The third issue is the specific learned her confirm what;
second question is in fact encourage her to increase her self-confidence;
a father his daughter's education means more unique, he has never coached his daughter what to do homework is a daily ten-minute chat with her daughter back, just talk about four issues, to complete his family education. These four questions are:
1. What good schools happen?
2. Today you have any good performance?
3. Today there is any good harvest?
4. What is there to my father's help?
behind the seemingly simple question in fact contains a wealth of meaning:
in educational philosophy, we should educate their children, the most critical is the parent-child relationship properly handle. If the hearts of parents to establish the absolute responsibility of the child, the children believe their parents unconditionally love yourself and believe that all criticism of the parents in recognition of the departure is to own good, if the child in the subconscious to fully believe this,
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Whose parents are loving their children, but 98% of Chinese parents the wrong way to love as love. Example, the best thing for children to eat, the best clothes to wear, this is just a way of love, not love itself. Parents are often the love is conditional, such as occur as long as the exam got the top three to take you where to go and so on.
If you really understand the above six words, education is the easy thing boy.
love is a life like the feelings of another life is a relationship of equality, is unconditional,
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1. the absolute prohibition of pressure / practice of hitting children, the establishment of equal relations.
2. truly and unconditionally love their children, give them the love of the spiritual sense.
3. must respect the child's independent personality.
4. by teaching children a positive way, often in recognition of their encouragement.
5. align the parent-child relationship, this is the most important point.
6. pay attention to the spirit of the child's personality.
first question is in fact investigating her daughter's values and understanding of her heart she felt what is good and what is bad;
fourth question is has two meanings, first, I care about you, and second,
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is this simple four issues, including a lot of care in which concern, in fact, proved very effective.