelings. Can not think of the city's 80, has a geographical advantage of their innate, in the issue of retirement money for their parents and our intention to have a world of difference between rural people, they just learned to \They work in the face of pressure to buy a house sights on the wife's parents retirement money, aimed at the protection of their lives when the last trace, given the impact is considerable. How can I did not think the young people in the same era, in dealing with the issue of the parents have different ideas and practices. As our rural baby, the bear to see their own parents because of their future life problems linked to the degree of intestinal led, rather early exploit parents dropped out of school to give up the glory of physical and life, home work hard for the family to stir up a young man should assume responsibility.
this rule of life that we, with the city after the age of 80 has a vastly different choices. They will buy a car on the issue of marriage, put the sights on the future of life in the future, only to rely on parents to \Machine reunion weekend on Saturday the parents of the oil in the name of wiping his wet, proudly to their parents as the family's center of gravity, they are the children never grow up. And because today's living environment and the pressure of work, so they bite their future on the basis of the old. Perhaps, thanks to the city one can enjoy the health care system factors it. Support parents facing the issue back to the city a sense of confusion and uncertainty 80. This situation, I do not know as how to look after the city's 80 issues of filial piety. Is the old in their own family when eating, when they grow old, their fragmentation into nursing homes? Is their goal in life is to exploit their parents retirement money? Why is their way of life and deal with the issue of parents in rural areas of our life after 80 has a different idea of it? We can save hundreds of thousands of parents to old age, but after doing the city's 80 Neet it?
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